Why is it so hard for some Dudes to get laid

[Mandarin Duck]

Do you all not feel a physical or emotional need for sex? So confused right now

One of the stages of grief is acceptance.
Seem like they just accepted that they ain't getting p*ssy

 

[aboss4real24]

How the hell is this 15 pages

Ya nikkas really dnt get p*ssy

 

[Kufismack]

Do you all not feel a physical or emotional need for sex? So confused right now

Again, I hate socializing. For me, the negative of forcing myself to socialize and potentially get some outweigh the positive, sexual gratification of getting booty. Most people won't understand that.

 

[aboss4real24]

Alot of u south nikkas cant get p*ssy cuz ya swagless

Ya need to learn from the Eastcoast gz

Listen to sum 50 , cam, fab, jada, sheek louch

 

[Art Barr]

I don't know, I usually side with you breh but I don't know. I gotta friend who's hyper aggressive and he don't score nothing at all and he stay harrassing females. I think game is different now than the old days, think most dudes attract attention from a female and take it from there, which is why nikkas stay talking money and status and gym and all that, once she likes what she sees you mostly good, nikkas who just run up on hoes tend to lose, women these days get creeped out.

in the long tun your friend who actually pursues is going to win, against nikkaz waiting for shyt to fall in their lap.
plus, stop taking females idea about calling nikkaz who pursue a creep out on your friend.
what type of nikka is you.
look down in your man's who actually hollers.
then, give props to nikkaz who don't.
nikkaz who wait on a female to show interest are beta and lame.
yes, beta nikkaz get ass.
They usually the fodder who got married and now crying in divorce, too.
as the let Gen was all dumps.
even the cheater nikkaz,...
I can't stand plus forty ass nikkaz, cause they some simps.
never put value in a nikka who takes all warm calls and never hollers at a female.
those be the doormat face ass nikkaz when they in committals.
as, they only used to taking what a female approaches them with.
when, it get late in the game.
you gon see how they fail.
plus, if you follow their huff ass lead.
you gon fail right with them.

Art Barr

 

[miranda]

One of the stages of grief is acceptance.
Seem like they just accepted that they ain't getting p*ssy

But it's a basic human need. I just feel they will end up depressed and physically sick at best, suicidal at worst

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

The best decision I ever made. Made me realize that bullshyt behavior from these harlots that are local should never be tolerated.

nice. Where did u venture out to? Where r u from?

 

[Art Barr]

How does the lust for casual sex correlate to this? human beings don't engage in casual sex (which is what op wants) to reproduce. They do it to satisfy the flesh.

you got issues or you damaged or sumfin?


Art Barr

 

[Roid Jones]

The reality is some nikkas get p*ssy easier than others, dudes see that and when they ain't getting as easy as somebody else they think its impossible and virtually give up.

It's not impossible, you just gotta work harder than a good-looking nikka

I agree, everyone has their own plight and you may just have to put in massive amount of work compared to another man to get results.

Also forums like this and the Misc (section of bodybuilding.com) really don't help as many posters create a blatantly false representation of the male, female dynamic within the real world. I've seen men that are short, fat, skinny, balding, can't drive, ginger or whatever is deemed unattractive still have positive interactions with women, but in the aforementioned forums, the consensus is such things are impossible and some men believe this.

 

[Art Barr]

Actually, people have a good time when I'm around. I know how to be social, and I can carry a conversation well with the opposite sex. My friends have told me on a few occasions that I should have no problem pulling females, but I don't have any options right now.

My issue is chicks don't give me that signal that they're interested. Maybe, I'm missing the signals, but I doubt it. That's what I meant when I said that if a chick isn't feeling me, I won't even bother. I'm not wasting my time talking to a chick who obviously isn't interested, and inflate her ego. Let her get that shyt from social media, not me.

where do you live?

 

[Aceofspades404]

you got issues or you damaged or sumfin?


Art Barr

None of the above. I just believe that sex should be between a husband and a wife.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Lack of confidence and social awkwardness are two HUGE factors but it's also like my nikka @SwiggyCabrera24 said. People aim way too high. I don't believe in a such thing as "leagues" because that's a myth.. and I don't like to generalize shyt either but lets be honest. If you are an overweight dude or if you broke and ain't got your shyt together or whatever it may be, there are a lot of females that you will probably not be able to get.

So what do you do? You got two options. You take what is there and be happy with that or you make changes. But be careful. Don't go and change shyt about yourself for women. First you gotta want to be that for yourself. Don't obtain a degree and acquire a better job because you want more p*ssy. Do it because it feels good. Do it because you want more money and a better lifestyle. Don't lose weight for broads. Do it because you want to be healthy and you want to be a sexy muthafukka

The happier you can be for yourself is the key to everything. bytches will follow.

 

[Art Barr]

I'm noticing a lot of women refusing sex b/c there's no commitment. We're in the hit it and quit it days and a lot of women are passing on that bullshyt.

Can u blame us tho? To have sex we're having to pump a bunch of hormones in our bodies, worry about pregnancy scares, and STDs all for 10 minutes on a dude with a potentially bad stroke game who don't give a damn about you when he nuts?! Lmao!

Nahhh. I'm good. And a lot of other women are starting to feel the same way.

ten minutes.

the females you talembout are lame and how you talk.
You lame in bed, too.
what female who is a beast in the bed talks like this.
lemme answer that for you,.....
none of them...
you need to have sex more to become secure in your sexuality.
you, talk like a female who you fukk and because they are insecure in Their sexuality.
Has deep issues with fukking.
not knowing how to keep virtue and think it is lost every time you open your legs in standard fukking.
females like that are bushes status, or low ranking team members on the roster.
Never a committal,...
females like you get cheated on by cheaters looking for a beast in the bed.
to offset your lack of sexual maturity.


Art Barr

 

[miranda]

my desire for wealth outweighs my desire for sex/intimacy

Again, I hate socializing. For me, the negative of forcing myself to socialize and potentially get some outweigh the positive, sexual gratification of getting booty. Most people won't understand that.

Ok i guess if thats working for u. just don't damage yourselves with all this porn in the meantime and end up like a lot of these coli dudes unable to perform with or enjoy a real woman when the time comes

None of the above. I just believe that sex should be between a husband and a wife.

thought that might be it

 

[Art Barr]

None of the above. I just believe that sex should be between a husband and a wife.

you never gon get married thinking like this.
a sexually secure man, who is actualized does not want a committed with a female with your attitude.
as, you wait to get married to fukk and she is not secure with fukking and it is huff.
your first duty when seeking a mate is to mate, period.
after you do that shyt right all the time.
then, you can do all that relationship shyt and get to know somebody.
You not gon get to know nobody without them being your mate first, period.
You can believe that old maid bullshyt all you want, and fail.


Art Barr