Why is it so hard for some Dudes to get laid

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I know I will get called a cac or c00n but these are the main reasons

1. Black men have a skewed perception of women because the black community is in a unique position.
2. Black men talk a lot of shyt about GMB/HOH but still don't really understand how evil and soulless women really are.
3. Black men deny the importance of looks and genetics when it comes to attracting women.
4. Black men's minds have been warped by the porn/media and they think all women desire them. Most don't.
5. Black women are not as sought after as other races of women, so they have less opportunities and are "stuck" with black men. They are not "loyal" to black men.
6. If they had the option black women would swirl just as much as Asian women.
7. Black men think they have game, but most black women are just desperate and have to share a man, or starve.
8. Also a black men's idea of game is really beta providing or tricking if you want to use black terms. Having to get your money and woo women with expensive clothes, gadgets, and cars is not game. It's soft prostitution. Men with good genetics fukk for free.

I can't really say I agree with most of your points, but i kind of see where you're coming from.

1. The black community has definitely been placed in a uniquely negative situation, but I'd argue that it has generally made its members more realistic as opposed to delusional. The perception of women is only skewed if you consume the media.

2. Women aren't evil nor souless, but they are crafty and cunning because of their historical position in society. And if black men talk about GMB/HOH I don't see how they are oblivious to the potential dark side of females.

3. Looks play an important part with what attracts most men. Who that man chooses to be his wife may be different though. I don't know who, if anyone, is really checking for 'genetics'.

4. Anyone who consumes porn will become delusional over time. Many women do desire black men, but an intimate relationship is a different story bc of stigma. Still there are more interracial relationships now than ever.

5. Black women are the least desirable bc attractive black women aren't marketed. If all you saw were pretty black women promoted then that would get average chicks to step their game up. Black women aren't sexualized at all. Rap videos stopped featuring them and black porn died a over a decade ago. Black women are the best mates, but this is heavily undermined by society.

6. Asian women and black women are too different to compare. Asians are only fetishized for submission. White men feel like they can take their women and this is furthered by asian families promoting marriage with them. If black women were sexually promoted it wouldn't be coupled with what comes with asians. Plus they would be desirable to many so then they would have their choice. Their decision to date out wouldn't be based on submission to white supremacy.

7. The black women you speak of sound like the bottom of the barrel.

8. Black men engage in stunting for their own sake. Other men are more likely to actually engage in 'soft' prostitution

Your perception seems to be influenced by the consumption of porn amd the media. Or you're hanging around the wrong dudes.
 

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95% of the time it's either your ugly
You are lower than a 6 and girls want a 6 or higher
You are obese
Or you are just some creepy as dude
 

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Here's some shyt















Watch these videos
Understand testosterone and how they affect ya facial features and everything
Even your personality by sending out pheromones
Just the way of the world
We ain't no different of the animal kingdom
 

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Expound please.

I believe that black women make the best mates for a man because of their ability to adapt to and support their partner. They offer a lot of culture, character, and make excellent mothers. And they are typically loyal.

I believe American society has undermined these traits to the point of sin. Black women have been stereotyped and otherwise bullied by America and this creates barriers for these women in all realms of their life. If black women were portrayed properly then they would be in high demand.
 

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Girls are easy to knock, hard to keep.

Lonely dudes lack true confidence and charisma. Pulling girls is 50% looks and material things. 50% how you can make her feel in that moment.

Guys with no confidence tend to be either overly awkward, or overly aggressive cuz they're acting to compensate for their insecurities. That in turn makes females uncomfortable. And these dudes get turned down not cuz they're ugly, but because they give the girl a bad feeling overall.

They're "creepers".
 

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I believe that black women make the best mates for a man because of their ability to adapt to and support their partner. They offer a lot of culture, character, and make excellent mothers. And they are typically loyal.

I believe American society has undermined these traits to the point of sin. Black women have been stereotyped and otherwise bullied by America and this creates barriers for these women in all realms of their life. If black women were portrayed properly then they would be in high demand.
 

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maybe we should draw a line on a sheet of paper and write

"why can't I find a woman to have sex with" on one side

and

"why can't I find women whom I deem worthy enough of my standards who will inflate my horrible sense of self worth and low self esteem by wanting to have sex with me and not the other way around" on the other....

and start from there.
 

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It's always been hard for most dudes to get laid and it's for biological/evolutionary reasons.

And you idiots wishing for the "good ole days" realize it was even harder to get p*ssy back then? :dahell: most nikkas had to get married just to get laid :dahell:
 

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I think a lot of it has to do with not giving enough effort and not appealing to the particular type of women that they want to appeal to. It's very tough for anyone who's depressed and feeling down about life to get anywhere socially with women from what I've seen. Some of these dudes who complain are already down on themselves and have a depressed attitude. Kent and the others on youtube who make videos about their usual results with women make this clear. I don't blame them either since people underrate how difficult it is for some people to be confident in themselves when they have nothing.

Anyone who's depressed about their life should not bother worrying about girls and sex. People swear that confidence is so important so why bother getting your hopes up for something that's not going to happen? 95% of women act as if dudes need to be confident, positive and entertaining to even get serious attention from them so they may as well give up on women and focus more on changing their life around.

:wow: you hit it right on the nail
 
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