That is true, but easier said than done, especially when people push ratchet behavior as the norm. Imagine you being in a sea full of trash and you the bar of soap
Why do y'all talk bad about single moms but.....
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That is true, but easier said than done, especially when people push ratchet behavior as the norm. Imagine you being in a sea full of trash and you the bar of soap
I can see that. I guess I lump myself in the category of men that prefer a woman that's successful as I am as well as physically attractive. I definitely see where you're coming from.
Nothing wrong with that breh.
People having self-respect, self-control, morals, and actual goals in life other than getting as much p*ssy as possible or getting as many nikkas to drool over you as possible is the only solution. No laws or pills will do the trick. It's up to each individaul to want better and to be better.
I say the best way to stop bad behavior is to clown them relentlessly and make their style played out. Shaming them would do the trick
@ that bullshyt.
Men check each other all the time. Especially when they ain't taking care of their kids right. Women are the ones that do fukked up shyt to CS money and raising their kids, but even the women with her head on her shoulders arestatus when it comes time to check their female peers that are fukking up. Straight scared that if they say a word about accountability, they will be blackballed from their circle.
"All it takes for the triumphant of evil is for Good Men to do nothing." Winston Churchill
Nothing is BS about it. Men in general encourage bad behavior. I can go to the first pay of this very forum or read through just about any thread and see a lot of ya'll encouraging each other to sleep with as many woman as possible, how to emotional manipulate women into liking you, to be untrusting of women, to lie, to abuse women, etc.
Don't believe me? Want to say I'm wrong? Check this this little number out:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/quick-lil-gems-on-dealing-with-women-thread.10146/
Quick lil gems on dealing with women thread....
These lovely quotes are on the first page:
"as a man the key to being in a successful relationship is to lie constantly, never tell her what's actually on your mind thats just gonna start problems."
"The average jumpoff allows 3-5 good smashes before she start gettin "ideas"
"Never feel sorry for them tough luck"
"Randomly take the condom off while fukking then say I think it broke. If she keep letting you smash, you gotta winner. If she dont, she's an untrustworthy bytch."
And that is just the first of 1200+ pages.
And you think that's not encouraging make behavior? You think that makes good men huh? You think that makes good fathers?
BM encourage very bad behavior and even go as far as to shame men who are/want to be in relationships ie "you lost," "you share that girl," "simp" and the list goes on. Good parents are good people. I don't what other type of men you expect to make when this is they type of behavior you glorify. These "bums" you all want to say is a minority just exemplify behavior that a majority of you think is acceptable. Hmmmmmm...interesting.
And to answer @marcus You check them by not encouraging the above mentioned behavior from the jump
Those male posters are obviously
around. We know the difference. Problem is, a lot of women will shyt on the ones that know right from wrong and practice that.okay, now you're co-mingling two different arguments. are we talking about how to get laid, or are we talking about deadbeat fathers? because the reality is, a lot of men trick women into fukking them. we cant just show up, spread our legs, and ask who wants this -- like women can. i want to know who is encouraging men to be dead beat fathers.
oh, and as for @bdizzles comment "Randomly take the condom off while fukking then say I think it broke. If she keep letting you smash, you gotta winner. If she dont, she's an untrustworthy bytch.", it's kinda sad y'all women are so far removed from your men that you can tell an obvious joke when you see it.
I say the best way to stop bad behavior is to clown them relentlessly and make their style played out. Shaming them would do the trick
You ever heard of denial? A lot of these people who do stupid shyt live in their own little world where that shyt is okay. They only listen to people who support them and vehemently reject any sort of criticism no matter how constructive. shyt is deep breh.
Why though? Where does this come from? This comes from a breakdown of families. This comes from men with thought processes like these regularly being rewarded and thusly encouraged. It's hard for a man who is alone or in a commited relationship to check a man who is getting all the p*ssy he can stand. It's like a guy who is in school or working his ass off at a legit job trying to check a dude who is making money hand over fist doing some illegal shyt. He will be met with the
until that guy ends up wounded or locked up. The biggest issue with the current state of male/female interaction is that not only are there no consequences for a guy being shytty it's actually celebrated and encouraged by men and women alike.
Those male posters are obviously
Ummm no. No they are not joking. But I like how you turned it around to be the women's fault again when the focus is on why you all are not hard on dead beats. What is even funnier is this :
I say the best way to stop bad behavior is to clown them relentlessly and make their style played out. Shaming them would do the trick
That is true, but easier said than done, especially when people push ratchet behavior as the norm. Imagine you being in a sea full of trash and you the bar of soap
This pretty much is EXACTLY what I am saying. Men do not make each other accountable. You made the exact same point. But I'm wrong and men are "just playing." *rolls eyes*
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You ever heard of denial? A lot of these people who do stupid shyt live in their own little world where that shyt is okay. They only listen to people who support them and vehemently reject any sort of criticism no matter how constructive. shyt is deep breh.
Why though? Where does this come from? This comes from a breakdown of families. This comes from men with thought processes like these regularly being rewarded and thusly encouraged. It's hard for a man who is alone or in a commited relationship to check a man who is getting all the p*ssy he can stand. It's like a guy who is in school or working his ass off at a legit job trying to check a dude who is making money hand over fist doing some illegal shyt. He will be met with the
Yep. The breakdown of this shyt is at hand.
So men who lie, cheat and use people are good fathers? If I told you a woman was all that I doubt you would say that was the type of person who would make a good mother. Do you think that a man who uses woman for sex (ie jumpoff) is more or less likely to be a deadbeat when said jump off is knocked up. Ya'll encourage the personification of a deadbeat.
As far as the quote, maybe that 1 quote was a joke but the rest were not and I can replace it with 1200+ quotes that are also not.
You ever heard of denial? A lot of these people who do stupid shyt live in their own little world where that shyt is okay. They only listen to people who support them and vehemently reject any sort of criticism no matter how constructive. shyt is deep breh.
Why though? Where does this come from? This comes from a breakdown of families. This comes from men with thought processes like these regularly being rewarded and thusly encouraged. It's hard for a man who is alone or in a commited relationship to check a man who is getting all the p*ssy he can stand. It's like a guy who is in school or working his ass off at a legit job trying to check a dude who is making money hand over fist doing some illegal shyt. He will be met with the
Yeah yeah yeah. I just was answering the question, "Why aren't guys hard on deadbead?" My answer, b/c men are do not hold each other accountable and even encourage the behavior. We can get all deep to the how's and why's but the same luxury is not given to these single mother's whose "fault" everything is so I am not really trying to hear all that. But I am glad you do acknowledge that bad behavior is encouraged. Yes it is encouraged on both sides but since this discussion is focused on the actions of men towards deadbeats then that is all I am focusing on. Women are beat up in every other thread.
see, now we're going rogue. when women dont have a valid point, they always seem to go rogue. a guy trying to find his way to some good p*ssy doesn't mean he'll automatically be a shytty father. as for women, many of them do lie, cheat and use others. go to LSA and view threads they've got on how to break men for their pocket books. go check out their escort or sugar daddy threads. you think these women will be truthful about their past to the poor guy that settles down w/them? come on, now.
i do believe men who use multiple women for sex are more likely to be a deadbeat parents, but you're stretching hard to make your point. like i previously asked, who is encouraging men to be dead beats to their children?
yeah, i don't think you can. thread is mostly guys venting about past or present relationships.
Either you wanna discuss the issue thoroughly or you just wanna ride for your side. You can't have it both ways. You are just as guilty of what you are accusing others of doing if you are unwilling to explore the issue in totality.
Again I ask for the third time in this thread what are guys supposed to say/do to deadbeats? How are they supposed to check them? Why are you only asking guys to check deadbeats? If it's a problem and something should be done about it why are you only asking half of the population to address it. Ironically enough the same half of the population that has never given anyone any p*ssy and can't be single moms. Why are you not asking women (who have much more power and sway as well as motivation to address the issue) to check men. Men can say or do whatever but as long as deadbeats are getting p*ssy deadbeats will be deadbeats.
It's like an ambitious, hardworking brother or sister trying to check their lazy sibling. As long as mom and dad enable their bullshyt what are you supposed to do about it?
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They just mad cause their fathers gave ma dukes the 
after hitting it and chucked up the deuces.
after hitting it and chucked up the deuces.