LOL...you're creating this idea and notion that women are consciously having kids with men that THEY KNOW will abandon their child, and leave them high and dry. This violates all basic common sense with respect to incentivizing. Women have to go through the pain of labor, and the decades long hardship of raising a child on their own. Men can just dip...so I think its fair to say that, generally speaking, women are under the assumption that they are going to have a future with these men, and are manipulated or led astray in some form.
You seem to assume that these women have any kind of common sense when they go around getting pumped and dumped by these guys and that they're carefully weighing the pros and cons of the men that they're
dating fukking around with. You also seem to think that men can "just dip" without any kind of social stigma or scorn, when it's the opposite that's quite true. You also seem to keep thinking that there aren't
really obvious signs that they're missing about these guys that they seem to conveniently miss when they're going around getting banged by all these guys, and continue to act like weren't obvious signs once they get knocked up by these losers. You
really think that these women are thinking about how hard it is to raise a child, go through labor, etc? shyt, they don't even think to use a damn condom or take the pill properly.
And before you say "THEY SHOULD KNOW BETTER!!!" --- well, poor judgement and bad decision making is fueled by things like personal self esteem issues, poor education, and troubled upbringings. This is often true for the males as well.
They
should know better. And this goes for the men, too. There are
lots of programs, planned parenthood locations in troubled areas, and other resources that are more than willing to teach these women how to properly use birth control and educate them on the ramifications of having a child at the wrong time in life with the wrong person. But they
still go and bang the wrong guys without the right protection and the wrong foresight into the future. Because it's like, so exciting at the moment and fukk using protection, right? But hey, let's all dismiss any kind of responsibility despite all the available resources because of self-esteem issues and whatnot.
But I would buy that you guys are simply well intentioned and want to see women make better choices, if not for the fact that you cats are complete hypocrites.
Who's the hypocrite here? The people that are holding women to the same standard as men, or the guys that want women to be held to the same responsibility standard as children? The reason that the coli points out that women are responsible for their own actions as well is because it's usually just the men in the mainstream that are held to this kind of a standard.
Someone has to point out that it takes two to tango and it might as well be here on the internet since nobody wants to say anything about it anywhere else.
Whenever we see examples or threads around here of women who are very selective, demanding, and have high qualifications for the men they date, you cats get outraged. You scream and cry about "hypergamy", "feminism", and victimize yourself as living in a world of entitled women who wont give an average man a shot.
This has absolutely nothing to do with the original post. But what the hell, let's address this non-related issue since we've run the former issue into the ground, anyway. Women who are of low sexual market value and low dating market value are the ones who get rightly criticized for having way too high of standards and acting like little princesses. It's nothing personal, it just happens.
So you see how these two worlds of thought are in direct conflict with each other? That signifies that you guys are full of sht. It doesnt take a nuclear physicist to figure out that you cats are just making sht up as you go along, and fitting everything around your caustic, nasty, mean-spirited, and negative views you have on all women.
Jesus, would you step off your soap box? Your corny, self-righteous posting about this is going to give me nausea. What worlds are in conflict? The fact that men are hammered on this in the mainstream kind of eliminates the need for it to be eliminated here. Realistically, both parties are responsible because it takes two to tango. Nobody is making shyt up as they go along, it's just stuff that you don't like and it goes against the ivory tower teachings that protect the sacred cow that is women. But this isn't about hating women, this is about hating when people continue patterns of poor decision making that put their future children in an extremely rough spot and make it much harder for them to succeed in the future.
And stop accusing people who point this shyt out of sexism and misogyny. These are valid points and your name calling just looks like a childish grab for attention.
