ilovejesus
Pro
unfortunately for a lot of guys in here this is true
Why do y'all talk bad about single moms but.....
- Thread starter KinksandCoils
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Exactly. By giving up the p*ssy, these women are just enabling them bum dudes to continue to be scumbag material. No incentive to do better.
havoc
Superstar
You are a naïve male poster. Women choosing abortion isn't going to impede irresponsible males from fukking everything in sight without a condom. Abortion should be never be an option to counter the problems of dead fathers not taking responsibility to care for their children.
Abortion is not going to solve anything. The disadvantage of promoting abortion as a solution is that irresponsible adults will continue to engage in unsafe sex. And we all know what is the common result of unprotected intercourse--STDs. Any man who choose to live a casual life need to be responsible in using contraceptive and make a wise decision in selecting a sex partner. This goes the same for women as well.
What you have to say to the men who has no intention to raise a child, but made it a choice to fukk women women without a condom ?
Most of you dudes failed to directly answer the Op's question.
It's on both people. Everyone knows the only way to get pregnant is to fukk, so before you do that you should be prepared for the worst. There is no excuse for a parent to not be there for the child, but bashing a father for not being there is not bringing a male figure into the picture and its not doing anything for the mother. BOTH Sides are equally responsible....BUT
A woman has to protect herself more. If you don't want to be a single mother than you shouldn't have a child with someone you're not with. Unfortunately it is easy for a man to disappear from a child's life but that needs to be taken into consideration by the female.
Dead beat dads don't have a support group and aren't championed among men who actually are worth a damn but we're also not finding ourselves in situations like this.
It's a double standard but it doesn't make anything less valid. There's nothing you can do to stop broken homes without making everyone abstinent. Pregnancies can happen by accident, but if you're fukking you're taking on that risk and from there it's on the two people to live with that risk.
The woman is easy to demonize now because we don't have a father in the picture to make the bad guy. The woman has to take the brunt of the criticism and has to take responsibilty for being in the situation. The world isn't an idealistic wonderland. Of course dad's should be around and fully involved but there also shouldn't be homelessness and hunger. People need to take full responsibility for their decisions and live with the effects their choices bring
A woman has to protect herself more. If you don't want to be a single mother than you shouldn't have a child with someone you're not with. Unfortunately it is easy for a man to disappear from a child's life but that needs to be taken into consideration by the female.
Dead beat dads don't have a support group and aren't championed among men who actually are worth a damn but we're also not finding ourselves in situations like this.
It's a double standard but it doesn't make anything less valid. There's nothing you can do to stop broken homes without making everyone abstinent. Pregnancies can happen by accident, but if you're fukking you're taking on that risk and from there it's on the two people to live with that risk.
The woman is easy to demonize now because we don't have a father in the picture to make the bad guy. The woman has to take the brunt of the criticism and has to take responsibilty for being in the situation. The world isn't an idealistic wonderland. Of course dad's should be around and fully involved but there also shouldn't be homelessness and hunger. People need to take full responsibility for their decisions and live with the effects their choices bring
mcdivit85
Superstar
You're right about your second point. However, you seem to avoid my question-wouldn't it be better to avoid the "shytty" guy in the first place?
Peace
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Oh my bad. Yes it would be best to avoid them
mcdivit85
Superstar
Are you broke? Are you fresh out the pen? Are you in need of a place to sleep and/or eat?
If not, why are you even entertaining a chick with 3 kids who was used to pass out her vagina?
Peace
Jone2three45
Supporter
To simply answer this topic's question....
1. Women have the ultimate power in sex when it comes to choosing partners.
2. In order to have sex, a woman must spread and open her legs to the man.
3. Protection is the key part that both genders should take full responsibility of. A ill man will never turn down raw p*ssy if he can get it. Ultimately the woman has the power to stop the man from entering her with or without a condom before sexual acts commence.
4. Having an abortion is an option that both genders should discuss. Ultimately the woman has the final power to decide if she wants to keep the baby or not.
5. Birthing a child will not keep a man. Especially if he wanted you to have an abortion. If you both never loved and cared for each other the why even spread your legs open for him?
6. Either chose better males when having sex and use proper protection or keep your fukking legs close until after you're married. There are some things in the bible that def make sense.
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havoc
Superstar
There are variables that arised in many circumstances. The cause that created a b*stardized child isn't always "the woman knowing her significant other isn't shyt, but still fukk him" . Sometimes it can be a dude who does everything right for his lady, but when is time for him to be a father, he isn't ready to be a father or doesn't have any desire to be a parent. Some people don't show their true colors until they see an effects they don't like that arose from their decision.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
You could have saved all of that because both are responsible for taking care of their kids. Not just the woman even if she is stupid enough to choose a horrible father for her child.
Jone2three45
Supporter
As sick a it is, man or woman is not responsible if they chose to not want to have or take care of their kids. Adoption agencies could prove that. If a man or woman does not want to take care of their kids then that's just what it is. You cannot make anyone do anything. As good or bad the situation may be, it is what it is. Either chose better males when having sex and use proper protection or keep your fukking legs close until after you're married.
philmonroe
Superstar
No I don't see what your saying. If you want that opinion you'd have to go on a mainly female messageboard. On a mainly male messageboard this is what you usually going to get and vice versa. Post this on a mainly female messageboard and you'll see the difference in how the thread goes.
We need male birth control in the form of a pill. That will shut down the unwanted babies and shut down the scam ass CS system.