Why do men get women they can't see a life with pregnant?

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Hey I get it been with my lady and getting married to her next year. So her getting seeded up I’m all for it. Just worried about the genetics since we both have a lot of degenerates on both sides. Also if I have a daughter I’m definitely going to have the strap since if she’s going to have a body type like me or her mother she’s definitely going to cause attention.
Get it regardless bra. Not tryna brag at all but it's been too many older women who have stopped my son's just to oogle at them.

Just a few months ago after my youngest's first day of summer school, one of the staff joked about how shes gonna take him home and keep him all to herself....this is like the third time a teacher has said this...and hes only in 1st grade
 

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Get it regardless bra. Not tryna brag at all but it's been too many older women who have stopped my son's just to oogle at them.

Just a few months ago after my youngest's first day of summer school, one of the staff joked about how shes gonna take him home and keep him all to herself....this is like the third time a teacher has said this...and hes only in 1st grade
That’s outta pocket these got to be white teachers?
 

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I used to be the pull out king but these hoes get the IUD and some can’t have kids and I can’t go back to pulling out it’s way better I need self control :snoop:
 

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Accidents happen, youthful ignorance is real…

With that said it’s some men and women out here who simply don’t or know how to give a fukk…You could literally put out a whole case study as to why..But yeah for the most part it’s all rooted in lack of self esteem…When you don’t have any proper examples of structure within your support system, you can’t expect that breh or brehette to know anything more til they know better…
 

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Idk if it's been said yet but.

1. Dudes not strong enough to pull out
2. Thug-Simps think that because the woman put it on him so good, he don't want nobody else with her. Therefore, he figures he'll "trap" her with a kid. (Plus he believes that once a child is in the equation, he's always got access to her in the future)

:yeshrug:
 

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16-18% of Black men are responsible for the majority of Black single-mothers being produced in the U.S. So this is not a men problem, this is a some men problem and a too many women problem. Those men who are doing that also are closely correlated with being high recidivism felons and/or drug users.

So, the answer to the problem is that those Black men causing the multiple single-mother issue have self-control problems that express themselves in nearly all parts of their life. The majority of Black men are not participating in those antics, with 18-29 year old Black men being majority childless and single. The rest of Black men are solidly in the middle class by our 40s.

We need to stop it with this generalization of Black people when it comes to negative outcomes. Not all Black women are out here being hoes, causing havoc, and having children out of wedlock with unfit men (Though too many are as the stats indicate). Even more troubling is the need to blame all Black men for the antics of a small minority of Black men. Most of those women doing the most complaining about Black men, are the same ones who knew the men were unfit for fatherhood when they chose to mate with them.

So this issue has at least two independent variables to it, and let's not act like it is only one variable that is the source of the problems.
 
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