A lot of this is label directed, like a lot of everything, pop music and reality TV, it's based on what will
1. Get attention
2. be able to emulate/relate to for social media/tik toks (note the 30 second max on Tik Tok clips, you aren't going to have some nuanced debate about sex and gender in 30 seconds)
-that's why so many of the bars feel like one liners for IG or Tik Tok, "don't even wanna kiss him, wont neva eva miss him, bottles with my sisters"
3. feel like it represents you, while at the same time being vague enough to represent everybody else too
which is what pop music is. and what it does. it appeals to base things like gender, sex, desire, power and authority and most importantly, probably is fantasy and escape.
I saw a group of women last night, I think there were listening to Sexxy Redd, and dancing outside their cars to the songs, it was something like "fill out my ass crack?"
for those women, it represents authority, but also traditional gender roles, power, seeing themselves as sexy and desirable. While the FANTASY part is that most of them probably don't have much power or authority in their real life. They aren't strippers. They aren't ballers. They aren't fukking crazy NFL player looking men. but for the moment, that night, the next 10 drunken hours, it is their life. that's the power of music.