Lol! You can't control somebody else's desires.i feel like this is a valid complaint
Also, we're not entitled to anybody's affection either.
Lastly, which is my ultimate point, why choose chicks who chose these dudes?
It's hypocrisy at its best. U chasin ain't shyt females mad at them for choosing ain't shyt dudes.
It's mind-boggling! The problem is ya'll desire these chicks and mad cuz they won't change.
If some damaged average blk men and women would stop being so obsessed with winning the affections or impressing the lowest denominators of our race, we'd be in better shape.
Hell at the very least stop lying talking about its the majority when it's not.
Hell I've encountered blk makes who were c00ns, color-struck, ain't shyt, thugs, ignorant, and some who are so damaged that they are addicted to women who dog them out.
But somehow I never stopped to give a fukk about these types because they tend to self-destruct and frankly I didn't wanna waste energy on those types and take away from what I could give the greater blk men I encountered.
Some have a very harmful mindset that with enough persistence, simping, calculated approaches whatever else, they can "win over" or change anybody. And if they can't do this, they can at least smut em out or use them.
But it doesn't work that way with ain't shyt people b/c they ain't got nothing to lose. Ya'll going to hell thinking you can change it tryin to get the devil to top u off. You're not changing the devil. It's changing you. And because ya'll been in hell for so long dealing with these types of people, now you think everybody gotta pitchfork.
The rest of us been chilling because we knew better than to invest time, energy, finances or resources in ain't shyt people regardless of how good the dyck or the p*ssy is.