what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?

[PhonZhi]

 

[CrimsonTider]

Nice guy DOES NOT EQUAL good guy

A lot of y'all are getting that confused.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

thanks breh

I caught feelings and I'm also on a long break from demonic substances

i'm like

That's the problem breh, you're supposed to embrace the demonic activity, not run from them.

The demons are here to help

 

[diggy]

I'm a pretty nice guy. The thing is I have a backbone...I'm also very honest, straightforward and confident bordering on arrogance. Yall would be surprised how easily women give p*ssy up to nice guys.

I was raised to be respectful...if a broad is not feeling that, then I'll gladly move on to someone who appreciates what I have to offer. I've never cared for women who weren't worth a damn...maybe yall should follow suit.

This minus the arrogance part is me

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[cleanface coney]

real shyt the average looking girl get so many offers for dikk everyday its crazy

they know the difference between a real/nice guy and fake/nice guy

if u being nice just to fukk ofcourse you gone get played

i hit a couple hoodrats on some squeaky clean schoolboy shyt
hood bytches love real/nice nikkas cuz the nikkas they fukk wit they whole life be crazy

a fake/nice nikka can get played the lamest bytch in the world if they aint authenic

 

[cleanface coney]

lol that lady in that video wants her ego crushed

thats what shes looking for in a nikka..i bet

 

[Angel On The Rag]

I'm nice to females

I used to get jumpoff p*ssy but I've been trying to find a lady friend to settle and I can't win if I have to act out of my element

 

[YBE]

there's no such thing as a fake nice guy/real nice guy....

there's just nikkas who grew up listening to what their momma (and society) told them & nikkas who realized it was bullshyt. kinda mean to call those naive cats fake, they just dont know any better.

 

[ThaBoyBam]

there's no such thing as a fake nice guy/real nice guy....

there's just nikkas who grew up listening to what their momma (and society) told them & nikkas who realized it was bullshyt. kinda mean to call those naive cats fake, they just dont know any better.

 

[Rominati]

Mos nikkas is "nice guys" by default until they get burnt or smarten up. Remember that thread I had , we was all nice guys at one point in our life.


Its all about kicking back and observing the dating scene for what it really is. A joke. Its not even really "changing" ya swag. Its mo along the lines of becoming wiser and more mature in the dealings with the opposite sex.


That Disney shyt dont work in real life brehs. Stop treating woman who dont deserve it like Queens and Princesses.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

It's not really the generosity factor more than it is about having certain standards and principles that you will uphold no matter what. It's more about not going for certain things and maintaining an aura of respectability around yourself. Most of these 'nice guys' do anything a female wants whenever she wants and let her act any way around them and worst of all, they stay concerned with what she thinks way too much.

What rules do you have that a female must follow if she is to deal with you? What things will you say no to? If she says, "Can I chill with my male friend this weekend? He wants to invite me to a party," what will you say? The nice guy will say something along the lines of, "Sure, I trust you baby. Go ahead and have fun." Why? Because his whole mentality is around PLEASING a woman, therefore making him her inferior. A real man will be like, "Listen, don't ask me something like that again. If you're going to deal with me, it's going to be me and you... not me, you and the male homies. If you can't respect that, we should save ourselves some time and go our separate ways because it's not going to work out."

Don't worry about how your actions just directly affect a woman's emotions. Your first goal is to maintain respect way before it is about pleasing. Realize that you are not here to cater to her emotional state. That's the problem with nice guys. They don't have a personality of their own. They sort of morph into whatever they imagine the girl they are currently in the presence of wants. They turn into butlers and do whatever it takes to 'please' her. That is following, not leading. Realize that any one woman is not that important. What what she has between her legs, billions of other beings on this planet have. What makes her important is her actual personality and morals and how she deals with you and how you connect with her.

Another key is recognizing that a woman fits into YOUR program. You don't fit into hers. That's why I say have higher priorities than a woman. Have things that you are into and enjoy doing on a regular basis. These should be activities that you put ahead of rushing out to hang out with her. People like to play these phone games to give the illusion they are busy, and it works for a little while... but as with all tricks, tactics and routines, it falls apart. GENUINELY make yourself busy. You might tell your woman, "I'm about to be out here hunting, so I won't be back until 9 tonight." She will sit there and think about you, wondering what you're doing. The 'nice guy' will sit at home wondering what she is doing and waiting up on her. In other words, playing the role of a woman. Women want to wait up on a man, not the other way around. Don't be no koala bear and stay all on a woman's back.

So with that said, your life should be enjoyable way before you start dealing with a woman. Maybe you like hunting, working out, relaxing at a lounge, bowling, playing the guitar, writing or whatever. Focus on enjoying your life FIRST. Focus on handling your priorities FIRST. When you do that, you are naturally LEADING. You end up being a way more interesting person in general because you have things you like to do and are able to expose her to a new world.

If you take a woman out, either she likes it or she doesn't. If she doesn't, don't try to rearrange things next time and please her. Find another woman that's into what you're into. A woman is supposed to follow up behind the man, not the other way around. A key realization most nice guys fail to make is that not every woman, especially a pretty woman, is for you. If you take her out somewhere and she doesn't like it and is whining and complaining, that's highly likely to be a female you don't want to be dealing with.

One of the key things women love is CONFIDENCE. You can't develop real confidence by being a woman appeaser. You can never read a woman's mind and know what she wants. She doesn't even know what she wants. Therefore, you are shooting in the dark and you cannot develop confidence on such instability. By doing your own thing and focusing on your OWN interests, you can be WAY more confident, because you actually know what you want. How that transfers into dealing with the woman is that you now maintain control. Instead of saying something like, "Baby, what movie would you like to see? And would you like to go to a dinner too? And what restaurant?" you can say, "Say baby, I'm going bowling tonight. Come on out with me... and after we gonna hit up the steakhouse after." Or you can flip it up, get her input, and yet still maintain control of the situation... "So after we go bowling, we gonna go out to eat. I want you to pick a restaurant that's a little different than our usual."



None of that involves not being nice, but what it does involve is not being a punk. Women don't like punks, followers and men that lack confidence. A leader maintains control without being controlling. That's what you have to do as a man. As much as this feminism nonsense has flooded society, talking about that 50/50 men and women are completely equal nonsense, women naturally gravitate towards men they look up to and can respect and feel safe around. If all of these women wanted complete equals, they'd go mess with other women.

Negroes got brainwashed with television, rnb, and just a host of other material that promoted sucker behavior. Then they get these expectations of the kind of guy they should be, which is this goofy, appeasing character, and they find out it doesn't work and get bitter. Disappointment is the gap between one's expectations and reality. You were brainwashed with an unrealistic image of what a man should be and you get disappointed when reality doesn't reward that false image of manhood. That's why I don't really watch television, nor do I listen to RnB music that much unless it's grooving. That slow, sappy, whiny RnB is a no-go with me.

THIS is why women usually go for 'thugs' over the 'nice guys.' The thugs embody many more of these characteristics than the 'nice guy'. They don't care about what a woman thinks and they go out and do their own thing. They can take control and demonstrate their strength. They can expose a woman to a whole new world she hasn't seen before. You too can do all these things and yet maintain your generosity. Stop letting these women change you around and LEAD and LIVE. Stop trying to please women and instead focus on finding the one who naturally finds pleasure with the way you live your life.

Every man should be required to read this gospel once a year

 

[Kenyan West]

i've learned that these bittches will drop you without a seconds thought if you come at em wit all that nice guy ish. they'll just figuratively hold up a mirror to your bytch ass, lettin you know and see how much you're out of alignment wit ur balls u ole fakkit

its funny how that moist energy just repel those dimes, yet niccas keep subscribing to that approach. havin you lookin at ya phone for hours angry, tryin to concoct a specific type of phrase just to get her to talk to yo ass again while she's double clutchin. With being a nice guy to dees hoes comes a "wanting it" tax. the price of the yams goes up the more you walk up with the sparkly eyes. man, i dont give a fukk about these bytches anymore. it's a losing battle. too much life to live. but at the same time, i aint no fakkit. if she aint down, then shes gone. i dont chase, i replace. if more guys thought like that, 99% of the bullchit with these hoes would end.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

everyone who is married/dating to someone who is not bad...
but the qualities of being firm/stern/etc with females go a long way

 

[Commandah N Chiefah]

i learned that dealing with run of da mil scalawagz being nice is unnecessary,ur just setting urself up in da long run.but a women who respects herself deserves 2 be treated nice every 3rd wednesday every 3 months.i've found thru my experiences this creates a balance of desirez n complacency

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

At my age (27) there's really no more nice guy/thug shyt going on; you're either getting p*ssy from a bytch or you're not. The same shyt that had me thinking I couldn't buy a bytch five to seven years ago has me in more p*ssy than I can handle now. Just be you and deal with women (not girls, but women) and you're bound to trip over something and get fukked.