what have you personally learned from being a nice guy to ladies?

[Angel On The Rag]

youre gonna have to learn how to hide the majority of that kindness homeboy. Despite what i just wrote, im a nice guy too. the difference is, im a natural shyt talker. so, i let the women see my shyt talking/a$$hole side 1st, then my nice side if i feel like keepin them around

i do shyt talk

 

[BossDon]

i do shyt talk

Cool. But are you talking shyt with confidence? You gotta make that bytch feel like you got the strength of 10 men, with the iq of bill gates, and the charisma of Diddy

 

[Angel On The Rag]

Cool. But are you talking shyt with confidence? You gotta make that bytch feel like you got the strength of 10 men, with the iq of bill gates, and the charisma of Diddy

of course, but i'm in a weakened state trying to stop demonic shyt, so maybe i'm being seen as weakened

 

[winb83]

i do shyt talk

when you want something bad enough you'll end up compromising yourself to get it and that's what being a nice guy is all about compromising who you are to be pleasant to someone else. there's a difference between doing something nice for someone and being a nice guy. trust me i know this has been my life struggle.

stop caring. adopt the attitude that you're out here looking for something and if the particular woman you're dealing with is it then good and if she's not you're not interested in wasting your time. things happen on your terms.

chase the ideal not the woman.

 

[Angel On The Rag]

thanks breh

I caught feelings and I'm also on a long break from demonic substances

i'm like

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

so how do u as a female handle the choice between nice guy and bad boy when they holla at u?...what really goes through ya head and gets ya puzzy wet?

I understand that men are visual, meaning I was 'hollered' at because of my physical appearance. Any man that focuses more on my outer shell than my inner being is a form of weakness IMO.

Intelligence is my aphrodisiac. Whether you're a 'nice guy' or a bad boy, if you lack the inability to converse (exchange of ideas) peaking my interest, you'll be overlooked.

The majority of you throw around blanket generalizations believing all females want a guy with 'swag' which is absolutely ridiculous to say the least. Yet it shows what type of women most of you gravitate towards

Naivete is definitely in abundance....

nice by the definition of the word is pleasing and agreeable. so to say one is a nice guy is to say one is a guy that consistently tries to please and be agreeable. basically that you go along with what other people want. recipe for disaster when it comes to women.

When it comes to ANYONE.

If you've made it to a certain point in life and have yet to realize you cannot be everything to all people, you'll forever point the finger in blame victimizing yourself.

Understand: who you are isn't for everyone and learn to be selective. If not you'll be rendered the easiest target for an opportunist.

When you value yourself and know your worth your aura will ward off the BS you'd normally attract.... TRUST!

 

[MikelArteta]

You know what's sad when I treated women like garbage, ignored them, cancelled at the last minute, just rolled by when I wanted sex, used them for money I had them like a dog on a leash. My life is different now, but there is really no need for a man to be nice to a chick if all you want to do is beat.

men are raised to be nice and respectful then they realize that gets you friendzoned as its traits of a beta male.

I'd say for anyone who is nice at least be shy, so you can be "mysterious".

 

[↓R↑LYB]

What rules do you have that a female must follow if she is to deal with you? What things will you say no to? If she says, "Can I chill with my male friend this weekend? He wants to invite me to a party," what will you say? The nice guy will say something along the lines of, "Sure, I trust you baby. Go ahead and have fun." Why? Because his whole mentality is around PLEASING a woman, therefore making him her inferior. A real man will be like, "Listen, don't ask me something like that again. If you're going to deal with me, it's going to be me and you... not me, you and the male homies. If you can't respect that, we should save ourselves some time and go our separate ways because it's not going to work out."

Cosign the bolded. If you've never gave a broad the and asked her "what type of bullshyt ass question is that?" then you deserve everything you get breh.

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

If you do something that's considered nice to a woman just sit back at look at your motivations for doing it.

If you have ulterior motives and you're just being nice trying to softly navigate your way to her puss...then you're not nice you're just a bytch. Be more aggressive and direct about it. Even if you luck up and get a girl you won't wear the pants in the relationship and it'll prob be with a chick that's a mess mentally anyway.

If you're just nice cause thats who you are don't worry about it, just do you.

 

[patscorpio]

men are raised to be nice and respectful then they realize that gets you friendzoned as its traits of a beta male.

I'd say for anyone who is nice at least be shy, so you can be "mysterious".

underrated advice

 

[cleanface coney]

man idk i think its all what you present to them

you can be a nice guy if its presented right...you can be a piece of shyt if its presented right

my motto is she nevers knows what she likes until its in her face

 

[Angel On The Rag]

man idk i think its all what you present to them

you can be a nice guy if its presented right...you can be a piece of shyt if its presented right

my motto is she nevers knows what she likes until its in her face

 

[winb83]

man idk i think its all what you present to them

you can be a nice guy if its presented right...you can be a piece of shyt if its presented right

my motto is she nevers knows what she likes until its in her face

naw you can't be a nice guy, you can be a guy who does nice things from time to time but to restrict yourself to always being nice is to say that you're always gonna take the agreeable path.

people stay trying to redefine what a "nice guy" is and make it something ok to be. its not. nice guys get fukked over because their creed to always do the agreeable thing puts them in compromised.

 

[PhonZhi]

 

[Lucky Millionaire]

sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't
it's all part of the game