LOL you are so insecure. "He's in a relationship with a dark skinned woman but he secretly wants a light skinned mixed chick but he can't get one".
You are insinuating that the only reason black men are with dark skinned black women are because they have no other options.
The insecurity is real.. you might as well bleach your skin at this point. You actually think you are better off with white men LOL. Most white men will not marry nor build with black women, they will date and have sex with you sure.. but ultimately commit and have your children? Hell to the nah.
Fine is fine to men. Black men are not going to turn down a fine dark skinned sista. So all that shyt you talking is garbage. I'm not saying what you are saying is completely false, but you are on something else with this
And goddamn.. your view of relationships is so jaded and dysfunctional. You actually believe most black men are using black women as trash and cum dumpsters until they can find the one they really wanna be with?
Only a small percentage of men have several women at their reach that they use just for sex... that's exactly why they do these things and get away with it. Because women don't mind sharing men and will settle for bullshyt situations.
The average man just wants a girlfriend