UPDATE: she was absent today, gonna have to wait till tomorrow 🤦🏾. 2nd UPDATE: Tomorrow I'll have to make a new thread as this one is too incoherent

[BuckFilly]

 

[drederick tatum]

What the fukk is wrong with you dudes? Jesus Titty-fukkin Christ

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

tone that way down playboy

should have told her you enjoyed staying late and hanging out when you had a chance. to go from establishing nothing to i miss you is a lil much

Well I've said things of that nature in the past to women and most of the times it'd work, I've come to believe that women (at least throughout my successful encounters) appreciate these thoughts, lovey dovey, heartfelt gestures .

I haven't said it yet but I plan to say something of that range when I see her, I have a good feeling she'll be blushing and smiling with approval I have a way of saying it with my eyes (most women I've came across have always told me I have sexy eyes or they've complimented them in some way) being the difference.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

see I'm gonna let her know tomorrow that I missed her and how class just wasn't the same without her...

It really wasn't the same, kinda boring I mean most of the other students are cool but when your admirer ain't in the room, shyt hits differently but I got through the day and plus we made teriyaki stir fry so it kinda made up for her absence.

If there aint an extremely disrespectfully deviant spin thread been made yet, today is a sad day in coli history, a black eye that will never fully heal.


If it has been made, daps and rep on deck for whoever drop that lank

 

[Pool_Shark]

Those of you saying I'ma simp or being too soft/gushy don't understand that I can't be that tough “I don't need her, she needs me/play like she ain't nothing special” kind of man, that's just not who I am, when I said I'd tell her that I missed her in class, that's truly me, the realness and such coming from the heart.

I've always been the generally kind hearted bruh since I was in elementary, middle school, and highschool. That's who've I've been my entire life in all areas not just when it comes to women but in general I've never been that mean type of dude.

What y'all are suggesting for me to do just wouldn't feel or sound right because it's not coming from the heart, I need the things I say to come from the heart. Maybe having a big heart will be my downfall one day, but I'd rather die knowing I always give people my all and kept it real with them until my last breath.

I literally told her yesterday, with these exact words: “enjoy the rest of your day now, ight?” I meant that from the heart, that's just who I am regardless if me and her link or not, although I have a good feeling we will.

My goal is to show women my heart and that I'm different from what they've dated in the past or have to come expect about men, I'm 27 and I'm nothing like most dudes my age these days, because of that it makes me special and a different breed that I believe women will appreciate when dealing with me.

The expressions y'all call simp, soft, lame, etc or whatever is the complete opposite for me and believe it or not most times has always worked for me when I've pursued relationships with women and I kept with that perspective even if it's just a friendship, I know y'all don't believe in friendships with women but I appreciate relationships of any kind these days as it's rare in this climate to have one.

Your hearts in the right place and if you met a woman that makes you feel this way congratulations. but you need to be careful, you can't just go giving your heart out to every woman thats nice to you. Get to know them first. It sounds like you want a relationship with this person not just a quick hit and quit. So if you're gonna get your feelings involved go a little slower. Take your time. Get her number. Go on a few dates, see if your compatible.

Tbh I think you need to lift some heavy weights and get in touch with your masculinity. The same way a girl can't give it all up on the first night you can't give it all up on first sight.

 

[levitate]

What she look like? Black ? White? Asian? Ass looking prime?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Is this a troll thread? Don't say any of that. You're sounding like a simp

Please no, don’t do this

Is it just me, or is op coming off as white? Maybe because I been around savage nikkas most of my life, never heard a black dude talk like that.

 

[Ahadi]

Women are supposed to earn all of those things from you. That’s the part you’re missing. I’m a father of 4 daughters and 1 son. I’m not telling you anything different than I would tell them. If one of my girls told me a dude was behaving like you, I’d tell them he sounds soft and like a pushover that you’ll lose interest in because he’s one speed and has nothing else but a kind heart to offer.

Putting all of your emotions on the table and you just met says a lot about how easy it would be to manipulate you into foolishness. We’re trying to help you out breh, but do it your way I guess. No one said you had to be a stone cold pimp from day one with her, but you also don’t have to be deeply in love and missing her this early either. You’re way too invested too soon.

Your hearts in the right place and if you met a woman that makes you feel this way congratulations. but you need to be careful, you can't just go giving your heart out to every woman thats nice to you. Get to know them first. It sounds like you want a relationship with this person not just a quick hit and quit. So if you're gonna get your feelings involved go a little slower. Take your time. Get her number. Go on a few dates, see if your compatible.

Tbh I think you need to lift some heavy weights and get in touch with your masculinity. The same way a girl can't give it all up on the first night you can't give it all up on first sight.

We’re done here.

 

[Tres Leches]

This dude remind me of the juelz Santana gif

 

[Traveler]

Don't put her on a pedestal. It's the worst thing you can do. A woman is a woman.

 

[karim]

If there aint an extremely disrespectfully deviant spin thread been made yet, today is a sad day in coli history, a black eye that will never fully heal.


If it has been made, daps and rep on deck for whoever drop that lank

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/been-d-cking-down-this-chef-in-training-biggest-freak-ever-wow.958916/page-2#post-48372669

 

[Anton]

stop trolling n a get a real hobby

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/been-d-cking-down-this-chef-in-training-biggest-freak-ever-wow.958916/page-2#post-48372669

Lol i knew tlr wouldnt let me down.

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Yeah you’re overthinking it
Just go get the
digits and chop it up with her
She clearly giving the green light
She’s clearly attracted to you
You have to be a man and go for it

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

Don't put her on a pedestal. It's the worst thing you can do. A woman is a woman.

This. OP everyone telling u to tone it down is putting u on more than just game, its literally priceless wisdom. Being too nice/generous/love bombing these chicks at best she gone not respect u/lose interest, even be kinda lowkey creeped out. In this day and age the likelihood she will attempt to run ur pockets is almost pretty much a given. Never wear ur heart on ur sleeve with a female breh. 999,999,999 out of a billion times it will not end well. If it does, i hope u dont play the lottery, cause u might have found true love, but u just gave up any odds u ever had of hitting the powerball. Miracles dont happen twice breh.

U dont gotta play hard to get, but give her something to work for. If she a real one she will appreciate it in the long run.