Men like not having to pay for everything and women being more sexually available but that is pretty much where their "like" for feminism stops.
I never said men like feminism at all. I think that in most cases, men don’t even care or think about feminism. We usually don’t even acknowledge it until the extreme feminists come out the woodwork talking about how they don’t need men at all and then turn around claiming that men should pay for everything and take care of them completely in a marriage, etc. Contrary to what you believe, the word feminist rarely pops in our minds unless prompted by women. Regardless, you can’t have both. Either you’re independent or you subscribe to stereotypical gender roles. One or the other. People like labels so much that they claim feminism but don’t really believe in the idea of “complete” feminism. THAT is what we don’t like.
There are plenty of men who are fine with completely taking care of a woman and plenty who want to live in a more 50/50 relationship. There are even a few who are happy living off of a woman. The problem is that some women want to believe that most men are the same and it’s just not the case. You find a man who has a bad trait and you thinks it’s all or most men. Out of my friends, only one of them has ever cheated on their significant other. 1 out of 5 of us.
The overall problem is that people don’t want to spend the time or do the work finding the person who has the same core beliefs as their own. Instead, they find people they’re attracted to and hope they can be molded or persuaded to be who they hope they can be. People are who they are. We’re just too egotistical and prideful to admit that we can’t control others. Trying to make it about women or men’s personalities is pointless. For every man/woman that’s trifling, there is another that is down, respectful and trustworthy. We just like for the problem to be other people and not ourselves.