i hate this point sometimes... this 9-5 career life around cacs is for the birds. i know a lot of girls who are professionals and tell me in private "i hate this shyt. i just want to meet a rich man and be a housewife."
typical careers are overrated
no matter what a study says, being in position where you're not conforming to the norm makes most people sad. if you're a 33 year old woman and all your friends start getting married and having kids... trust that no matter how you feel about it personally, you will feel some kinda way about being left out and not being able to relate. it's how life works. Same goes for guys btw. i had to start making new friends cuz all of my nikkas got married and had kids. it's still love there but it's like moving a mountain to get them to hang.
This is very true and actually how life works. Whether its wanting to graduate college cause your peers did, getting a new car cause your peers did, moving ou5 your parents house because of your peers did and countless others things.
In the end most folks are gonna have kids whether they get married or not.
True there are women and men that never had kids and are happy. But there are countless folks who never had kids and wish that did.
Like I said the marriage shyt is subjective. But the no habing kids in another thing. Cause there are countless women (no matter the race) out here who want kids and who go through all types of treatments even when they are single just to have kids...