I remember this all the way back to high school
it was mixed, more Blacks than whites, but I noticed the white girls didn't care about being corny and the way you dressed, and most white boys had girlfriends
but, and I promise I don't mean this as a diss to Black women, but in school you had to wear a new fit dam near everyday, and a fair amount of them were attracted to the "thugs"
I'm saying that to say some Black women never grew out of it as adults
I hope in the future the stigma of just being a regular Black man can wear off
Were those well dressed boys dating corny, nerdy, unattractive girls?
People usually date similar people. The corny kids in my school dated the other corny kids. The popular kids dated the popular kids. But I will say this, those corny black boys were trying to get with the pretty popular black girls. We hear this often. Then the black boys grow up, and date white women after they made some MONEY, and claim black women never liked them. They never went for the corny black girls.
For instance, Jaleel White talked about getting rejected by Pepa. PEPA! Who did Pepa marry? God damn Treach! Most men aren’t looking at a woman, and thinking, “she must have a nice personality, let me date her, and take her to the gym, and buy her some stylish clothes”, whereas a woman might take a slightly corny man, and teach him how to dress if you have a good personality.
So as much as y’all complain about women not going for corny guys, y’all aren’t going for the average, plain Jane corny girls either. Y’all will be Carlton with no money, feeling entitled to this: