What kind of people do you know?
Real, ordinary, everyday ones. I studied at a flagship university, then went onto complete post secondary at a private city institution, and grew up on the west side of Chicago, currently working in corporate america with 25 - 60 year old people from all walks of life. I've met all kinds of women/men from hood to hyper-bourgouise. Yet, we're going to act like women, regardless of socio-economic status, don't have feelings, and dont gossip behind each others backs now? :denzellol:
I work with female legal professionals, doctors, accountants, you name it. Wedding season has been ridiculous this year and every year it just gets more intense. The stories I have. I'm not even the type to seek out craziness but man, the stories, just over these past 3 years, whew.
But again, every woman is a hero in their own story. Sure, you don't gossip about your girlfriends, you've never lied to or cheated on anyone, yes we know. But surely your "friends "have, ask them for some stories if you don't believe mine.
Do women want a used up man? Individuals in both genders have their own criterion on what is normal.
To suggest this is to deny the fundemental difference between men and women.
If you get ran through(for women, I know that termonology is offensive, but guess what, THAT'S HOW MEN THINK OF IT) by 200 dudes, your true utilty as a woman, TO A GOOD MAN, is used up. Your virtue and exclusivity is null. Its not good anymore. That is what we prize in women, AS MEN. How many times do we have to say it. But a lot of women don't want to hear it, because it's hard to be a good woman. Just like it's hard to be a good man. And really, what's the reward?
But, I'm telling you(and any young man/woman who might read this one day) how men think. I know you will deny it, but it's the truth.
If I run through 200 GOOD women, whatever it is that allowed me to get those 200 women, whether its my power or status, will get you too if you're at my level, lower, or maybe even higher. I can't "use up" my power or status. I may lose it, but not use it up.
puts 2 and 2 together,(so they don't know the woman)
Ok, say we don't know her up front, but after years of dealing with women we learn signs and give-a-ways, and now with the internet, the information age has made EVERYTHING accessible and the gender games have nowhere to hide. All that's left,
to people that want to learn, is whats real.
Years back, if a guy was dealing with a strange woman, or vice versa, and they didn't know how to tackle the situation, they'd have to weather the storm or hope there was someone older who could guide them down the right path or shoot them some game. But now, all they have to do is hop on google and search for "this guy/girl is acting like this, this guy/girl said this, so what does this mean" and 100,000 people will say "I've been in your shoes before, and this is what the situation is, and this is what you need to do for X,Y,Z to happen and avoid disaster."
You can't control a person with the information to do better, and I think thas where a lot of this new anger/fear is coming from. Nobody can really run game on anybody anymore.
Dudes can't go "Oh i thought it was just my woman like that and somethings wrong with me, bad apple luck".
----Nah bruh, it's 100 million women like that, look for yourself. Do better next time.
Women can't go "He played me for a fool, I didn't know better ".
----Sweetheart, its a new book/movie out every week spilling all the games men can try to run on you, pick one up.
(yes because you can tell someones sexual history by looking at them and their age; idiot male logic)
Men do use logic. That is the fundemental basis of being a man. We operate off of logic.
If I see a good looking woman who's over 25 without a solid current relationship I can assume: she either got cheated on and broke up with him, cheated on him and got dumped(or dumped him), they just plain "fell out" with each other, or she just likes sleeping around(which is fine). Nobody(esecially a female) is going to sit at home and twiddle their thumbs if they look good and have money when they are young.
(yes because uncontrollable aging is the same thing as choosing to be yellow bellied; makes sense, it must be male logic)
Oh look, a plea has been copped.
"My age is uncontrollable, there's nothing I can do about it!"
You know what that plea sounds like? Those pleas short dudes cop about how they can't get dates cause the tall dudes are knocking down all the girls.
"My height is uncontrollable, there's nothing I can do about it."
So? People like what they like, sorry.
We're telling you what we find to be feminine and attractive. You can argue it till you're blue in the face, as I know you will, but it will still be there. it's been there since we were living in caves. It's the same reason why you like big strong men, with shiny cars fancy job titles and nice houses. They make you feel safe. Even though nothing is trying to eat you or kidnap you, you feel safe when youre with a big strong protective man. That's how we feel when we're with a feminine shapely prized young woman. We like what we like.
Why? He didn't say anything profound.
The notion that I should get cats, ice cream & depression because someone views my age and/or experience in a negative light is beyond ridiculous.
I'll be damned if I stop taking pleasure in the fact that I am becoming a better woman every day. If I find a man who appreciates that, then I'm .... If not, then ...
I have still enjoyed my journey of improvement.... that doesn't make me a failure or damaged goods... *drops mic*
Some men on this board are delusional and brainwashed...
*dusts off mic*
I didn't say women had to become crazy cat ladies, and I honestly think that's bullshyt, but you run with what you want. You want some cats, good for you, go for it. I like ice cream too, nothing wrong with it either.
If you become more loving, caring, nurturing and supportive over the years, that's good. Men loooove that shyt, and if you throw it on thick enough, for long enough, that dude will break his knee getting down on it quick, even if you ain't ready at the moment.
We're just saying that there are, and there will always be, women just like that, who happen to look better. And if the man has the option(resources) the man will often choose them.
.... If not, then
... I have still enjoyed my journey of improvement.... that doesn't make me a failure or damaged goods... *drops mic*
