This Whole Women in Their Prime Thing seems like some 1960s B.S

[GoPro]

...and this is why these threads are hilarious.

Dudes will readily say they don't wanna do nothing but smash, and then in the same breath say they're throwin' vaginas
in the trash on their 30th birthdays.

A lot of these dudes troll to the point where they actually argue against themselves. I just like to sit back with a nice glass of iced tea and watch.

 

[Taadow]

It probably doesn't apply to the current Black community. Marriage isn't the norm in our dysfunctional community. But, in other communities where marriage is the norm, a women who hasn't been chosen by a certain age is looked at as damaged goods. Her ego is already damaged. But, the social isolation just serves to further damage it.

So wait a minute...if marriage isn't the "norm" in our community...how do women in said community
get this feeling of inadequacy not being married if their peers in this community aren't getting married either??

 

[Taadow]

I'm simply noting how active you women get in threads. Those who know know.

I bet I won't see you BW as outraged as you are about aging and attractiveness (cause you want to be Cac concubines) towards this BW who basically said fukk Erc Gardner http://www.forharriet.com/2014/07/why-i-will-not-march-for-eric-garner.html

1. I'm not a woman.

2. So um...what did y'all do for "Erc" Gardner here on thecoli.com??

 

[Remote]

So wait a minute...if marriage isn't the "norm" in our community...how do women in said community
get this feeling of inadequacy not being married if their peers in this community aren't getting married either??

Maybe because the pressure to get married is thrust upon women of all races, nationalities and cultures.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

lol damn I got this girl reevaluating her life now




Poor girl now had to make a specific thread to pump herself up and talk herself into it like, "He was just trollin Queen, you are a dynamic and beautiful woman and you will age like fine wine"



let's all just ignore facts and make this a 'feel good' thread

What's the backstory on this

 

[mamba]

So wait a minute...if marriage isn't the "norm" in our community...how do women in said community
get this feeling of inadequacy not being married if their peers in this community aren't getting married either??

Just because it's not the norm doesn't mean the pressure is absent.

It's just more extreme in other communities, given the nature of their cultures.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Would you say that on average, women want to get married more than men?

Going by the people l know irl, it's pretty even. I just think the women I know are more obsessed with getting married because there's more pressure on them.

 

[KenyaDoll]

A lot of these dudes troll to the point where they're actually arguing against themselves. I just like to sit back with a nice glass of iced tea and watch.

It's quite hilarious.

 

[Taadow]

Maybe because the pressure to get married is thrust upon women of all races, nationalities and cultures.

There's "pressure" for people to finish high school, not cheat, and take care of their kids as well...
...but pressure doesn't have to always win, now does it?

 

[Poitier]

1. I'm not a woman.

2. So um...what did y'all do for "Erc" Gardner here on thecoli.com??

I know I didn't advocate the death of a BM as a good things like the BW who wrote that article and all the BW in the comment section.

 

[Remote]

Going by the people l know irl, it's pretty even. I just think the women I know are more obsessed with getting married because there's more pressure on them.

So who puts the pressure on women to get divorced?
The same people pressuring them to get married?

 

[Taadow]

Just because it's not the norm doesn't mean the pressure is absent.

It's just more extreme in other communities, given the nature of their cultures.

There's that word again...

like I just said in my other post, "pressure" doesn't control our decisions - we do.

 

[Taadow]

I know I didn't advocate the death of a BM as a good things like the BW who wrote that article and all the BW in the comment section.

So...was that here...or on another site?

 

[Ashley Banks]

How many of you women claiming you're young go to the gym and watch what you eat?


A lot of broads say they're still young and good looking, until the fast food, slower metabolism and more sedentary lifestyle come through and throws a clip in the AK, slays from far away and ya big ass belly hits the D-E-C-K.

I do, Cancer killed a lot of my dad's family and exercising/eating healthy helps to prevent it so I gotta do it.

So who puts the pressure on women to get divorced?
The same people pressuring them to get married?

I don't think people put pressure on women to get divorced (maybe they do, I don't know) I just think that a lot of women realize that once they do it, it isn't what they want or they married the wrong person.

 

[Poitier]

So who puts the pressure on women to get divorced?
The same people pressuring them to get married?

You know women can never be accountable. Why ask a logical question?