This dude clay from love is blind left the big booty sister for this

[Wiseborn]

Did those girls who were wiling out get pregnant or go back home after school with no babies??

Did they turn to porn or have their “fun phase” and then calm down and pretend nothing happened?

My point is they still were moving with some logic. They didn’t get trapped with the porn scarlet letter or trapped with a baby.

We all have raging hormones- that’s normal. But the girls you’re describing didn’t get tripped up confusing casual sex with real emotion. Sounds like they had their fun and learned the game.


And being sheltered does NOT push you into porn

She dealt with trauma somewhere down the line.

No healthy woman is having sex on camera with multiple random men because she was sheltered.

Thanks for the clarification because I'm a Man so I don't know, Yes those college co eds wilded out in peace and probably married with three kids to a dude who don't know what they did.

Again bytches be copping pleas again I could post the interview if you care but hoes be blaming shyt on an extended wild phase.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Cuddle up with a prostitute brehs

 

[Wiseborn]

Lmao Yea see if a man said that to me I’d thank him for the honesty and close the door. A man says something like that for the world to hear and you still want to be with him

Yep obvious cap like the nikka with Iyanla VanZant trying to blame his fukkery on this dad ( who claimed his family) Male fukkery isn't genetic in fact it's the other way around nikkas be determinded to not treat women like their fathers did.

 

[Gloxina]

Marriage rates are trending down and are about to be non existent in the Black community. Also ugly people get married every day. It’s all about people finding someone who’s into them and willing to commit. There’s beautiful women out here unmarried and being played for fools.

I think a lot of this conversation is changing. You must have missed the Bumble ad where they had to apologize. You have to truly think about the message that young women “have” to get about men not being truthful, that women should fear men, and that the number 1 goal for men is to mistreat women. And if women do let their guards down it’s their fault for trusting a group that’s inherently mistrustful. There has to be a better way…

But my overall point is this trope I see a lot about the “passed over” nice guys. They’re the equivalent of the women with multiple degrees, homes and trips and no other qualities that people want to be around. There’s a reason a lot of them were passed over. And many just want to live the same as other men who are running through women.

Oh naw I caught the Bumble thing and I’m glad it happened because they said the quiet part out loud! Dating apps are basically pimps. Women are the bait. Men scroll thru and have a bunch of chicks to pick from they can have casual sex with. The apps get paid. We get played with by the men. Bumble is a publicly traded company. Think about it. They would literally go out of business if all of their users got married LOL The model only works if the app is a revolving door.

Strip clubs: women are the bait. Women dance, men pay money to watch women dance.

Prostitution: men pay $ to use women’s bodies.


We are commodities to everyone who is not US.

That’s why dating is hard. Finding a genuine dude isn’t easy, and if you know that GOING IN you’re going to play the game differently.

Men don’t change. lol We have what they want so when WE move differently they improve. But if everyone’s getting free sex from the regular girls and then paying prostitutes, strippers, IG “baddies” or whatever if they want a “bad chick” I mean-

 

[Mike18jj]

I swear on everything I thought that Celina Powell chick was a tranny years ago when I first saw her. She is a gutter bucket that has fukked everybody and admitted to catching STD's ewwwwwwww.

 

[dizzy4111]

Nasty hoe

 

[Heretic]

Yeah it came out after the show that AD was escorting the whole time and her client had a club and threatened Clay.

That's why on the show if you watched, there was a point where Clay didn't understand her finances. She's realtor but has never made a sale but somehow had money. It came from her client. She also worked at a club. Which was her clients club.

I had no idea about this stuff

 

[V Skyye]

Oh naw I caught the Bumble thing and I’m glad it happened because they said the quiet part out loud! Dating apps are basically pimps. Women are the bait. Men scroll thru and have a bunch of chicks to pick from they can have casual sex with. The apps get paid. We get played with by the men. Bumble is a publicly traded company. Think about it. They would literally go out of business if all of their users got married LOL The model only works if the app is a revolving door.

Strip clubs: women are the bait. Women dance, men pay money to watch women dance.

Prostitution: men pay $ to use women’s bodies.


We are commodities to everyone who is not US.

That’s why dating is hard. Finding a genuine dude isn’t easy, and if you know that GOING IN you’re going to play the game differently.

Men don’t change. lol We have what they want so when WE move differently they improve. But if everyone’s getting free sex from the regular girls and then paying prostitutes, strippers, IG “baddies” or whatever if they want a “bad chick” I mean-

Accountability has to go both ways. A lot of men are sitting around complaining about a dating market that they’ve promoted and created. Women are all fat, ran through, single mothers, high body count, etc., yet they never turn down sex. If all the women in your community are good for is fukking, don’t be surprised when this is the result. The solution has never been one sided. Back in the day men and women were expected to participate in marriage and community. If dating has turned into a game of who can outplay the other person, and most of the dating pool has negative intentions, a lot of people will be without a mate. And it’s good to see that a lot of people have made peace with this reality.

So again, if a long term relationship won’t be in the cards, fukk who looks good and makes you feel good. Just use a condom and some birth control. Everything else is just an arbitrary way to control women who they have 0 serious intention about anyway.

 

[null]

Of course she’s a woman. She doesn’t date white dudes lol

brehette == black and female according to coli scientists


but y'all yanks are not regularly exposed to many languages, or even proper english, so

 

[Falcozer]

literally what we've all been saying. BBLs got yall blind.

no one in here was hyping nothing. she was literally called mid with some booty meats the whole thread

Nah I definitely saw some brehs overhype her ass It's good but not that crazy.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

It's good but not that crazy

all I said

 

[gldnone913]

Damn Clay, wtf man!

Lol yeah man...bad look

 

[Wiseborn]

Oh naw I caught the Bumble thing and I’m glad it happened because they said the quiet part out loud! Dating apps are basically pimps. Women are the bait. Men scroll thru and have a bunch of chicks to pick from they can have casual sex with. The apps get paid. We get played with by the men. Bumble is a publicly traded company. Think about it. They would literally go out of business if all of their users got married LOL The model only works if the app is a revolving door.

Strip clubs: women are the bait. Women dance, men pay money to watch women dance.

Prostitution: men pay $ to use women’s bodies.


We are commodities to everyone who is not US.

That’s why dating is hard. Finding a genuine dude isn’t easy, and if you know that GOING IN you’re going to play the game differently.

Men don’t change. lol We have what they want so when WE move differently they improve. But if everyone’s getting free sex from the regular girls and then paying prostitutes, strippers, IG “baddies” or whatever if they want a “bad chick” I mean-

Alex Datepsych just did a video on a massive study on how more or less women affects male competition. Less women more competition More women women compete for the top 10% of Men They compete by presenting meaning using social media pictures and they also compete by gossiping about other women.

It's one of those common sense confirmation studies

 

[Gloxina]

Accountability has to go both ways. A lot of men are sitting around complaining about a dating market that they’ve promoted and created. Women are all fat, ran through, single mothers, high body count, etc., yet they never turn down sex. If all the women in your community are good for is fukking, don’t be surprised when this is the result. The solution has never been one sided. Back in the day men and women were expected to participate in marriage and community. If dating has turned into a game of who can outplay the other person, and most of the dating pool has negative intentions, a lot of people will be without a mate. And it’s good to see that a lot of people have made peace with this reality.

So again, if a long term relationship won’t be in the cards, fukk who looks good and makes you feel good. Just use a condom and some birth control. Everything else is just an arbitrary way to control women who they have 0 serious intention about anyway.

I definitely feel you and I’ve said something similar— the issue is too many in our community didn’t get the condom/BC conversation or take it seriously. If you’re having fun and not creating life- do what you do.

But if you actually want something real, yea the playbook is a little different if you’re trying to weed out the bad guys

I mean, that whole phase for men was called “sowing your oats” for a reason. Everyone knows young men will hit any and every woman in their path if you let them. Lol

When they get their shyt together they calm down and pick a wife. The girls who know the game seem to have their fun too but just cut it short and then date marriage minded guys.

We have a lot of men and women who aren’t getting themselves together and getting ready for that marriage phase.

I see it in my fam. I’ve said it on here before. My GenX male cousins are all Black men who were college educated, most had their masters or were working on it, owned single family homes and luxury cars- married by 33/34. Their parents were adamant that their sons had completed university, gotten into their careers and were home owners by 30. And they ALL married Black women. There was no question.

Millennials in my family?… You can probably count the marriages on one hand. And I have a bunch of cousins if you factor in extended family Lol

I’m not saying it’s just us- yea for sure men need to work on themselves, too. But casual sex ain’t really all it’s cracked up to be, especially if what you really want is commitment.

 

[King Poetic]