literally what we've all been saying. BBLs got yall blind.
no one in here was hyping nothing. she was literally called mid with some booty meats the whole thread
This dude clay from love is blind left the big booty sister for this
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no one in here was hyping nothing. she was literally called mid with some booty meats the whole thread
Did those girls who were wiling out get pregnant or go back home after school with no babies??
Did they turn to porn or have their “fun phase” and then calm down and pretend nothing happened?
My point is they still were moving with some logic. They didn’t get trapped with the porn scarlet letter or trapped with a baby.
We all have raging hormones- that’s normal. But the girls you’re describing didn’t get tripped up confusing casual sex with real emotion. Sounds like they had their fun and learned the game.
And being sheltered does NOT push you into porn
She dealt with trauma somewhere down the line.
No healthy woman is having sex on camera with multiple random men because she was sheltered.
Lmao Yea see if a man said that to me I’d thank him for the honesty and close the door. A man says something like that for the world to hear and you still want to be with him
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
She was big booty in the 90snegged OP.
1. learn what the fukk a "big booty" is
2. post actual pics of "big booty" dumbass
Now she just booty
She still pretty tho
Born2BKing
Veteran
Yeah so I just made up the fact I saw several posts about her having a phat ass huhliterally what we've all been saying. BBLs got yall blind.
no one in here was hyping nothing. she was literally called mid with some booty meats the whole thread
Sleepy Floyd
Superstar
He really chose a ran-through literal whore who looks like a tranny
i want big booty NOW god damn it!
Marriage rates are trending down and are about to be non existent in the Black community. Also ugly people get married every day. It’s all about people finding someone who’s into them and willing to commit. There’s beautiful women out here unmarried and being played for fools.
I think a lot of this conversation is changing. You must have missed the Bumble ad where they had to apologize. You have to truly think about the message that young women “have” to get about men not being truthful, that women should fear men, and that the number 1 goal for men is to mistreat women. And if women do let their guards down it’s their fault for trusting a group that’s inherently mistrustful. There has to be a better way…Oh yea you are absolutely right! I guess my point is as women we have to weigh the actual, tangible pros and cons of dealing with men, outside of the butterflies we may feel because someone tells us we look good or says what we want to hear.
That whole “wet ass/empty purse” line was so crude and my family never used that phrase with us, but the message was conveyed differently.
If you understand that what men ultimately want from women is sex, and you engage in casual sex, you are literally giving men what they want for free.LOL
We want love and commitment and provision. Are they giving that away so easily? NO, not at all. So why should I?
Chicks think they’re playing the game like men when dudes are literally in HEAVEN right now cuz everybody spreading their legs like it’s nothing. Bums AND men with paper got rotations out here!! That’s why I don’t understand PPBs cuz if you have a semblance of personality skills and two nickels to rub together you can find someone.
Like, so you mean I have to worry about STDs, potential pregnancy, potentially messing around with my hormones on BC, potentially end up with a babydaddy, crack my legs open for men who see me as a hole on their roster, etc —for what? A good time that leads to a dead end?
This is why I couldn’t get down with casual sex. WE pay the cost with our bodies while we already know men have no issue creating babymommas and skipping to the next chick.
It’s just illogical to me. I’m not so emotionally disconnected that idgaf after sex. And if I really don’t care about a dude like that, even if he’s fine, what would be the reason to let him inside of me?
I heard a dude say this when I was younger and it stuck with me: once a man sleeps with you- he won. It doesn’t matter what happens afterwards. He can cheat, be stingy, ghost you, be a bum, etc. It doesn’t matter. At the end of the day he was still inside you.
After I got a dose of that cold ass game it gave me even more resolve, and had me listening to other girl’s stories feeling sad. Some girls understood when I told them, some didn’t. But I did share that advice.
So yea- mid and unattractive dudes can play the same game, but either they’re going to spend time and money wearing you down (so you still got some emotions and dating experiences out of it), or they’re going to give up because you aren’t worth the wait to them. And if they have you in a rotation and they are being somewhat inconsistent it’ll be pretty obvious, so if a girl still chooses to sleep with him after that
And I’m not saying all this like I’m some guru who got it all figured out cuz that certainly isn’t the case! I just think that a lot of girls don’t understand how men think so they play the game thinking they’re doing something, not realizing that WE have more to risk than a man.
And sex is great, but how great is it with someone who doesn’t really know you and care about you and care enough to take his time to make sure you’re actually enjoying it and getting off? You ain’t having those good marathon sessions with some dude who doesn’t really care. You both putting in the work cuz you actually care and are really into each other and want to please.
You can’t build that comfort with a dude and then be like “oh yea we casual”. Like naw I'm gon stab that nicca if he’s giving it to the next chick like he’s giving it to me
So it just doesn’t make sense to me.
But my overall point is this trope I see a lot about the “passed over” nice guys. They’re the equivalent of the women with multiple degrees, homes and trips and no other qualities that people want to be around. There’s a reason a lot of them were passed over. And many just want to live the same as other men who are running through women.
AyBrehHam Linkin
First Black Brehsident
Are you only considering your perspective? Or are you considering the general perspective of every man.
Like if you lined up 100 men of all races and creeds, and they had to choose between AD and Celina on pure appearance alone. And you had to bet 500k on it. You picking AD to win that?
You gotta think outside of your own perspective.
Most dudes gonna gravitate to Celina physically.
Her background though? Yuck.
that big head skinny white girl bogus
I’d rather blow out bottom gal
What that dude told is right, Not that we can't care about women we do, but when that bytch leaves you or tells you she cheat with your homeboy his immediate thought was So what I already fukked.Oh yea you are absolutely right! I guess my point is as women we have to weigh the actual, tangible pros and cons of dealing with men, outside of the butterflies we may feel because someone tells us we look good or says what we want to hear.
That whole “wet ass/empty purse” line was so crude and my family never used that phrase with us, but the message was conveyed differently.
If you understand that what men ultimately want from women is sex, and you engage in casual sex, you are literally giving men what they want for free.
We want love and commitment and provision. Are they giving that away so easily? NO, not at all. So why should I?
Chicks think they’re playing the game like men when dudes are literally in HEAVEN right now cuz everybody spreading their legs like it’s nothing. Bums AND men with paper got rotations out here!! That’s why I don’t understand PPBs cuz if you have a semblance of personality skills and two nickels to rub together you can find someone.
Like, so you mean I have to worry about STDs, potential pregnancy, potentially messing around with my hormones on BC, potentially end up with a babydaddy, crack my legs open for men who see me as a hole on their roster, etc —for what? A good time that leads to a dead end?
This is why I couldn’t get down with casual sex. WE pay the cost with our bodies while we already know men have no issue creating babymommas and skipping to the next chick.
It’s just illogical to me. I’m not so emotionally disconnected that idgaf after sex. And if I really don’t care about a dude like that, even if he’s fine, what would be the reason to let him inside of me?
I heard a dude say this when I was younger and it stuck with me: once a man sleeps with you- he won. It doesn’t matter what happens afterwards. He can cheat, be stingy, ghost you, be a bum, etc. It doesn’t matter. At the end of the day he was still inside you.
After I got a dose of that cold ass game it gave me even more resolve, and had me listening to other girl’s stories feeling sad. Some girls understood when I told them, some didn’t. But I did share that advice.
So yea- mid and unattractive dudes can play the same game, but either they’re going to spend time and money wearing you down (so you still got some emotions and dating experiences out of it), or they’re going to give up because you aren’t worth the wait to them. And if they have you in a rotation and they are being somewhat inconsistent it’ll be pretty obvious, so if a girl still chooses to sleep with him after that
And I’m not saying all this like I’m some guru who got it all figured out cuz that certainly isn’t the case! I just think that a lot of girls don’t understand how men think so they play the game thinking they’re doing something, not realizing that WE have more to risk than a man.
And sex is great, but how great is it with someone who doesn’t really know you and care about you and care enough to take his time to make sure you’re actually enjoying it and getting off? You ain’t having those good marathon sessions with some dude who doesn’t really care. You both putting in the work cuz you actually care and are really into each other and want to please.
You can’t build that comfort with a dude and then be like “oh yea we casual”. Like naw I'm gon stab that nicca if he’s giving it to the next chick like he’s giving it to me
So it just doesn’t make sense to me.
Again Men are super cold but even if we're mad and when we realize that When a woman's fed up It ain't nothing you can do about it. The next thought is Injested 25 gallons of my DNA and she can't take back the p*ssy she already gave me.
I fukked a rapper and I told her if she blows up and sees me say hello because I was already thinking I'm gonna say I fukked her.
Men are wild. Knew a married dude who knocked off a chick on Jet Beauty of the week the nikka bought 45 magazines and handed them all to us.
She was a THOT but somehow it really mattered to him that he smashed, I know the feeling.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Social media got yall all fukked up.i want big booty NOW god damn it!
No the butts didn't get bigger nor is it the bbls
Social media just showing yall more butts than you would've seen. Shoot without Social media some of yall would've wifed that girl at Wendy's behind the counter who got a lil bump back there
Yall would've been none the wiser neither.
"wife" and "lil bump" do not go together for me......EVER!Social media got yall all fukked up.
No the butts didn't get bigger nor is it the bbls
Social media just showing yall more butts than you would've seen. Shoot without Social media some of yall would've wifed that girl at Wendy's behind the counter who got a lil bump back there
Yall would've been none the wiser neither.
Who has a better face
I'd say it's a combonation of lack of trust and Black women not being happy with their choice of mates.
The lack of trust comes in because when a Black Man does decide to put a ring on it the women usually divorces him.
But two things can be right at the same time so I'm not saying that you're wrong here.
about the passport bros thing.Oh yea you are absolutely right! I guess my point is as women we have to weigh the actual, tangible pros and cons of dealing with men, outside of the butterflies we may feel because someone tells us we look good or says what we want to hear.
That whole “wet ass/empty purse” line was so crude and my family never used that phrase with us, but the message was conveyed differently.
If you understand that what men ultimately want from women is sex, and you engage in casual sex, you are literally giving men what they want for free.
We want love and commitment and provision. Are they giving that away so easily? NO, not at all. So why should I?
Chicks think they’re playing the game like men when dudes are literally in HEAVEN right now cuz everybody spreading their legs like it’s nothing. Bums AND men with paper got rotations out here!! That’s why I don’t understand PPBs cuz if you have a semblance of personality skills and two nickels to rub together you can find someone.
Like, so you mean I have to worry about STDs, potential pregnancy, potentially messing around with my hormones on BC, potentially end up with a babydaddy, crack my legs open for men who see me as a hole on their roster, etc —for what? A good time that leads to a dead end?
This is why I couldn’t get down with casual sex. WE pay the cost with our bodies while we already know men have no issue creating babymommas and skipping to the next chick.
It’s just illogical to me. I’m not so emotionally disconnected that idgaf after sex. And if I really don’t care about a dude like that, even if he’s fine, what would be the reason to let him inside of me?
I heard a dude say this when I was younger and it stuck with me: once a man sleeps with you- he won. It doesn’t matter what happens afterwards. He can cheat, be stingy, ghost you, be a bum, etc. It doesn’t matter. At the end of the day he was still inside you.
After I got a dose of that cold ass game it gave me even more resolve, and had me listening to other girl’s stories feeling sad. Some girls understood when I told them, some didn’t. But I did share that advice.
So yea- mid and unattractive dudes can play the same game, but either they’re going to spend time and money wearing you down (so you still got some emotions and dating experiences out of it), or they’re going to give up because you aren’t worth the wait to them. And if they have you in a rotation and they are being somewhat inconsistent it’ll be pretty obvious, so if a girl still chooses to sleep with him after that
And I’m not saying all this like I’m some guru who got it all figured out cuz that certainly isn’t the case! I just think that a lot of girls don’t understand how men think so they play the game thinking they’re doing something, not realizing that WE have more to risk than a man.
And sex is great, but how great is it with someone who doesn’t really know you and care about you and care enough to take his time to make sure you’re actually enjoying it and getting off? You ain’t having those good marathon sessions with some dude who doesn’t really care. You both putting in the work cuz you actually care and are really into each other and want to please.
You can’t build that comfort with a dude and then be like “oh yea we casual”. Like naw I'm gon stab that nicca if he’s giving it to the next chick like he’s giving it to me
So it just doesn’t make sense to me.
I already talked about old nikkas ( meaning 40 yeat olds) being in the Male Danger zone of being too old to go for bullshyt and never married or disvorced brehs being untrusting of women and women knowing this and not taking Men seriously. I had a rotation when I left not one of them tried to stop me from leaving. I didn't tell them directly but saying that they probably wouldn't have begged me to stay.
I said I had a problem with Police brutality when I dipped and the rape charge really pushed me out.
That being said Let me give you an example of why nikkas become PPB. I had my Maid come through wanting a ten dollar pair of chinese knock off sneakers ( a lot of people wear fake Nikes down here) She was so pressed that she came early and I hadn't cleaned up yet So she cleaned the place for me.
I'm not smashing her and frankly I don't like the way she dresses but women routinely do nice things for me. You can fukk american women But they ain't cooking and cleaning for you like that.
I'm already texting chicks back home and I'm really thinking of hopping a plane and coming back early but although chicks are asking me How's my Blood pressure They ain't asking me that because they're down to give me a cold bath and hot apple cider vinegar if my BP is too high they want to know if I'll rise to the occasion when I see them.