Was referring to the dudes saying she was.I cant even believe I'm on here talking about the show. My girl got me into this dumb shyt, but no lie the show is good. if you were to do reality tv, this one is it.
didnt call anyone masculine. read again.
celina is not edible and AD is tolerable.
This dude clay from love is blind left the big booty sister for this
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True. But this doesn’t have anything to do with how a man looks. An average or ugly man can and will do the same. Most young men are not looking to settle down period. A lot of average looking “nice guys” are not really nice at all and are only mad that they don’t have the same sexual access as good looking men. Casual hookups were never really my thing but if if you’re going to do it I completely understand someone who looks good, makes you feel good, or some other type of benefit. An average woman isn’t turning down a relationship with an average man because she’s having sex with with a fine man every blue moon. Because good looking men have better looking options and won’t be coming by her way more than once or twice. She’s mostly choosing a situationship/casual sex with the best option she has at the time. A better decision would be staying alone until the right person comes along. But people get desperate and inpatient.Now I will agree here (although this happens across races)- and this is the problem with casual sex and not understanding what a man brings to the relationship. If chicks opted out of “hook up culture” they would quickly see which dudes were only around for sex.
Like breh said above, if the body is right but maybe someone isn’t the prettiest, you can still get plenty of attention from the average successful guys around your way; those men will show up and provide for you.
Like I’ve also noted before: sadly there are girls who haven’t learned/experienced what provision from a man is- be it dad, granddad, uncle, big bro, big cousin, etc- so they equate sexual attention with true interest and desire.
The girls who get it understand that if that wallet isn’t cracking open (and no I don’t necessarily mean cash in hand) that man literally is just trying to hit and keep it moving.
Ultimately it isn’t about how a man looks, but how he treats us. That includes how well he treats you before AND after sex, if you’ve even gotten that far.
The ones who don’t understand have dudes who only come by at 2am smh
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My issue with this is breh didn’t have to play a fellow Black person on tv for the world. He wasn’t attracted to her. There was no reason to get to the actual wedding with family and friends all gathered only to be like “oh yea…I can’t do this”
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Where is this phat ass you nikkas keep talm bout? 
she didn't say this on Fresh n Fit she said this on *8 on the table a relationship show with women who tell Men they need to come correct with the respect.
Even then the interviewer didn't tear her head off with You'll die alone Red Pill talking point he calmly and politely pushed back.
Do you know how many times women say this city girl shyt in front of Men?
Then they wonder why Men move in a way to protect themselves from these types of women.
Again all I would ask her is is she ok with fukking dudes ( and just fukking) that she doesn't respect? because once you get stamped it's hard to get out of that.
Now if you're an alculterated Prostitute ( Rom Wills phrase) and fundamentally don't beleieve in non transactional sex that's one thing but I'll bet this chick still beleives in Love and finding The One for her.
Where is this phat ass you nikkas keep talm bout?
For real, with the way everyone is hyping her up I expected some crazy curves, she just has a kinda nice body with a very mid face
Her ass is alright but I've definitely seen a lot of black women with a natural ass bigger than that. Brehs here sound like cacs calling this a "phat ass".Right. Which is why I said she sounds crazy lol
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I disagree with the the Bolded but you're a woman so you'd know more how woman think han me.
I defenitely beleive that women are moving the way you describe in the Italizied last sentance.
I kinda get the logic if you're gonna get played why get played by an bitter #uglygang guy that you didn't like anyway?
Biologically speaking and even logically speaking women trade sex hoping that she can put it on him well enough to change his mind.
I can say that that can work but it works way less on Men with options because there's several other women running that same play.
Yeah but with all these women openly co signing it by their music choices or openly saying it the That bytch is crazy or It's all on the Internet doesn't work no more unless you're saying that most women are crazy to varing degress which is what I'd say.
Yeah that was a hot line. I really think 3 stack is holding some raps hostage.and the peaches and the mangoes that you could sell for me
It doesn’t work on anybody who isn’t truly interested no matter how they look.
Yeah. Claimed his dad cheated so much that it effected him and made him not believe he could be faithful
well I have a theory:
In that Man vs. Bear thing on the surface it is ridiculous but In a off civillization every Man for himself situation an adolescent boy would crash or at least impliy that maybe she she should do it the easy way. A Bear who isn't hungry or surprised might leave you alone for a minute till you slowly bounce.
I can say as a Man you get an insame Testosterone rush at about 16 to 18 where every iota of your being tells you to secure Bunz. Again it's been proven Men's IQ drops a few points infront of a beautiful woman.
Now young nikkas ain't out here raping but they will simp hard for a girl especially if their options are limited.
Is there a female THOT phase than maybe not always acted on or activated by any halfway decent breh?
I mean I hate to go to a porn example but the braod Demi Sutra said she was shealtered and it kinda had a slingshot effect with her getting into porn.
I've had regular girls and personal experience with preachers daughters and religious girls and education majors in college being the biggest freaks.
I also went to a small college surrounded by large Universities so dirt could and was done on the low at big schools but there was a lot of girls that wilded right on the yard when they knew word would get around.
I can think of one biracial tether Half Congolese and italian grew an ass and started eating ass the first semester she was classic quiet immigrant then she realized she was a thick dime from back home (DC) and acted like it.
So do you think that some girls go trhough a Ho phase?
Now here's where I can speak for Men. If it didn't work at all Tricking wouldn't exist Marriage would be very very rare and divorces would be non existent.
Again very few people are marrying AD for her looks alone again not ugly she just looks very Matronly in the face, her best bet is to put it on an #uglygang nikka and he'll look past her thottery with the cac.
Oh yea you are absolutely right! I guess my point is as women we have to weigh the actual, tangible pros and cons of dealing with men, outside of the butterflies we may feel because someone tells us we look good or says what we want to hear.
That whole “wet ass/empty purse” line was so crude and my family never used that phrase with us, but the message was conveyed differently.
If you understand that what men ultimately want from women is sex, and you engage in casual sex, you are literally giving men what they want for free.
LOLWe want love and commitment and provision. Are they giving that away so easily? NO, not at all. So why should I?
Chicks think they’re playing the game like men when dudes are literally in HEAVEN right now cuz everybody spreading their legs like it’s nothing. Bums AND men with paper got rotations out here!! That’s why I don’t understand PPBs cuz if you have a semblance of personality skills and two nickels to rub together you can find someone.
Like, so you mean I have to worry about STDs, potential pregnancy, potentially messing around with my hormones on BC, potentially end up with a babydaddy, crack my legs open for men who see me as a hole on their roster, etc —for what? A good time that leads to a dead end?
This is why I couldn’t get down with casual sex. WE pay the cost with our bodies while we already know men have no issue creating babymommas and skipping to the next chick.
It’s just illogical to me. I’m not so emotionally disconnected that idgaf after sex. And if I really don’t care about a dude like that, even if he’s fine, what would be the reason to let him inside of me?
I heard a dude say this when I was younger and it stuck with me: once a man sleeps with you- he won. It doesn’t matter what happens afterwards. He can cheat, be stingy, ghost you, be a bum, etc. It doesn’t matter. At the end of the day he was still inside you.
After I got a dose of that cold ass game it gave me even more resolve, and had me listening to other girl’s stories feeling sad. Some girls understood when I told them, some didn’t. But I did share that advice.
So yea- mid and unattractive dudes can play the same game, but either they’re going to spend time and money wearing you down (so you still got some emotions and dating experiences out of it), or they’re going to give up because you aren’t worth the wait to them. And if they have you in a rotation and they are being somewhat inconsistent it’ll be pretty obvious, so if a girl still chooses to sleep with him after that
And I’m not saying all this like I’m some guru who got it all figured out cuz that certainly isn’t the case! I just think that a lot of girls don’t understand how men think so they play the game thinking they’re doing something, not realizing that WE have more to risk than a man.
And sex is great, but how great is it with someone who doesn’t really know you and care about you and care enough to take his time to make sure you’re actually enjoying it and getting off? You ain’t having those good marathon sessions with some dude who doesn’t really care. You both putting in the work cuz you actually care and are really into each other and want to please.
You can’t build that comfort with a dude and then be like “oh yea we casual”. Like naw I'm gon stab that nicca if he’s giving it to the next chick like he’s giving it to me
So it just doesn’t make sense to me.