Now I will agree here (although this happens across races)- and this is the problem with casual sex and not understanding what a man brings to the relationship. If chicks opted out of “hook up culture” they would quickly see which dudes were only around for sex.
Like breh said above, if the body is right but maybe someone isn’t the prettiest, you can still get plenty of attention from the average successful guys around your way; those men will show up and provide for you.
Like I’ve also noted before: sadly there are
girls who haven’t learned/experienced what provision from a man is- be it dad, granddad, uncle, big bro, big cousin, etc- so they equate sexual attention with true interest and desire.
The girls who get it understand that if that wallet isn’t cracking open (and no I don’t necessarily mean cash in hand) that man literally is just trying to hit and keep it moving.
Ultimately it isn’t about how a man looks, but how he treats us. That includes how well he treats you before AND after sex, if you’ve even gotten that far.
The ones who don’t understand have dudes who only come by at 2am smh
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My issue with this is breh didn’t have to play a fellow Black person on tv for the world. He wasn’t attracted to her. There was no reason to get to the actual wedding with family and friends all gathered only to be like “oh yea…I can’t do this”