Thinking about leaving my Fiance

[InDePickWest]

I would say you're trolling cuz this is an extreme, but eh, I've read threads on here that made me sick and very distrustful of men and I have side eyed and felt resentment/disdain for my then fiancee because of it when he didnt do anything.

When nikkas on here talking about fukking anything, cheating, how shallow and sex driven some talk, yes it can change your outlook on relationships with men.

But thats life. I would love to believe that guy is nothing like guys on here or other guys who do not practice self respect or restraint when their S/O are around. Take chances or toull never be happy. Better to love and lost.

Too much Coli is never a good thing

 

[BrehWyatt]

Yeah, we see men in this forum getting cold feet about marriage all the time. It isn't that unthinkable for a chick to get them too. She's had some trust issues in the past (her parent's marriage ended due to infidelity, and now her best friend's too, plus she's had a couple of broken engagements), she's like the female version of #GetMarriedBrehs.

Isn't she about 23 or so? And already had three engagements (counting the current one)?

 

[Jone2three45]

Dude seems like a good guy, he is even waiting for you. You'll be lucky to find another guy like him if you are even granted another chance. In a world where no woman nor man saves it for marriage, let alone saves it for anybody you should be happy he places you on a pedestal. You should place him on a pedastal as well. Good luck.

 

[cook]

get engaged brehs

 

[karim]

Some of the certified IT wizards on the coli should find this Dude, Email him this threat and tell him to Run as fast and far as he can from op.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

Isn't she about 23 or so? And already had three engagements (counting the current one)?

thought it was 4 lol but to keep it 100 if you in that many engagments before the age of 25 and all of them end like that there is something wrong with the individual legit

@Emperor_ReinScarf can explain it better than me tho

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Sounds like your man got you feeling low, come over here so i can take advant.....comfort you. He aint shyt. Your right. He's wrong. What an a$$hole, You deserve better. Here have another drink.

 

[BrehWyatt]

thought it was 4 lol but to keep it 100 if you in that many engagments before the age of 25 and all of them end like that there is something wrong with the individual legit

@Emperor_ReinScarf can explain it better than me tho

Most folks don't even have their lives figured out before 25, and she's been engaged that many times? I get having trust issues, but it appears her particular brand of baggage carries more weight than the rest of us.

 

[Ashley Banks]

thought it was 4 lol but to keep it 100 if you in that many engagments before the age of 25 and all of them end like that there is something wrong with the individual legit

@Emperor_ReinScarf can explain it better than me tho

So if 2 of your relationships end, there's something wrong with you? I already said the other engagements were a bad idea. We were young and we thought that was what we wanted at the time. You're acting as if you've never done anything you regret when you were younger. I think being engaged to dudes you love is pretty light compared to what other people have done.

 

[BrehWyatt]

So if 2 of your relationships end, there's something wrong with you? I already said the other engagements were a bad idea. We were youmg and we thought that was what we wanted at the time. You're acting as if you've never done anything you regret when you were younger. I think being engaged to dudes you love is pretty light compared to what other people have done.

If you don't mind my asking, how much time passed between the respective courtships and engagements you've been in?

 

[Ashley Banks]

I would say you're trolling cuz this is an extreme, but eh, I've read threads on here that made me sick and very distrustful of men and I have side eyed and felt resentment/disdain for my then fiancee because of it when he didnt do anything.

When nikkas on here talking about fukking anything, cheating, how shallow and sex driven some talk, yes it can change your outlook on relationships with men.

But thats life. I would love to believe that guy is nothing like guys on here or other guys who do not practice self respect or restraint when their S/O are around. Take chances or toull never be happy. Better to love and lost.

Too much Coli is never a good thing

Im just thinking out loud. But I guess women aren't allowed to have negative thoughts. Dudes on here say theyll leave their girl over the thought of them cheating but im so wrong for thinking the same.

 

[Rawtid]

So if 2 of your relationships end, there's something wrong with you? I already said the other engagements were a bad idea. We were young and we thought that was what we wanted at the time. You're acting as if you've never done anything you regret when you were younger. I think being engaged to dudes you love is pretty light compared to what other people have done.

Plus them nikkas asked you to marry them, not the other way around. If you had said no you would have been a bunch of other names lmao

I don't think you should leave ol boy though. Just tell him how you feel...or take a day to follow him and see if he's up to no good.

 

[reserved_one]

It seems you have alot of insecurities.......I couldn't date a woman like you. I'll have to dip (no offense). Especially If I known you was badmouthing me on a forum saying I'll cheat and give you STDs. That's just some foul shyt to do, but if you feel that way, just tell dude to go and get a check up. shyt I was in similar situation as dude when I was in a long relationship with a chick that didn't want sex. I waited for a year and few months and stuck it out like a real man because I was in love with her & wanted to prove how real I was. It turned out to be a huge mistake for me and it could be for breh as well.

Guaranteed.....Breaking it off with dude is going make him go out and do the exact same things that your afraid of, because in his eyes, he did exactly what a good man was supposed to and he's gonna be like fukk it .....I'ma start doing what she's accusing me of. Maybe I should be like these other nikkas

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

get engaged brehs

Whats up

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Im just thinking out loud. But I guess women aren't allowed to have negative thoughts. Dudes on here say theyll leave their girl over the thought of them cheating but im so wrong for thinking the same.

Yall have seX yet?