Thinking about leaving my Fiance

[no.]

Why are you being rude? You're acting like it's so wrong for me to want to avoid this. Smh

Girl, has he treated you wrong until now? Has he given you any reason to doubt him? If you like him, marry him. Don't let your fear stop you. Yeah, marriages are long and difficult and sometimes people change during them. All I'm saying is, give that man a chance to show you years, decades, maybe a lifetime of happiness. If, if, if there comes a point when you're not happy anymore, you can break it off and leave. But don't judge him based on what someone else's husband has done.

 

[How Sway?]

in all seriousness though, if catching an STD really does bother you, is it safe to say that your fiance is still a cheater??

B/C I dont see why you'd want to be so cautious unless you know he fukks other ladies.

 

[ellessij]

Not insulting, but judging by the OP, you certainly lack the maturity, commitment, trust and dedication necessary for marriage, don't do it.

You're ready to end a relationship, and engagement off of the strength of your own doubts and insecurities? Without even discussing it with this man that cares for you, and waited around all the time without sex? Why would it seem that sex is so important to him if he's waiting this long to have sex with you? He doesn't exactly sound like a horned up, morally vacant individual. Poor guy.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

wrecking homes since 2012

Sharing that girl since 2012.

 

[aXiom]

@Juicy I hope he leaves you and find a woman who truly makes him happy.

nikka already ain't getting p*ssy because you wanna hold out till marriage, and as if that isn't already asking too much of him, that nikka at work right now thinking about how much he loves you and you're here contemplating leaving him because of some shyt that COULD or MIGHT happen on some minority report type shyt.

I hope you don't get into cars.

Some of y'all females are truly fukking retarded... What more do you want from dude?? I hope he leaves your stupid happily ever after story chasing ass.

 

[ikbm]

first noodle passes and now you're willing to let go of your bae
you're really gonna turn into a cat lady

 

[Scott Larock]

Her man gave her HIV and Herpes huh?

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy I hope he leaves you and find a woman who truly makes him happy.

nikka already ain't getting p*ssy because you wanna hold out till marriage, and as if that isn't already asking too much of him, that nikka at work right now thinking about how much he loves you and you're here contemplating leaving him because of some shyt that COULD or MIGHT happen on some minority report type shyt.

I hope you don't get into cars.

Some of y'all females are truly fukking retarded... What more do you want from dude?? I hope he leaves your stupid happily ever after ass.

What is your problem?

 

[chief_keef_stan]

hasn't OP been engaged like 5 times and she is like 21 or 22



where the bruh button at

 

[the cool]

Op seems like a cornball

 

[aXiom]

What is your problem?

You bytch. Even when a nikka is doing right by you you're contemplating leaving his ass on a potential technicality. Then y'all complain about good men. fukk outta here.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

You bytch. Even when a nikka is doing right by you you're contemplating leaving his ass on a potential technicality. Then y'all complain about good men. fukk outta here.

o my

 

[Scott Larock]

So you ain't even sucking his dikk

Nikka truly lost

God damn, I couldn't do it, I couldn't feel like a man if a woman tried me like that, nothing against you but I been there years ago and I felt like a loser I couldn't put myself through that again, I got too much pride as a man.

I understand your position but I recommend a vibator and a cat and call it a day, if you scared to take risk then you should consider bowing out gracefully

 

[BrehWyatt]

I hope OP realizes that her wanting to break it off with her guy because her best friend's husband apparently is a scandalous nikka makes about as much sense as it would for a chick to smack her man out of his sleep because she dreamed about him cheating on her with some broad he doesn't even know exists.

 

[The Mad Titan]

@Juicy if this isn't a troll thread and your serious, then you have two options.


A) leave this guy and work on building up your insecurities before getting into another relationship (let him know its all you're fault)

B) talk to him, tell him how you feel and why. Get his opinion and figure out what you want to do from there hopefully try to work things out (even tho this is all you)


imo you should take very little from what you read on this site to heart. At the same time this is a prime example of what to expect from both men and females....


But you shouldn't be leaving a fiance for something he hasn't done, especially if you feel he has been faithful to you. At this point in the game, unless some serious mistakes are made you should be ready to go through with things....


Don't be surprised if he flips out or gets mad..... your accusing someone that's waiting to marry you before sex of having sex with other people in the mean time. I'd be pissed too...