Thinking about leaving my Fiance

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Im just thinking out loud. But I guess women aren't allowed to have negative thoughts. Dudes on here say theyll leave their girl over the thought of them cheating but im so wrong for thinking the same.

The coli actually jumped on old boy who was planning on leaving his wife because she questioned him working at bestbuy. They went in really hard on that dude, there are a bunch of clowns and cheaters and liar's on here but they usually go in on extreme's especially when its dealing with marriage.

edit: everything you do on this site is going to be 100x worse since your a female tho.
 

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Im just thinking out loud. But I guess women aren't allowed to have negative thoughts. Dudes on here say theyll leave their girl over the thought of them cheating but im so wrong for thinking the same.
I get you. nikkas on here also make 6 figures, clown on me for having my Mastsrs by saying that doesnt mean shyt, swear theyre smashing dimes left and right and can go toe to toe with a gorilla. :mjlol:

I do think you should be grateful if you found a dude to wait for you though. Most of these p*ssy gobbling nikkas wouldnt wait a month.
 

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It seems you have alot of insecurities.......I couldn't date a woman like you. I'll have to dip (no offense). Especially If I known you was badmouthing me on a forum saying I'll cheat and give you STDs. That's just some foul shyt to do, but if you feel that way, just tell dude to go and get a check up. shyt I was in similar situation as dude when I was in a long relationship with a chick that didn't want sex. I waited for a year and few months and stuck it out like a real man because I was in love with her & wanted to prove how real I was. It turned out to be a huge mistake for me and it could be for breh as well.

Guaranteed.....Breaking it off with dude is going make him go out and do the exact same things that your afraid of, because in his eyes, he did exactly what a good man was supposed to and he's gonna be like fukk it :yeshrug:.....I'ma start doing what she's accusing me of. Maybe I should be like these other nikkas :patrice:

I didn't badmouth him. They're just thoughts. Relax.
 

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So if 2 of your relationships end, there's something wrong with you? I already said the other engagements were a bad idea. We were young and we thought that was what we wanted at the time. You're acting as if you've never done anything you regret when you were younger. I think being engaged to dudes you love is pretty light compared to what other people have done.
I'm 21 so yea I'm still doing dum shyt but sounded like you still have ish to still figure out before you in anything long term

but anyways do u tho no hate
 

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I get you. nikkas on here also make 6 figures, clown on me for having my Mastsrs by saying that doesnt mean shyt, swear theyre smashing dimes left and right and can go toe to toe with a gorilla. :mjlol:

I do think you should be grateful if you found a dude to wait for you though. Most of these p*ssy gobbling nikkas wouldnt wait a month.

I never said I wasn't grateful it's just
Something ive been thinking about
 

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Dude seems like a good guy, he is even waiting for you. You'll be lucky to find another guy like him if you are even granted another chance. In a world where no woman nor man saves it for marriage, let alone saves it for anybody you should be happy he places you on a pedestal. You should place him on a pedastal as well. Good luck.
bytch done found the unicorn of nikkas, refuses to give him p*ssy or fellate him till they're married, and is now scared that AFTER she starts giving him some wet he's gonna cheat on her and give her an STD. As if he needs anymore reasons to cheat given their current situation. nikka probably loves her to death and is sacrificing a lot just because he clearly thinks she's worth it. Nope, not enough. She decides she may not want to be with him anymore because there's no fool proof way to know if your husband will or will not cheat in the future. This bytch is probably shopping for crystal balls on ali express as we speak :mjlol:This nikka either gotta be a fukking saint or just beyond stupid at this point, either way he's way too good for her. She should him a favor and let him loose so the breh can find a woman who truly wants to make him happy. She comes off as overly narcissistic.
 
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I didn't badmouth him. They're just thoughts. Relax.

You just compared him to your homegirl's ex who is a scumbag that slept with men and gave her herp & HIV :childplease:

That's pretty bad, but I digress. Maybe if you wasn't insecure and gave dude a lil bit of ass, you wouldn't have to worry about him cheating on you. But the fact he hasn't done it yet despite you not giving it up...should tell your crazy ass something.

Your probably the same kind of broad that hits up fortune reader hotlines and ask questions like "Is my boyfriend gonna dump me"? lol smh.
 

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It seems you have alot of insecurities.......I couldn't date a woman like you. I'll have to dip (no offense). Especially If I known you was badmouthing me on a forum saying I'll cheat and give you STDs. That's just some foul shyt to do, but if you feel that way, just tell dude to go and get a check up. shyt I was in similar situation as dude when I was in a long relationship with a chick that didn't want sex. I waited for a year and few months and stuck it out like a real man because I was in love with her & wanted to prove how real I was. It turned out to be a huge mistake for me and it could be for breh as well.

Guaranteed.....Breaking it off with dude is going make him go out and do the exact same things that your afraid of, because in his eyes, he did exactly what a good man was supposed to and he's gonna be like fukk it :yeshrug:.....I'ma start doing what she's accusing me of. Maybe I should be like these other nikkas :patrice:
....bra im in the same situation as you once were. chick and i have been talking for months and she doesnt want to have sex. telling me when it happens it happens. lowkey i feel like she playing me. currently we are just "talking". care to explain what happened to you in more detail?
 

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bytch done found the unicorn of nikkas, refuses to give him p*ssy or fellate him till they're married, and is now scared that AFTER she starts giving him some wet he's gonna cheat on her and give her an STD. As if he needs anymore reasons to cheat given their current situation. nikka probably loves her to death and is sacrificing a lot just because he clearly thinks she's worth it. Nope, not enough. She decides she may not want to be with him anymore because there's no fool proof way to know if your husband will or will not cheat in the future. This bytch is probably shopping for crystal balls on ali express as we speak :mjlol:This nikka either gotta be a fukking saint or just beyond stupid a this point, either way he's way too good for her. She should him a favor and let him loose so the breh can find a woman who truly wants to make him happy. She comes off as overly narcissistic.

Dude serioudly what is your problem? Im just talking about it im not seriously gonna leave. Why are you being so disgusting? You've never had doubts about anything? Does that mean you should be insulted for having them?

You just compared him to your homegirl's ex who is a scumbag that slept with men and gave her herp & HIV :childplease:

That's pretty bad, but I digress. Maybe if you wasn't insecure and gave dude a lil bit of ass, you wouldn't have to worry about him cheating on you. But the fact he hasn't done it yet despite you not giving it up...should tell your crazy ass something.

Your probably the same kind of broad that hits up fortune reader hotlines and ask questions "Is my boyfriend gonna dump me"? lol smh.

omg I didn't compare him to him I just mentioned it. I was just thinking about it.
 

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I'm not #HOH or anything, but take note for the brehs reading this thread - many women will not fully appreciate the things you do for them, they can turn on a dime emotionally and it all goes out the window

enjoy the good times you have with women while they happen, but know it can end at any time :manny:

I don't have anything against the OP personally, but I can't say I disagree with some of the harsh comments in this thread
 

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@Juicy you are entitled to your feelings. You don't have to justify them and they don't have to be excused.

That said you should try to understand where they're coming from. Has he given you are reason to doubt him, is your gut telling you that you shouldn't trust him or is this about you?

Figuring out the cause and understanding where these feelings are coming from is where you'll find the answer to your question.

But once you say things out loud you can't take them back so think very carefully about what you say to him.
 
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