Thinking about leaving my Fiance

[mcdivit85]

Why are you being rude? You're acting like it's so wrong for me to want to avoid this. Smh

I'm not being rude. I'm being frank.

Avoid what? According to your posts, you're not even having sex with dude. And he's still around? Hell, he proposed? Do you know how lucky you are in 2014 to even have a dude give you more than one month without sex?

This dude, by the looks of it, is a good dude. Stands by a woman who won't even have sex with him for fear that she'll catch some disease that he probbably doesn't even have. How many horndogs stay with women who they're not having sex with? Dude is probably light on the sexual experience like you.

Like I said, you'd be doing him a favor.

Peace

 

[HoloGraphic]

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[Shade]

I hate to sound like I'm insulting you but you seem to lack the mental readiness and overall maturity to get married or even get into a relationship period right now. If he treats you good and hasn't done anything to warrant suspicion of him doing something foul and yet you want to leave him because of some what ifs you put into your mind after seeing a situation happen to someone else then quite frankly you're just not ready for relationships and has some personal issues you need to work on before getting into another one. Dude doesn't deserve this as its not fair to him.

 

[AgentGrey]

@Token now you got her wanting to live a ratchet thot life like you and yours

 

[AAKing23]

I'm not being rude. I'm being frank.

Avoid what? According to your posts, you're not even having sex with dude. And he's still around? Hell, he proposed? Do you know how lucky you are in 2014 to even have a dude give you more than one month without sex?

This dude, by the looks of it, is a good dude. Stands by a woman who won't even have sex with him for fear that she'll catch some disease that he probbably doesn't even have. How many horndogs stay with women who they're not having sex with? Dude is probably light on the sexual experience like you.

Like I said, you'd be doing him a favor.

Peace

It's also pretty selfish might I add

 

[The Mad Titan]

Sidebar:

This is a dangerous road to start going down, if you do mention this to him. He might feel like "Well she already thinks I am I mines well go ahead and do it" Not saying that's justified of shows maturity. IJS you're insecurities could open up a can of worms and its totally unnecessary

 

[BrehWyatt]

Avoid what? According to your posts, you're not even having sex with dude. And he's still around? Hell, he proposed? Do you know how lucky you are in 2014 to even have a dude give you more than one month without sex?

Hold up, he's waiting on her? Cotdamn. Given how easy it is in general to get puss in this day and age, and he's waiting?

I'm not trying to jump on OP, but, I see why others are. It's one thing if you were having second thoughts in general, marriage is a big fukking deal, a huge life step, after all, but .

If you're not ready, you're not ready. Fine, no harm done, that happens. But don't put the blame for the impending demise of what y'all have on his currently non-existent/potential fukkery. Hell, that's asking that cat to be the mother fukking captain of team #HOH later in life. Be a woman about yours, brehette.

 

[illadope]

there has to be some subconscious underlying reason behind your thinking. You cant honestly be judging your relationship over your friends.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

only solution here is to paag.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Good for him, he dodged a bullet

 

[no.]

Hold up, he's waiting on her? Cotdamn. Given how easy it is in general to get puss in this day and age, and he's waiting?

I'm not trying to jump on OP, but, I see why others are. It's one thing if you were having second thoughts in general, marriage is a big fukking deal, a huge life step, after all, but .

If you're not ready, you're not ready. Fine, no harm done, that happens. But don't put the blame for the impending demise of what y'all have on his currently non-existent/potential fukkery. Hell, that's asking that cat to be the mother fukking captain of team #HOH later in life. Be a woman about yours, brehette.

Yeah, we see men in this forum getting cold feet about marriage all the time. It isn't that unthinkable for a chick to get them too. She's had some trust issues in the past (her parent's marriage ended due to infidelity, and now her best friend's too, plus she's had a couple of broken engagements), she's like the female version of #GetMarriedBrehs.

 

[karim]

After reading Chief's thread about cheating, I don't think it would be a good idea to get married. I don't know if those guys know about how common stds are or maybe they just don't care but I think about it a lot. and it's kind of scary knowing that even if you don't sleep with a bunch of people there's still a chance you could end up with an incurable disease just because the man youre with is a scumbag. My best friend's husband cheated on her and gave her HIV and Herpes while she was pregnant (I think I've talked about this before on here idk) and that really scared me. I honestly think about that a lot and I just really don't think it's smart for me to do it.

So I think I'm just going to wait for him to get off work and tell him that I think we should break up.

I talked to my brother in law (sister's husband) about it and he said he doesn't think my Fiance would cheat but I think he was just saying that to make me feel better. What do you guys think?

What's up with your bizzare obsession with STDs?

Leave your fiance because your scared of sex brehettes...

The only reason why you should break up with your fiance is that you are so fukking immature that you really shouldn't be engaged.

 

[Rawtid]

I love you @Juicy boo, but you are getting the real in this thread. Not saying you're wrong for what you're thinking but it's pretty effed up.

 

[Captain Crunch]

Get engaged brehettes

 

[jadden]

I'm not being rude. I'm being frank.

Avoid what? According to your posts, you're not even having sex with dude. And he's still around? Hell, he proposed? Do you know how lucky you are in 2014 to even have a dude give you more than one month without sex?

This dude, by the looks of it, is a good dude. Stands by a woman who won't even have sex with him for fear that she'll catch some disease that he probbably doesn't even have. How many horndogs stay with women who they're not having sex with? Dude is probably light on the sexual experience like you.

Like I said, you'd be doing him a favor.

Peace