Thinking about leaving my Fiance

[Peak]

I've read enough. OP is a self saboteur and more than likely an idiot.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Plus them nikkas asked you to marry them, not the other way around. If you had said no you would have been a bunch of other names lmao

I don't think you should leave ol boy though. Just tell him how you feel...or take a day to follow him and see if he's up to no good.

I'm not actually going to leave. im just nervous about it. I should have known better than to say anything about it on the coli. I forget that women don't get positive advice here just insulted. If a guy had made this thread they would be understanding of why he's nervous about it but since I'm a woman Its wrong.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

 

[twan83]

After reading Chief's thread about cheating, I don't think it would be a good idea to get married. I don't know if those guys know about how common stds are or maybe they just don't care but I think about it a lot. and it's kind of scary knowing that even if you don't sleep with a bunch of people there's still a chance you could end up with an incurable disease just because the man youre with is a scumbag. My best friend's husband cheated on her and gave her HIV and Herpes while she was pregnant (I think I've talked about this before on here idk) and that really scared me. I honestly think about that a lot and I just really don't think it's smart for me to do it.

So I think I'm just going to wait for him to get off work and tell him that I think we should break up.

I talked to my brother in law (sister's husband) about it and he said he doesn't think my Fiance would cheat but I think he was just saying that to make me feel better. What do you guys think?

@Juicy

anyways if ur thinking bout this with no other reasons but cuz scared of std's and worried bout cheating means u weren't ready to be with him in the first place to be honest

u know me i keep it 100 with u.

unless there is more to the story like he gives u signs he maybe cheating then it just seems its outta the blue to me. the std thing i get it. it can be scary but if he is ur fiancé just as him to take a std test sure he may get annoyed and mad but explain y u want him too and he should then after the explanation cuz ur scared of past experiences of what happened with ur friend.

dont let anybody sway u from what u believe is right for u. if u just dont wanna be with him then dont and be upfront with him he deserves that and so do u.

cheating is gonna happen with anybody ur with if they choose too and there is nothing u can do about it. thats how life is u can just hope the partner ur with fits what ur looking for in somebody and just let it be not dwell on it. cuz thats unnecessary stress u dont need in ur life.

 

[twan83]

I'm not actually going to leave. im just nervous about it. I should have known better than to say anything about it on the coli. I forget that women don't get positive advice here just insulted. If a guy had made this thread they would be understanding of why he's nervous about it but since I'm a woman Its wrong.

ur not wrong and just look at certain posters for advice thats all

i'll say with no fukks given i dont know or what but u can tell from their responses but u got people on the coli who dont know shyt just talk out their asses and wanna just leave negative shyt on here cuz they aint doing shyt with their lives

then u got some who are doing things with their lives having fun on here and giving good advice

u just gotta be able to distinguish who is what on here as best as possible thats all and ignore the negativity and bs that some people wanna say or post and keep it moving

 

[MikelArteta]

Get some self counselling

BTW never tell your fiance your weakness ala scared he's going to cheat on you

Partners use weaknesses and insecurities for ammo incase anything arises

I'm not actually going to leave. im just nervous about it. I should have known better than to say anything about it on the coli. I forget that women don't get positive advice here just insulted. If a guy had made this thread they would be understanding of why he's nervous about it but since I'm a woman Its wrong.

 

[Elle Driver]

You just need to follow him or hire a private investigator.

 

[aXiom]

Dude serioudly what is your problem? Im just talking about it im not seriously gonna leave. Why are you being so disgusting? You've never had doubts about anything? Does that mean you should be insulted for having them?

Sorry, I just felt like being a dikk for a bit. I'm not usually like this and we've been going back and forth at this since you was @Sunshine and you seemed happy then, so what changed? Then I gotta deal with women in my ear damn near everyday telling me how black men aint shyt and how hard it is to find a decent dude and you're here telling me you found a dude that i know a lot of females would kill for and you're thinking about breaking his heart over a minor hang up? Nah. shyt ain't right.

If dude is doing right by you, hasn't given you any reason to doubt his loyalty and you're still stuck on something silly then you should let dude go. The worse thing you could do is hop into the marriage with one foot out. Dude really don't deserve this though and the fact that you're having second thoughts about it is not really a good look.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Yo, i got a question, if I better want to understand how women are with like relationships and such, should I browse lipstick alley?
just ti have a female point of view on these things and please my woman anally?

 

[chief_keef_stan]

You just need to follow him or hire a private investigator.

 

[Elle Driver]

@Juicy need to check up on her investment.

 

[Token]

@Token now you got her wanting to live a ratchet thot life like you and yours

but I'm like... the least thotlike person I know.

 

[aliG]

After reading Chief's thread about cheating, I don't think it would be a good idea to get married. I don't know if those guys know about how common stds are or maybe they just don't care but I think about it a lot. and it's kind of scary knowing that even if you don't sleep with a bunch of people there's still a chance you could end up with an incurable disease just because the man youre with is a scumbag. My best friend's husband cheated on her and gave her HIV and Herpes while she was pregnant (I think I've talked about this before on here idk) and that really scared me. I honestly think about that a lot and I just really don't think it's smart for me to do it.

So I think I'm just going to wait for him to get off work and tell him that I think we should break up.

I talked to my brother in law (sister's husband) about it and he said he doesn't think my Fiance would cheat but I think he was just saying that to make me feel better. What do you guys think?

even though i hate your guys juicy, you aint gonna find the answer here on da Coli. you gotta do some soul searching and figure it out on your own.

 

[dennis roadman]

@Juicy leave him ASAP

no man deserves the pain of being married to a woman who makes huge life decisions based on coli threads

 

[chief_keef_stan]

@Juicy need to check up on her investment.

sounds like you've done this before











keyloggers cheaper tho