@thestripper do you avoid working At black strip clubs?
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Pic vioNah, I got a little booty. Lol could be bigger though.
Does it ever get boring to you? Do ever actually like or fall for a dude that comes in?...Meaning either you give him more than he pay's for or you get nervous or you wanna legit go out with them?
I always wondered if yall get caught up over a dude that aint paying. My boy is a sucker and fails in love with strippers, it usually takes him a few hours after the fact that its just a job.
lol No but he did come to the last club I worked at. I use to see them weekly before I changed clubs. Now it is rare. Celebs are over rated.
I never get bored. I find it quite entertaining to watch people get themselves worked up. It just amazes me that people really think the interactions is anymore than me trying to make money. People constantly ask me do I get turned and I never really understand this question. Why would me jumping around sweating while trying to look interested while you act silly turn me on especially when I do it night after night? I mean feels good to make a big sale but that's about it.
I don't give freebies EVER. The only strippers who do that young, new and can't hustle. Men drop hundreds of dollars on me. Why on Earth would I be selling myself short for a pretty face? Dancing for attractive and charming men does make the job easier but in the end they all have to pay. Besides most of these men are only interested in you for sex anyway. You could be celibate but these men still think that you are easy so why even put yourself through that?
Just about what I thought, I know everyone is different.... but I figure most strippers that are trying to keep it professional probably feel this way.
With that said, one more question. Do you find it harder to trust men observing them in there "natural" habitat, and do you notice if it take more for you to get sexually aroused now than it did before because of the job? Or is sex kinda ruined or meh because of work?
Honest anwers to things like this interest me
Dang, I thought I was on so something with this....
Still haven't pulled it off, I don't even get let into joints when I have my sweats on....
nikka's stop me at the door like
pull out a band at the door and tell 'em you trynna spend, they'll let you in
nikka like marcus walking round spearmint rhino with no underwear in his sweatpants, pitchin a big ass tent 
Just about what I thought, I know everyone is different.... but I figure most strippers that are trying to keep it professional probably feel this way.
With that said, one more question. Do you find it harder to trust men observing them in there "natural" habitat, and do you notice if it take more for you to get sexually aroused now than it did before because of the job? Or is sex kinda ruined or meh because of work?
Honest anwers to things like this interest me
lol You still have the perception that it is sexual for me. It is not. I never get turned on EVER so why would it affect my sexuality? My sexuality is the same. My turns on are the same. Others finding me sexually attractive does not bother me. I don't have the hang ups or repressions that other people have so I don't have the guilt or the shame that they would feel.
I meet a lot of different men so a few bad apples don't spoil the bunch for me. You'd be surprised how many men tell me they love their wives or g/f. I had men who will just pay me to sit with them b/c they feel like a dance would be cheating. If anything it's let me know that men are diverse.
My job has however made me realize that people are just way over sexed and make a big deal about something that we all will spend less than 1% of our lives doing. It is such a waste of time to focus so much on sex. I has actually caused me gravity towards to more meaningful relationships. In my personally life nothing is a bigger turn off than a thirsty man. Anyone overly concerned with how I look gets thrown to the bushes.I feel like if I like you and you like me and we vibe we will eventually have sex so why be so pressed about it.
pull out a band at the door and tell 'em you trynna spend, they'll let you in
It's funny b/c every part of this post is true.
i got slightly addicted to stripclubs in my early 20s
the options had me going back every saturday for a month. i kinda take issue with saying they're enjoyable though. once you notice certain patterns and behaviors, stripclubs become very depressing; FAST.it's cool for a guy to go maybe once a year to treat himself, but stripclubs can really weird you out after awhile. i feel the same way about casinos and bars as well.
i think people who are pressed for sex feel like they need it to be happy. In a sense i think they shpuldn't associate sex with a particular girl as a requirement for happiness. but at the same time, if that's how they feel, they should act on it instead of trying to be too cool and compromise on what they want from the girl. I just think they should ask themselve "why" they need it so bad.
i got slightly addicted to stripclubs in my early 20s
it's cool for a guy to go maybe once a year to treat himself, but stripclubs can really weird you out after awhile. i feel the same way about casinos and bars as well.
Many people use strip clubs, bars, casinos, etc as a form of escapism. Sometimes those are the only social interactions that people get. It can be sad.
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I agree completely. The happiness and joy a meaningful relationship of any kind gives to your life blows sex out the water. There is no comparison. But a lot of people would rather chase sex because it is easier. Unforuntely we live in society that encourages men to be hyper sexual so a lot of men seek it as a form of validation. It's said really b/c it keeps a lot of men from being happy and truly being able to experience a truly meaningful relationship that transcends physical needs.
i didn't mean it like the joy of a relationship > sex. I meant you shouldn't think "I need sex from ________ in order to be happy." that's the part where dudes play themselves.relationships can help you be happy or miserable just like sex can. EDIT: Being dependent on the relationship (or sex) to be happy is what will make someone miserable.
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