There's a lot of older lonely women out there

[Rell Lauren]

Some of my coworkers are heavy on dating sites. One of them, good looking woman, was asking about Match. She can do better that settling for something online.

 

[MikelArteta]

Some of my coworkers are heavy on dating sites. One of them, good looking woman, was asking about Match. She can do better that settling for something online.

match is the goat

 

[paperbag]

exactly. Men are supposed to be building themselves when they are young hence they cant compete against a Grown man who has built something.

During a womans prime she should be presenting her case to a mate that she is worthy and a man seeking a woman has built something which shows he is worthy of being a provided.

The only time a man and woman should be the same age and they are together is if both were older (say in their 30s) and meet the requirements of provider and nutuerer.

Very rarely is a man 25 or under on his game/established so usually relationships during that age is filled with headaches (woman having no paitence for a mans struggles, and a man cant fully focus on building because he must care for a woman).

IMO dudes shouldn't be in relationships pre 25 unless they are a rare case where they have established themselves and already have their own homes.

Most so called "Career" focused women tend to target bummy dudes or dudes who have not finished building because this gives the women leverage and they can feel like they are domineering over the man (i.e. the Baby Boy syndrome where dudes girlfriend is like his mama).

Women have zero leverage over a Man who has built something for himself and is established.

But yall just said black women should make sure they get a man in college. But now its men shouldnt be in relationships before 25.
And then most of the men commenting are 30+ with no wives

And the person who started the thread was home alone watching porn

 

[kevm3]

There are plenty of single women in this category. That's why they're pandering like female simps: because they desperately want a return on affection.
Dating isn't a game where the moment you hit a certain combination of attributes, you instantly get married, there are many, many suitable, successful men that are having trouble dating. There are also many, many suitable successful women that are having trouble dating.
They don't always have to be "crazy," or "washed-up," or even be bad people, they just may not have found the person they feel is right for them

A woman that takes care of her man is far from pandering or simping. She's doing what she's supposed to do as a woman. Just like if a man takes care of the bills and keeps his woman protected is a man doing what he's supposed to be doing. Doing that and getting no reciprocation and continuing to treat someone who isn't treating you is simping.

Difference is if you tell a man to improve himself if he wants better quality of women and you give him some steps to do that, he won't scream, "Man why do you HATE MEN? You are so bitter dude." Instead he might say thanks bruh, I'm going to get out here, work out, step my conversation game up, dress better and get at these ladies. On the other hand, you tell a woman to step her game up and here comes all the bitter accusations. How is saying that a woman needs to change what she values if she wants to get married calling them crazy or bad? There's numerous videos of black women sitting around calling black men homosexuals, jail birds, players and then wondering why they can't find black men to marry and nearly all of those vidoes talk about how these women have degrees and are successful. Maybe there's a theme there. Men don't value degrees and money in a woman like that. You make the suggestion that a woman needs to step up her cooking and nurturing nature and it turns into a whole big argument.

 

[Shadow King]

But yall just said black women should make sure they get a man in college. But now its men shouldnt be in relationships before 25.
And then most of the men commenting are 30+ with no wives

And the person who started the thread was home alone watching porn

Women like older men. The 20 year old woman not frolicking around and carrying herself well can enter a relationship with a 26-27 year old man.

 

[EndDomination]

A woman that takes care of her man is far from pandering or simping. She's doing what she's supposed to do as a woman. Just like if a man takes care of the bills and keeps his woman protected is a man doing what he's supposed to be doing. Doing that and getting no reciprocation and continuing to treat someone who isn't treating you is simping.

Difference is if you tell a man to improve himself if he wants better quality of women and you give him some steps to do that, he won't scream, "Man why do you HATE MEN? You are so bitter dude." Instead he might say thanks bruh, I'm going to get out here, work out, step my conversation game up, dress better and get at these ladies. On the other hand, you tell a woman to step her game up and here comes all the bitter accusations. How is saying that a woman needs to change what she values if she wants to get married calling them crazy or bad? There's numerous videos of black women sitting around calling black men homosexuals, jail birds, players and then wondering why they can't find black men to marry and nearly all of those vidoes talk about how these women have degrees and are successful. Maybe there's a theme there. Men don't value degrees and money in a woman like that. You make the suggestion that a woman needs to step up her cooking and nurturing nature and it turns into a whole big argument.

I gave a general, well-balanced analysis of a topic that this forum has beaten to death with hyperbole, and sheer nonsense mixed w/ very little real-world experi nice.
There are men that value education, and earning potential: those men are far more likely to be highly educated and higher-earning themselves. Regardless of the long-running joke on the Coli about “six certs, six figures,” most posters on this site are not high-earning, highly educated men. Their pretending to know what goes on in the minds of both men and women that they aren’t, and are not around, is silly.

And the cooking ideal comes across as misogynistic, not wholehearted advice. I know that because I actually talk to women in real life. I don’t pin my life to ridiculous gender roles, so I don’t think it’s necessarily a “woman's job” to do whatever it is you stated above, nor a man’s job to do whatever it is you stated above.

We have different opinions on that, and that’s okay.

You also completely misrepresented what I said earlier in regard to the labels “crazy,” and “washed up.”

 

[RubioTheCruel]

But yall just said black women should make sure they get a man in college. But now its men shouldnt be in relationships before 25.

I mean, both can be true. If I had a daughter I'd tell her get a man in college. I do have a son and when he's of age I'm going to tell him not to seriously entertain marriage to a woman until he's in his mid-late 20s....

 

[Spotja]

Too many delusional brehs here. Talking bout I can snatch a young thing in my late 30s and 40s. The very same women y’all are bashing, you gonnna end up like, Old & Lonely

 

[Lweezy]

It's not scarce. There's actually a good amount of single black men available. The thing is, 30+ women all have different specific qualities there are looking for and certain men may not meet those standards.

So instead of settling just to say they have a man, they choose to remain single until they find the one that's right for them.

No..Whats really happening is that the men who you think are on your level (race irrelevant) dont want you.

 

[Lweezy]

Link/name/IG?

Lol..youre gonna go display your thirst arent you?

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Thats how I know that none of these nikkas saying that women over 30 all have trash bodies have ever gotten p*ssy before.

a lot of the white women these brehs fawn after are done by 28. But white women been known to age terribly. There are exceptions however.

 

[EndDomination]

Most women in their younger years (when they get pregnant) choose men for superficial reasons ie looks, clothes, body, etc. A lot of women overlook the average brehs with no swag building for themselves.

Women chase dudes that ignore them/give no fukks about them while d!cking around (words to AMS) the guys that love and adore them. There are no shortage of testimonies on the internet proving this.

Don't men do literally the same thing?
Brehs aren't chasing intelligent, well-adjusted women who are building for their futures, they chase the woman with the fattest ass in Pink sweatpants that they can find
Plenty of men and women make good dating decisions in their youth and formative adult years, it isn't a cut and dry phenomenon like you and other posters are making it out to be.

 

[EndDomination]

"More back men are unemployed than women" Yeah that's not what we're talking about fakkit
"Black men are more unemployed" That's not what we're talking about either fagot

Black men in the work force educated or not make more on average than black women educated or not

State of Working America Data Library has all the information your fakkit ass needs Data Library

I hate to be the bearer of statistical news, but if you included Black men in prison and who have dropped out of the workforce, you'd find the median Black male income would drop by quite a bit, and that unemployment would skyrocket in that category.
More Black women are employed, partially out of necessity (the feminization of poverty, government subsidized housing and healthcare can't alleviate Black poverty, etc.)
And women are still paid less than men, while Black people as a whole are paid less than Whites.

Stats aren't as fun when you're half-assing. And the picture isn't as rose-tinted, either.

 

[EndDomination]

Except like I said 99 percent of the time these chicks had a good guy whether in university or their mid to late twenties, who wanted to marry them but they were too young or thought they could do better or did not feel the spark.

You keep equating like they have to settle for some bum ass negro when that's not the case.

That's impossible to quantify, and I wouldn't trust you saying a single thing about women since you live in Canada, got herpes from a cac, and have more posts here than anyone else.

 

[KingTut]

I hate to be the bearer of statistical news, but if you included Black men in prison and who have dropped out of the workforce, you'd find the median Black male income would drop by quite a bit, and that unemployment would skyrocket in that category.
More Black women are employed, partially out of necessity (the feminization of poverty, government subsidized housing and healthcare can't alleviate Black poverty, etc.)
And women are still paid less than men, while Black people as a whole are paid less than Whites.

Stats aren't as fun when you're half-assing. And the picture isn't as rose-tinted, either.

Why the fukk would this include black men in prison or ones who arent working? No one wants to marry those nikkas. Dont be mentally retarded.