"The reason why most women think men are trash, is because they're all sleeping with the same guys"-UK Sis

[lib123]

This is how I know for a fact who really was outside and just be typing shyt
The amount of dummies and no living muthafukkas on this website is astonishing

Lol it’s actually obvious you’re not outside with different groups of people. If you’ve spent enough time around Black, Latina, White and Asian women and ask them about what they’re looking for in dudes, non-Black women are more likely to say they just want a dude taller than them. I’ve literally never met a non-BW who said she’d turn down a dude because he’s not 6 ft.

Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve? | Essence

Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve?

www.essence.com

WE ASKED TWO BLACK WOMEN HELPING OTHER SISTERS FIND LOVE WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON WITH THE DATING SCENE.

ESSENCE.COM: Do you feel Black women and men are too particular when it comes to potential dating candidates?

FISHER: We found that as opposed to the White clients that we’ve had, Black women are usually looking for physical attributes first. We look for someone who is attractive to us and then we pick up on his hobbies, interests and values. Whereas, White clients are looking for the reverse first. What kind of job does he have? Is he going to be able to provide? Then they circle back.

GILMORE: We’re the first ones to look at men’s bodies and how attractive they are whereas our White clients have a long list of requirements of things like character and integrity…

FISHER: …and, then down the line, it backfires for us because you were never a compatible mix to start with.

ESSENCE.COM: Do Black women have realistic dating pool expectations?

GILMORE: We have clients that have a long laundry list of requirements—6 foot 4, with a Ph.D., never been married, no children, in his late 30s or early 40s—and a lot of times we then ask them, well, what are you bringing to the table? And, the answer is nowhere near all that. Why would you expect someone to have more than what you’re offering?

 

[PL368Z]

Does this apply to men who have similar complaints about women, or is this just her way of absolving men from any an all accountability.

 

[lib123]

Ciara the blueprint

It’s not even a realistic blueprint. The main reason it worked is because Russ dreamed of being with Ciara when he was younger.

Russell Wilson Started Crushing on Ciara After Seeing 1 Video

Russell Wilson and Ciara have been together since 2015, but he admits he was crushing on her way before when he saw one of her music videos.

www.cheatsheet.com

 

[Geek Nasty]

I've noticed that women love sharing the same dude, it seems to be a turn on to them.

I don’t think they love sharing, they’re just willing to share a man they couldn’t get with besides being a side piece.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

We've been saying this for years

Large percentage of men have checked out..only reason why women are smashing the same dudes


Engaging in causal sex takes work
Consistently going out
Dealing with flakes and rejections
Money time etc
Lack of sleep
Learning game/dealing with bullshyt

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Money don't make a man handsome. Just means you got money to provide more comfort but if you aren't willing to spend it. Most women aren't gonna be that interested. Money only helps tricks. Looks and height will always be the winner. Women will cheat on a good man to get with a good looking tall man even if she doesn't appear that to be her type.

Male value to women on average:

1. Looks
2. Height
3. Clout
4. Money
5. Respect

Women care about respect the least but demand it the most.

Keep telling yourself that breh

When chicks come over to the crib and see the square footage you can see the lust start to form in their eyes And it always start the same way:

• This is a nice neighborhood
• Wow these are some big houses, you live over here ?
• Wait.....you live here? By yourself ?

When they drive up and I always make sure the landscape lighting is on and some fly shyt playing on the speakers when they walk in. Once I get this koi pond put in my backyard I'm bout to go on a legendary run

 

[AAKing23]

People underestimating 80/20 is laughable.
It’s really even smaller in more competitive places like NYC, LA, ATL, etc. it’s really more like 85/15.

Women are biologically very picky people and anyone who has close, honest relationships with women knows this. They are not easily satisfied. What you’re missing is just because a woman sleeps with or entertains a guy or even has kids with and marries a guy doesn’t mean she’s actually interested or wants him.

When they can’t lock down that 15% they’re chasing, they will use the rest of guys for their needs. But they only truly desire that 15-20% and will lust after them in private, while staying with the placeholder in order to maintain a socially acceptable appearance of a married or partnered woman.

They are never satisfied, never forget

 

[#1 pick]

Keep telling yourself that breh

When chicks come over to the crib and see the square footage you can see the lust start to form in their eyes And it always start the same way:

• This is a nice neighborhood
• Wow these are some big houses, you live over here ?
• Wait.....you live here? By yourself ?

When they drive up and I always make sure the landscape lighting is on and some fly shyt playing on the speakers when they walk in. Once I get this koi pond put in my backyard I'm bout to go on a legendary run

The fact that you taking her to the crib to impress her is trick shyt. Player shyt, the hotels or her crib is the only valid stops

 

[Shadow King]

The 80/20 rule is inconclusive because it was based on an online dating app. Dating apps are not an accurate measure because of the abundance of options and people tend to be more superficial, picky or desperate. Most women are not going to date a guy that is in the top percentile, and that is based on numbers and proximity. The less a man puts himself out there, the fewer options he has.



Men being taller and stronger is a universal attraction. And it is biological.

That online dating app has millions of people on it. It's not inconclusive. You keep pushing this because you don't like the reality.

 

[International Playa]

Lol it’s actually obvious you’re not outside with different groups of people. If you’ve spent enough time around Black, Latina, White and Asian women and ask them about what they’re looking for in dudes, non-Black women are more likely to say they just want a dude taller than them. I’ve literally never met a non-BW who said she’d turn down a dude because he’s not 6 ft.

Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve? | Essence

Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve?

www.essence.com

WE ASKED TWO BLACK WOMEN HELPING OTHER SISTERS FIND LOVE WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON WITH THE DATING SCENE.

ESSENCE.COM: Do you feel Black women and men are too particular when it comes to potential dating candidates?

FISHER: We found that as opposed to the White clients that we’ve had, Black women are usually looking for physical attributes first. We look for someone who is attractive to us and then we pick up on his hobbies, interests and values. Whereas, White clients are looking for the reverse first. What kind of job does he have? Is he going to be able to provide? Then they circle back.

GILMORE: We’re the first ones to look at men’s bodies and how attractive they are whereas our White clients have a long list of requirements of things like character and integrity…

FISHER: …and, then down the line, it backfires for us because you were never a compatible mix to start with.

ESSENCE.COM: Do Black women have realistic dating pool expectations?

GILMORE: We have clients that have a long laundry list of requirements—6 foot 4, with a Ph.D., never been married, no children, in his late 30s or early 40s—and a lot of times we then ask them, well, what are you bringing to the table? And, the answer is nowhere near all that. Why would you expect someone to have more than what you’re offering?

White women care about height just as Black women.

Latina & Asian women it isn't a deal breaker, most of their men are short so they are used to it.

 

[lib123]

White women care about height just as Black women.

Latina & Asian women it isn't a deal breaker, most of their men are short so they are used to it.

White women definitely don’t care as much on the whole. They care way more about how much money dude has than bw.

 

[lib123]

The fact that you taking her to the crib to impress her is trick shyt. Player shyt, the hotels or her crib is the only valid stops

How is it trick shyt if you’re not spending any money? If you had a $50M penthouse in NYC don’t you think it would increase your odds?

 

[Bumblebreh]

That online dating app has millions of people on it. It's not inconclusive. You keep pushing this because you don't like the reality.

Men tend to significantly outnumber women on dating apps, men are less picky and are more likely to like the majority of profiles. That skews the dynamics. Line up ten women and ten men, in most cases the men are going to shoot their shot at the woman that is considered the most attractive.

How is it trick shyt if you’re not spending any money? If you had a $50M penthouse in NYC don’t you think it would increase your odds?

Breh you never invite a woman that you have just met to your actual crib.

 

[lib123]

Breh you never invite a woman that you have just met to your actual crib.

Oh definitely agreed. I thought he was saying it's trick shyt to invite girl to your crib and if she's more interested because you have a nice crib.

 

[Shadow King]

Men tend to significantly outnumber women on dating apps, men are less picky and are more likely to like the majority of profiles. That skews the dynamics. Line up ten women and ten men, in most cases the men are going to shoot their shot at the woman that is considered the most attractive.



Breh you never invite a woman that you have just met to your actual crib.

It doesn't matter that men outnumber women, those women still preferred the most attractive of men.

And no, all the men are not going to shoot their shot at the 1 woman that considered most attractive to ignore the next 9. Maybe 3-5 of them. The rest will recognize her as out of his league, as they for the next 1-2 most attractive women, and try with the others. If men are "less picky" then this example works against that concept.