So you're saying professional athletes whose brand is important are acting like socially awkward weirdos in public on purpose when they have a cool personality in private? This is quite a stretch. What benefit would a public figure have to not show he's socially calibrated. And don't even try to say its for money or attention. These men already have it. And when you look at the most popular athletes (i.e. Jordan, Kobe, LeBron) they didn't have weird public personas. They were the same guys in private that we saw publically.
Not having the right personality means not being masculine enough in this context. This site is predominantly filled with black men from middle class backgrounds who didn't grow up in the "hood" and thus don't fall into the "thug" archetype many black women find attractive. For the record, there is nothing wrong with women being attracted to those type of men. Its the equivalent in the black community of the "bad boy" getting the girl over the "nice guy" in the white community. Women find aggression and the capability to inflict violence as attractive traits in men because those traits are more conducive to survival than being the "nice guy". So what you really described here is nothing more than the masculine traits that make a man the "protector" women naturally desire and calling it "personality".
Obviously. I have never claimed unattractive men with money get genuine burning desire from the women who get with them. Those women are clearly using these men for their resources and will cheat on them any chance they get with a man they actually find attractive. This is a part of the natural order. Its why I say as a man you should cover all bases not just put all your eggs in one basket. You should get in shape, build muscle, and look your best as well as make as much money as possible. That way you can increase your chances of getting true burning desire from a woman rather than just getting woman who will cheat on you any chance she gets.
