The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[philmonroe]

So you agree that they arent picking some of their options?

Good.

The only thing I agree on is all you types of blaming ass people need to,get together and stop fukking whining just like I told the chick kicking the same embarrassing shyt as you.

 

[Killer Instinct]

why do you come in these threads knowing what the topic is about? There are latina threads and asian threads, I almost never see you in them.

@mamba come get your boy!!

Think I may have chicken for dinner, though.
Wbu?

 

[Blackout]

Why would you expect someone to date someone they aren't attracted to?

Theres levels to this attraction shyt.

Many times an immature girl would be attracted to two guys but chose one over the other for the wrong reasons like looks or popularity and not personality.

Then when they reap what they sow they want to act like they didnt make the mistake of not checking out if the person has a good personality.

The only thing I agree on is all you types of blaming ass people need to,get together and stop fukking whining just like I told the chick kicking the same embarrassing shyt as you.

Im just saying the truth.

How about you stop whining about me saying the truth.

 

[The ADD]

The narrative is spreading to white women:

 

[Yup]

What are you comparing?

If you are comparing the opportunities non-Black men have vis-a-vis Black men, that isn't a fair comparison for obvious reasons.

Comparing Black women's general passive approach to dating versus other women's more proactive approach isn't an unfair comparison.

The dating prospects of a ww in the Western World does not mirror those of a BW assuming that each woman wants to date only their own race of men.

You guys are always on this if BW were more like Asian women or white women tip the black community would be better off (not you persay mamba) as if BW are solely responsible for the black community being in the state it is in.

That is just cruel and untrue and kicking someone while they are down.

 

[How Sway?]

How bout them Cubbies though? theyre ballin right now (except for last night) . they Got the 3rd best record in the NL

 

[philmonroe]

Theres levels to this attraction shyt.

Many times an immature girl would be attracted to two guys but chose one over the other for the wrong reasons like looks or popularity and not personality.

Then when they reap what they sow they want to act like they didnt make the mistake of not checking out if the person has a good personality.


Im just saying the truth.

How about you stop whining about me saying the truth.

If your truths wasn't so deep with wackiness and insecurity I would but since its not I can't. I'm trying to help in my own way sorry if you don't like it

 

[The ADD]

Theres levels to this attraction shyt.

Many times an immature girl would be attracted to two guys but chose one over the other for the wrong reasons like looks or popularity and not personality.

Then when they reap what they sow they want to act like they didnt make the mistake of not checking out if the person has a good personality.

At a base level how can you blame someone for not choosing someone they aren't attracted to. Its silly to expect someone to overlook attraction as key factor.

 

[Blackout]

If your truths wasn't so deep with wackiness and insecurity I would but since its not I can't. I'm trying to help in my own way sorry if you don't like it

Truth is truth no matter what you think about it.

You reap what you sow.

At a base level how can you blame someone for not choosing someone they aren't attracted to. Its silly to expect someone to overlook attraction as key factor.

Did you not read my post dude?

would be attracted to two guys

Go back and read it. I underlined that part for ya too.

 

[King Poetic]

I don't believe a woman should have to chase a man to get him to notice you, plus it throws the balance of the relationship off.

I have been trying my hand at online dating and I have notice how men don't even try anymore. They will send you a flirt or a message and then sit back and wait for you to keep the conversation going.

The information age has just made men lazy.

The information age has made everyone lazy...

People don't communicate face to face anymore, where u can get to know the truth from a person voice instead of a bullshyt story from their profile or what they want u to hear...

 

[LadySimone]

I don't know about "most women" but there are some. Its funny because in another thread men were crying abut women wanting to much wining and dining and not giving it up. lol

Girl they got a different (and contradictory narrative) depending in the weather.

 

[LadySimone]

The information age has also made women lazy. They equate "likes" on social media to their value in the dating market.

When that doesn't translate offline, they get confused.

Value in the dating market goes beyond looks. A man may approach based on looks, but what gets him to stick around goes beyond that.

A lot of women in this current age aren't developing the traits to keep a man.

Vast majority of women are not on social media.

 

[LadySimone]

Yeah. nikkas are going to complain because it would mean they would have to put in work.

Most men don't mind putting in work to get something of value.

What most men will not do is put in work to get something that other men have gotten or are currently getting for free. That's a universal principle all humans can relate to. We don't want to pay for something others are getting for free or at a reduced cost. We feel like we've been cheated in that situation.

Most men are against wining and dining in this current age because they know a lot of women are juggling dudes and are giving it up or have given it up for far less. Doing the "Netflix and chill" with one nikka and then expecting another to take you out for a nice meal and drinks to get the same thing is sending the wrong signal. Most men don't want to be the sucker in the latter situation.

Can you imagine standing in line for hours for the iphone 6s and paying $$$, only to have Apple give it away for free two weeks later? How would you feel in that situation?

You don't know what other men are getting. You don't know that the dude she "chillin" with is a long time (whatever). You just come into her life and expect to get what other dude gets though they been kicking it since high school. Stop it

 

[The ADD]

Truth is truth no matter what you think about it.

Did you not read my post dude?

I did but it made no sense. You said you see guys get rejected for being average looking or not good looking enough. You move the goal post to the decision making of the woman.

If it's about her decision making that's another topic but saying people being rejected for not looking good is just part of dating. Nobody can be blamed for that.

 

[philmonroe]

Truth is truth no matter what you think about it.

You reap what you sow.

Did you not read my post dude?

Go back and read it. I underlined that part for ya too.

Well bout time you get what I'm saying if you can't get girls and complaining kicking your "truth" remember that "you reap what you sow" line.