The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[thirdeye]

The only thing I agree on is all you types of blaming ass people need to,get together and stop fukking whining just like I told the chick kicking the same embarrassing shyt as you.

Pardon me? Lol, I was just pointing out that it happens with both genders. Am I going to let that deter me from finding my mate? Nah, if I want it..I'll go for it.

 

[philmonroe]

I did but it made no sense. You said you see guys get rejected for being average looking or not good looking enough. You move the goal post to the decision making of the woman.

If it's about her decision making that's another topic but saying people being rejected for not looking good is just part of dating. Nobody can be blamed for that.

You gotta realize excuse makers gonna excuse make period. Wish dude would get off that shyt

 

[agnosticlady]

A lot of black women can get good/great black men. Some just pass on a good brother for superficial reasons. Yeah there are black men who do the same but I see it more often in black women.

 

[thewiz]

Now yal got @LadySimone goin

 

[philmonroe]

Pardon me? Lol, I was just pointing out that it happens with both genders. Am I going to let that deter me from finding my mate? Nah, if I want it..I'll go for it.

You're pardoned and we know it halogens with both genders and that's how I fee, when either gender kicks that shyt. Good don't be a whining ass person but saying something similar to dude on dating will get that type of response because I'm not for grown cats and excuse making on something that they can control oftentimes

 

[Blackout]

I did but it made no sense. You said you see guys get rejected for being average looking or not good looking enough. You move the goal post to the decision making of the woman.

If it's about her decision making that's another topic but saying people being rejected for not looking good is just part of dating. Nobody can be blamed for that.

Rejection can happen at any time so no I didnt move the goal post. Rejection can happen in the beggining and after dating when the lady has to chose among the men that are interested in her.

Well bout time you get what I'm saying if you can't get girls and complaining kicking your "truth" remember that "you reap what you sow" line.

Who says that I cant get girls? Your trying to hard to go at me personally lol.

I said one truth and that is them having options to where its not limited.

Everything else is your imagination running wild.

 

[Blackout]

A lot of black women can get good/great black men. Some just pass on a good brother for superficial reasons.

She gets it.

 

[mamba]

Vast majority of women are not on social media.

Most Black women are using at least one social media service.

 

[Will Ross]

Black women suffer in the dating world because they don't want to put any work in.

 

[philmonroe]

Rejection can happen at any time so no I didnt move the goal post. Rejection can happen in the beggining and after dating when the lady has to chose among the men that are interested in her.


Who says that I cant get girls? Your trying to hard to go at me personally lol.

I said one truth and that is them having options to where its not limited.

Everything else is your imagination running wild.

Im not trying hard at all actually you exaggerate as usual. You tell on yourself no need to go hard on dudes snitching on themselves. I said you are an excuse maker and everything else you kicking is your imagination running wild. Ole I'm trying to get at you personally ass nikka. I don't know you you just sound like a wack dude based on post I see from you always whining about girls. That's not the talk if somebody that's rolling in girls stop it.

 

[mamba]

You don't know what other men are getting. You don't know that the dude she "chillin" with is a long time (whatever). You just come into her life and expect to get what other dude gets though they been kicking it since high school. Stop it

Kickin' it since high school? LOL! What in the living fukk?

Why would a man worth his salt want to invest time and money into a woman who has be "chillin'" with the same nikka since high school?

That tells me she isn't worth committing to and/or doesn't value herself to demand more.

Sitting here at 28 and been in "chill" mode with the same nikka for a damn decade plus.

The shyt some Black women accept is , , and at the same damn time.

 

[miranda]

They are just taking the path of least resistance.

Most women are giving it up without much resistance these days.

A man is only going to put in the effort a woman requires.

The women's empowerment/sexual revolution has been a blessing in disguise for most men.

Yeah. nikkas are going to complain because it would mean they would have to put in work.

Most men don't mind putting in work to get something of value.

What most men will not do is put in work to get something that other men have gotten or are currently getting for free. That's a universal principle all humans can relate to. We don't want to pay for something others are getting for free or at a reduced cost. We feel like we've been cheated in that situation.

Most men are against wining and dining in this current age because they know a lot of women are juggling dudes and are giving it up or have given it up for far less. Doing the "Netflix and chill" with one nikka and then expecting another to take you out for a nice meal and drinks to get the same thing is sending the wrong signal. Most men don't want to be the sucker in the latter situation.

Can you imagine standing in line for hours for the iphone 6s and paying $$$, only to have Apple give it away for free two weeks later? How would you feel in that situation?

so we should be more thirsty and aggressive like white and asian women, but just not too thirsty and aggressive?

The market dictates such at some point. The value of men and women inverse the older we get.

As a man grows, he has more women choosing him. As a woman grows, she has less than men pursuing her. The older a man gets, generally, the more he has of what women find attractive-stability, wisdom, home, etc. The older a man gets, generally, the less she has of what men find attractive-youth, beauty, light and carefree attitude, etc.

So, as we go further into adulthood, women are left trying to hold onto a man moreso than the reverse. Not fair, but such is life.

Peace

It's completely fair. A lot of women are stuck up when they're young and hot only to be brought back down to planet earth 10 years later. The same guy they were too good for at 22, they begging to date at 32. The same guy who's boring at 22 is stable and dependable at 32. The smart girls realize it early on and find a good man. The dumb ones end up

and nerd revenge fantasies

Very true. I think both men and women fail to realize that college is the best time to find a mate.

A lot of my non-Black classmates locked mates down during that time and married shortly after graduation.

They got mates before the real world hardened them and made them bitter and cynical.

one problem, black men dont go to college

Drop a pic of yourself to prove that black women don't gave masculine features.

jesucristo

why are black women constantly told they are unattractive on this forum?

 

[Blackout]

Im not trying hard at all actually you exaggerate as usual. You tell on yourself no need to go hard on dudes snitching on themselves. I said you are an excuse maker and everything else you kicking is your imagination running wild. Ole I'm trying to get at you personally ass nikka. I don't know you you just sound like a wack dude based on post I see from you always whining about girls. That's not the talk if somebody that's rolling in girls stop it.

You have such a vivid imagination.

You always whine about the truth I say. Its hilarious.

 

[philmonroe]

You have such a vivid imagination.

You always whine about the truth I say. Its hilarious.

Nah its not vivid all one has to do is check your post to see the whining sir. Yep I do "whine" about a grown man sounding like a bytch but you being that way isn't hilarious its sad. No girl going to want you but let you tell it you swimming in girls right? If that's the case which it isn't why are you always complaining about them? That's not normal for people to complain about stuff they getting just saying.

 

[Blackout]

Nah its not vivid all one has to do is check your post to see the whining sir. Yep I do "whine" about a grown man sounding like a bytch but you being that way isn't hilarious its sad. No girl going to want you but let you tell it you swimming in girls right? If that's the case which it isn't why are you always complaining about them? That's not normal for people to complain about stuff they getting just saying.

I say the truth when it comes to everything. Im not censoring myself because it makes you think Im lame.

fukk you censorship nikka