The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[agnosticlady]

Kickin' it since high school? LOL! What in the living fukk?

Why would a man worth his salt want to invest time and money into a woman who has be "chillin'" with the same nikka since high school?

That tells me she isn't worth committing to and/or doesn't value herself to demand more.

Sitting here at 28 and been in "chill" mode with the same nikka for a damn decade plus.

The shyt some Black women accept is , , and at the same damn time.

Yup watering weeds is a recipe for disaster.

 

[Rawtid]

Kickin' it since high school? LOL! What in the living fukk?

Why would a man worth his salt want to invest time and money into a woman who has be "chillin'" with the same nikka since high school?

That tells me she isn't worth committing to and/or doesn't value herself to demand more.

Sitting here at 28 and been in "chill" mode with the same nikka for a damn decade plus.

The shyt some Black women accept is , , and at the same damn time.

I agree.

 

[miranda]

She gets it.

what is your idea of "average" looks for a black man, the typical guy thats getting passed up because women are too shallow?

 

[Blackout]

what is your idea of "average" looks for a black man, the typical guy thats getting passed up because women are too shallow?

Ask @agnosticlady who knows wassup.

 

[The Maverick]

There are more good black men than there are good black women.

Just based on the fact that there's more women than men in our race, the fact that men are more likely to be involved in gang activity or locked up, the fact that there are more women in college than men...and I have a hard time believing this statement.


On another note, a lot of y'all really lack empathy for what black women go through. Not talking to anyone in particular, but I see a lot of disassociating and misunderstanding on here. A lot of women are growing up without positive male influence, seeing things in the mainstream that don't reflect their image, lacking positive reinforcement, coming from tough communities, etc. And then y'all flip that and ask why can't they be more like white chicks or latinas. It's like damn, y'all not even relating to these women at all, even though we come from the same struggle.

 

[philmonroe]

I say the truth when it comes to everything. Im not censoring myself because it makes you think Im lame.

fukk you censorship nikka

I never said to censor yourself but I see we've come to the portion where you twisting words like a bytch. I don't think I know you're lame just wish you wasn't honestly

 

[Will Ross]

Just based on the fact that there's more women than men in our race, the fact that men are more likely to be involved in gang activity or locked up, the fact that there are more women in college than men are...and I have a hard time believing this statement.


On another note, a lot of y'all really lack empathy for what black women go through. Not talking to anyone in particular, but I see a lot of disassociating and misunderstanding on here. A lot of women are growing up without positive male influence, seeing things in the mainstream that don't reflect their image, lacking positive reinforcement, coming from tough communities, etc. And then y'all flip that and ask why can't they be more like white chicks or latinas. It's like damn, y'all not even relating to these women at all, even though we come from the same struggle.

Most of the dude get involved in gangs to get women or help support women.
Everything we do is mainly for black women.

 

[Blackout]

I never said to censor yourself but I see we've come to the portion where you twisting words like a bytch. I don't think I know you're lame just wish you wasn't honestly

You are saying to censor myself when you try to go at me personally for something I said.

 

[Blackout]

Double

 

[philmonroe]

what is your idea of "average" looks for a black man, the typical guy thats getting passed up because women are too shallow?

Himself and women passing him up so all "average" black men getting passed up when the fact is most people are average smdh

 

[philmonroe]

You are saying to censor myself when you try to go at me personally for something I said.

Not really I want you to improve yourself so you want be like this. You can post whatever but I think just like if I post some,thing its open to people to comment on and that's what I do. I didn't tell you not to write that I just want you to be at a place where you don't because you don't have to. You might disagree with how I do it but I just want people to be better and whining isn't the way to that. I do this to my friends offline too when they fukking up and them to me so its the same shyt on here. Never personal just how I roll.

 

[Blackout]

Not really I want you to improve yourself so you want be like this. You can post whatever but I think just like if I post some,thing its open to people to comment on and that's what I do. I didn't tell you not to write that I just want you to be at a place where you don't because you don't have to. You might disagree with how I do it but I just want people to be better and whining isn't the way to that. I do this to my friends offline too when they fukking up and them to me so its the same shyt on here. Never personal just how I roll.

Improve myself? I'm at best point I have ever been in my life.

Control your imagination.

I will always say the truth if that means more younger black women will wise up and not become victims of playa and ain't shyt men.

 

[The Maverick]

Most of the dude get involved in gangs to get women or help support women.
Everything we do is mainly for black women.

Nah...we are talking about grown men in the streets claiming a gang. These dudes are not supporting women, or even children in some cases.

 

[Will Ross]

Not really I want you to improve yourself so you want be like this. You can post whatever but I think just like if I post some,thing its open to people to comment on and that's what I do. I didn't tell you not to write that I just want you to be at a place where you don't because you don't have to. You might disagree with how I do it but I just want people to be better and whining isn't the way to that. I do this to my friends offline too when they fukking up and them to me so its the same shyt on here. Never personal just how I roll.

He is not whining he is telling the truth. black women are passing up good dudes based of silly Social ideas of what a black man should be.

 

[K.Dot]

There are more good black men than there are good black women.

I kind of doubt this breh.