The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

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women are able to support themselves, therefore men who are not sexually attractive who would have been able to attract a mate in previous generations just because they could provide financial stability are going to be left out in the cold.
So you suggest that they should date out? :francis:
 
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He actually does even though at times seems hypocritical esp when dude use to be a heavy fornicator himself lol. He has a podcast that is usually long but if you want to hear his views dedan tolbert show. Like I said sometimes I agree with him sometimes I don't like dude says he has a gun to go in bad black neighborhoods like he ain't black himself. I can't co sign that but relationship wise he cool outside I'm not as religious as him so we clash on stuff like that.

Ha ha ha it never fails. But at least he's good on the relationship tip.
 

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Based on his videos, it appears he's married. :yeshrug:

Because being married means you don't cheat or a good husband lol.

There are too many wolves in sheep clothing and I am very weary of "church men". A good portion are full of BS.

But I don't trust black churches overall too much debauchery under the veneer of religiosity.
 

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The translation is stop only offering men sex and have something more to bring to the table. If you see that a man is only looking for sex then move onto a man that is serious about being in a committed relationship that will lead to marriage. I know guys that just want sex, and guys that want a serious committed relationship. You can see from obvious signs that a man is not interested in being in a committed relationship. Move on to a man that is.
 

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What translation dude was messing with the IG type chicks and then saying they had little to offer. I mean what do you expect when you messing with those types of chicks and when he got married he got with a chick that was different from them and even paid for the first date. He was looking for a "wack" chick in that she didn't have the same life he used to have and found her but a lot of dudes won't necessarily do that still will look for the it chick bytching
 

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The translation is stop only offering men sex and have something more to bring to the table. If you see that a man is only looking for sex then move onto a man that is serious about being in a committed relationship that will lead to marriage. I know guys that just want sex, and guys that want a serious committed relationship. You can see from obvious signs that a man is not interested in being in a committed relationship. Move on to a man that is.

I didn't ask you now did i. I trust more the person that knows him personally. Truth of the matter of is a lot of these"preachers" are full of it.

What they preach is not what they practice. Men need to focus on men and women need to focus on women.
 

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What translation dude was messing with the IG type chicks and then saying they had little to offer. I mean what do you expect when you messing with those types of chicks and when he got married he got with a chick that was different from them and even paid for the first date. He was looking for a "wack" chick in that she didn't have the same life he used to have and found her but a lot of dudes won't necessarily do that still will look for the it chick bytching

Thank you...that's what I thought. But dude wants sit on pedestal and down talk on women lol.

Dude finally chose substance over superficiality. You were saying @mamba....

Dude needs to stick to mentoring men and teach them to pick better quality women, methinks,
 

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Stop trying to always make it seem like BM are some angelic creatures that can do no wrong. Accept that part of the responsibility lies on the shoulder of your brethren.

Black men have inflated egos when they are broke...when they are educated with a decent job it's through the roof.

And guess who gives them those egos? I have said this a thousand times if a black man is not a thug or an obama type he will have issue with black women.
 
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