The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[Yup]

@LadySimone , check this out. He also hits on this issue.

He called himself an elite man lol.

 

[Elle]

Throws off the balance huh. And you callin men lazy?

Yes, I am. I never said that the woman shouldn't put in any effort. Ya'll stay trying to start a fire where there is none. Geez.

 

[Elle]

Entitlement. And a peek into a man's world of having to carry a conversation with a boring broad that just wants to kick her feet up and be entertained. fukk you.

That's not what I said. I see comprehension is not a trait you embody.

And fukk you too.

 

[Elle]

Girl they got a different (and contradictory narrative) depending in the weather.

I see. smh...

 

[Elle]

Girl they got a different (and contradictory narrative) depending in the weather.

I see. smh...

 

[mamba]

He called himself an elite man lol.

Deal with the message, not the messanger. Here's another video:



He's giving these chicks some real talk.

 

[Yup]

Normal black women tend to have self-inflated egos and think they can seriously date above average men. Normal black men (hell, normal men in general) learn early on in the game to get in where they fit in.

Stop trying to always make it seem like BM are some angelic creatures that can do no wrong. Accept that part of the responsibility lies on the shoulder of your brethren.

Black men have inflated egos when they are broke...when they are educated with a decent job it's through the roof.

 

[Audemar]

Some of y'all don't get tired of talking about the same things?

 

[Yup]

Deal with the message, not the messanger. Here's another video:



He's giving these chicks some real talk.

I've seen a couple of videos, and I am not giving him anymore.

BM need to start mento ring other men instead of focusing on women.

I don't waste my time with the Steve Harvey types.

A lot of these dudes are focusing on women because men don't like to be told about themselves and are sure not going to pay for seminars or books...that's the stupidity of women.

I would sooner take the advice of a woman to tap into my feministy than I would give me a list of commands that I needon't to abide by to get a man.

 

[philmonroe]

Deal with the message, not the messanger. Here's another video:



He's giving these chicks some real talk.

I know this dude my man went to school with him lol

 

[Wild self]

women are able to support themselves, therefore men who are not sexually attractive who would have been able to attract a mate in previous generations just because they could provide financial stability are going to be left out in the cold.


Women are turning down ATTRACTIVE CHILDLESS FAITHFUL men with good jobs? where is this happening?

So you say that street nikkas are attractive? And dudes with 9-5s are lames? @mamba

 

[Yup]

I know this dude my man went to school with him lol

DoeS he practice what he preaches at least?

 

[LadySimone]

@LadySimone , check this out. He also hits on this issue.

Mamba is elite. Lol

 

[Yup]

looks like we've identified your problems

She'a right though...you shouldn't have to chase a man. You can make yourself available to meet them but running after...no.

Either he is interested or he isn't and plus the same guy will start to lose interest or see you as desperate.

 

[philmonroe]

DoeS he practice what he preaches at least?

He actually does even though at times seems hypocritical esp when dude use to be a heavy fornicator himself lol. He has a podcast that is usually long but if you want to hear his views dedan tolbert show. Like I said sometimes I agree with him sometimes I don't like dude says he has a gun to go in bad black neighborhoods like he ain't black himself. I can't co sign that but relationship wise he cool outside I'm not as religious as him so we clash on stuff like that.