The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[Jahmal]

Women are aggressive when hunting for jobs but not relationships SMFH

 

[QuintessentialBM]

I usually don't participate in these threads, but I'm sick of seeing folks claim this as if its something wrong with black people.

Look, once and for all, ALL women are attending college and graduating and a much higher rate then all men. Across all racial boundaries. Men have trades as options, so they don't get included as secondary education for some of these stats.

Now back to shopping for a new car.

Speaking of new cars.... I don't care what anyone says... I want a Challenger. Gotta get my credit right first. I'mma literally ride it until the wheels fall off.

 

[Mac Brown]

Speaking of new cars.... I don't care what anyone says... I want a Challenger. Gotta get my credit right first. I'mma literally ride it until the wheels fall off.

Man I've been wanting to restore or customize and older porsche. But I want an air cooled one if I can find it.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Man I've been wanting to restore or customize and older porsche. But I want an air cooled one if I can find it.

Damn, a Porsche.... You will be taxed regardless of the year. What model and year are you looking for?

I had to get out of the restoration game. Had a 67 Chevy Impala 2 Door... It was costing me too much, partly due to me fukking up the undercarriage jumping over railings and curbs while drunk.

I still miss her. This Challenger will be my "new" old school car. Pretty sure these new iterations will become classic in 20 years; possibly hold value.

 

[Kitsch]

 

[Mac Brown]

Damn, a Porsche.... You will be taxed regardless of the year. What model and year are you looking for?

I had to get out of the restoration game. Had a 67 Chevy Impala 2 Door... It was costing me too much, partly due to me fukking up the undercarriage jumping over railings and curbs while drunk.

I still miss her. This Challenger will be my "new" old school car. Pretty sure these new iterations will become classic in 20 years; possibly hold value.

I'm looking at 993's or even a used 997 even though its not air cooled. I saw a good deal at this boutique dealership where my girl bought a gs lex from years back.

 

[FTBS]

I gotta a theory why females seem to dating more 'no-good' n1ggaz more often. Because they got their own bread.

Let's be real. Females have and always will gravitate to the street n1kka. Its just facts. We see it growing up. We see it in HS. We see it in college. whatever

But decades ago, when it came time to settle down, average females generally had to marry the 'stable', 'boring' guy for financial security and being a good dad over the guy she had the REAL emotional feelings for.

Now? Females gettin they own bread. Also they getting welfare / child support. So now they eating. They don't need to date boring lames anymore. IDK if you ever been around a thot these days but they are to any n1gga they don't like.

But n1ggas thrist levels haven't adjusted. So we got average girls being offered d1ck every 10 minutes on Tinder, while the average n1kka probably getting 2 matches a day. Thats why we got n1ggaz payin for Tinder dates so the thot got enough energy to fukk her main n1gga later.

Me? I got no problem. These "lame n1kkas" gotta adjust. Don't get mad, get better. Hit the weight room, clean up your face and body. We live in a IG world yet I see fat azz n1kkas wonderin why they aint getting IG hoes

Women supporting themselves has certainly altered the equation. However, I don't think that is to blame for the poor choices in men. If anything that should be making things better and easier for women because they don't have to just settle for any dude that can support them. For whatever reason women's standards are actually at an all time low. Marriage rates are dropping, while divorce and single motherhood rates are through the roof. What woman is gonna pick that? Triffling dudes benefit far more from this paradigm then at any point in history.

We can't fall into this fallacy that street=attractive and exciting. You can be attractive and exciting without being in the streets. That's why I said what I said about looks. I guess I should have included other traits in there as well. There are plenty of soft, boring, weak, nikkas in the streets. Back in the day, being a street dude wasn't glorified and viewed as some badge of honor. Chicks used to be legit afraid of street dudes, not in love with them. Having a man that was willing and able to take care of you and take you out of your daddy's house was exciting.

Dudes are actually more thirsty now than they were before. You didn't see dudes in the 60's-80's acting like they had never seen a woman before. These dudes had guile and game about themselves. Most importantly they had self respect and weren't about to play themselves out over some p*ssy. They shelled out cash and sold these chicks dreams but they weren't pushovers or tricks or emotional crutches. They were men. The biggest issue here, that most people won't even touch on because they would rather go back and forth or shift blame or play gotcha, is that things that are necessary and beneficial to relationships and in turn community building (stability, thoughtfulness, actually getting to know a person, sexual discretion, respect, selflessness etc.) are now considered lame.

 

[Wild self]

Women supporting themselves has certainly altered the equation. However, I don't think that is to blame for the poor choices in men. If anything that should be making things better and easier for women because they don't have to just settle for any dude that can support them. For whatever reason women's standards are actually at an all time low. Marriage rates are dropping, while divorce and single motherhood rates are through the roof. What woman is gonna pick that? Triffling dudes benefit far more from this paradigm then at any point in history.

We can't fall into this fallacy that street=attractive and exciting. You can be attractive and exciting without being in the streets. That's why I said what I said about looks. I guess I should have included other traits in there as well. There are plenty of soft, boring, weak, nikkas in the streets. Back in the day, being a street dude wasn't glorified and viewed as some badge of honor. Chicks used to be legit afraid of street dudes, not in love with them. Having a man that was willing and able to take care of you and take you out of your daddy's house was exciting.

Dudes are actually more thirsty now than they were before. You didn't see dudes in the 60's-80's acting like they had never seen a woman before. These dudes had guile and game about themselves. Most importantly they had self respect and weren't about to play themselves out over some p*ssy. They shelled out cash and sold these chicks dreams but they weren't pushovers or tricks or emotional crutches. They were men. The biggest issue here, that most people won't even touch on because they would rather go back and forth or shift blame or play gotcha, is that things that are necessary and beneficial to relationships and in turn community building (stability, thoughtfulness, actually getting to know a person, sexual discretion, respect, selflessness etc.) are now considered lame.

If that the case, they better off getting neutered altogether and stop having kids. The human evolution of the black community can't have these "street nikkas" being the father and leaving the "nerd nikkas" to die out. That's Idiocracy in the making.

 

[Wild self]

I gotta a theory why females seem to dating more 'no-good' n1ggaz more often. Because they got their own bread.

Let's be real. Females have and always will gravitate to the street n1kka. Its just facts. We see it growing up. We see it in HS. We see it in college. whatever

But decades ago, when it came time to settle down, average females generally had to marry the 'stable', 'boring' guy for financial security and being a good dad over the guy she had the REAL emotional feelings for.

Now? Females gettin they own bread. Also they getting welfare / child support. So now they eating. They don't need to date boring lames anymore. IDK if you ever been around a thot these days but they are to any n1gga they don't like.

But n1ggas thrist levels haven't adjusted. So we got average girls being offered d1ck every 10 minutes on Tinder, while the average n1kka probably getting 2 matches a day. Thats why we got n1ggaz payin for Tinder dates so the thot got enough energy to fukk her main n1gga later.

Me? I got no problem. These "lame n1kkas" gotta adjust. Don't get mad, get better. Hit the weight room, clean up your face and body. We live in a IG world yet I see fat azz n1kkas wonderin why they aint getting IG hoes

@Miranda you got to explain yourself for liking this post.

 

[mamba]

Women supporting themselves has certainly altered the equation. However, I don't think that is to blame for the poor choices in men. If anything that should be making things better and easier for women because they don't have to just settle for any dude that can support them. For whatever reason women's standards are actually at an all time low. Marriage rates are dropping, while divorce and single motherhood rates are through the roof. What woman is gonna pick that? Triffling dudes benefit far more from this paradigm then at any point in history.

We can't fall into this fallacy that street=attractive and exciting. You can be attractive and exciting without being in the streets. That's why I said what I said about looks. I guess I should have included other traits in there as well. There are plenty of soft, boring, weak, nikkas in the streets. Back in the day, being a street dude wasn't glorified and viewed as some badge of honor. Chicks used to be legit afraid of street dudes, not in love with them. Having a man that was willing and able to take care of you and take you out of your daddy's house was exciting.

Dudes are actually more thirsty now than they were before. You didn't see dudes in the 60's-80's acting like they had never seen a woman before. These dudes had guile and game about themselves. Most importantly they had self respect and weren't about to play themselves out over some p*ssy. They shelled out cash and sold these chicks dreams but they weren't pushovers or tricks or emotional crutches. They were men. The biggest issue here, that most people won't even touch on because they would rather go back and forth or shift blame or play gotcha, is that things that are necessary and beneficial to relationships and in turn community building (stability, thoughtfulness, actually getting to know a person, sexual discretion, respect, selflessness etc.) are now considered lame.

Good point. Notice that we're programmed to consider the things beneficial to relationships and community building lame and those things that undermine relationships and community building cool and exciting.

Notice that it seems those destructive messages are targeted at our community and are reinforced via the things most easily digested: music, images, etc. Almost like systematic brainwashing.

Let people tell it, we just havin' fun outchea. They're doing what they want to do and actualizing their latent desires.

But, in reality, our enemies are actively working to cripple us once and for all in a way that state-sponsored violence, discrimination, crack, etc. couldn't do. Destroying our bodies was one thing. Destroying our minds in a totally different matter and an arguably more effective evil. But, hey, nikkas ain't tryin' to hear that.

 

[William F. Russell]

Normal black men are getting left behind, normal black women are getting left behind. Why don't normal black men get with normal black women or vice versa

Whose leaving these normal blacks behind?

Are they leaving each other behind?


So many questions?

Normal black women tend to have self-inflated egos and think they can seriously date above average men. Normal black men (hell, normal men in general) learn early on in the game to get in where they fit in.

 

[FTBS]

If that the case, they better off getting neutered altogether and stop having kids. The human evolution of the black community can't have these "street nikkas" being the father and leaving the "nerd nikkas" to die out. That's Idiocracy in the making.

We just gotta stop rationalizing and making excuses for and espousing bullshyt.

 

[miranda]

@Miranda you got to explain yourself for liking this post.

women are able to support themselves, therefore men who are not sexually attractive who would have been able to attract a mate in previous generations just because they could provide financial stability are going to be left out in the cold.

I know dudes with degrees and or good jobs that are about that settle down and have a family life that can't land a chick.

Women are turning down ATTRACTIVE CHILDLESS FAITHFUL men with good jobs? where is this happening?

 

[FTBS]

women are able to support themselves, therefore men who are not sexually attractive who would have been able to attract a mate in previous generations just because they could provide financial stability are going to be left out in the cold.


Women are turning down ATTRACTIVE CHILDLESS FAITHFUL men with good jobs? where is this happening?

Yes. All over. You can't look at the rates of single motherhood and the variety of other issues women are dealing with in today's dating world and tell me that females aren't picking poorly out here. If women were honing in on the attributes you listed things would be very, very different out here.

 

[How Sway?]

Kickin' it since high school? LOL! What in the living fukk?

Why would a man worth his salt want to invest time and money into a woman who has be "chillin'" with the same nikka since high school?

That tells me she isn't worth committing to and/or doesn't value herself to demand more.

Sitting here at 28 and been in "chill" mode with the same nikka for a damn decade plus.

The shyt some Black women accept is , , and at the same damn time.