The "Black women have limited options to pick from" narrative

[BezO]

This video will not start from where I want. Relevant portion is from 4:54 - 8:18.

 

[LadySimone]

I don't care what the origin of the "chillin'" partner is. If a chick wants me to take her out on a date while she's still "chillin'" with some other nikka, she must be out her damn mind.

We can go Dutch on the date.

That's like a dude demanding a woman cook for him after date #1 when there are other chicks he's still seeing who he's simped and splurged on for years who've never gone as far as heating him up a tv dinner.

Most women would be like in that scenario.

I've had women literally leave from a restaurant with a nikka and chill with me afterward. Most women don't see anything wrong with that picture. Another nikka treating you to dinner and you then ending up at another nikka's crib who did as little as drop a text.

False equivalence if ever I heard one. You gotta earn a meal just like you gotta earn a chill Netflix night. The point is you don't know these peoples relationship but your paranoia about women and your desperation to hold on to your little coins is what causes all this hatred. The same dude I'm chillin with I can go out to eat with him the next week. I had a chill homie. Narrowly define relationship to support your anti woman agenda.

 

[Wild self]

Black women as a whole are a severely neglected group of people. The obesity numbers alone tell that tale. As soon as we improve our relationships with each other...even if we just seek to understand and not agree, the better things will be.

For women in general, the bigger the waistline, the slimmer the chances of marriage. I hardly see big women getting married, FYI.

 

[Dwolf]

Why is this not in the bushes?

 

[mamba]

@LadySimone , check this out. He also hits on this issue.

 

[Rawtid]

For women in general, the bigger the waistline, the slimmer the chances of marriage. I hardly see big women getting married, FYI.

I see it more with white women than I do other races so I have to agree with you. With that said, I feel if black women and men got along, the obesity rate amongst us would be lower. There is a bigger underlying issue when a group doesn't feel the need to be "attractive" to their peers. Cause or effect type thing.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

I see it more with white women than I do other races so I have to agree with you. With that said, I feel if black women and men got along, the obesity rate amongst us would be lower. There is a bigger underlying issue when a group doesn't feel the need to be "attractive" to their peers. Cause or effect type thing.

 

[Rawtid]

Women are emotional, black women lack emotional support, leads to not giving a fukk. So are we fat because we lack emotional support or we lack emotional support because we are fat.

We also don't have the physical support that other races have, which leaves us with less time to raise families, make money and exercise. Cause and effect.

 

[How Sway?]

How bout them Cubbies though? theyre ballin right now (except for last night) . they Got the 3rd best record in the NL

damn none of you people watch basball???

 

[delta]

We gotta call shyt what it is...women (not just black women) make horrible and myopic choices in regards to men. I know dudes with degrees and or good jobs that are about that settle down and have a family life that can't land a chick. On the other hand I don't know one street dude or ne'er do well ass nikka that has any issues in that department. And no all the street/lazy dudes don't all look like Omari Hardwick and all the regular dudes don't look like Jermaine Hopkins. Looks and physical condition vary across the board. One thing I have learned about women is that they never lack options as much as they lack options that they prefer. Any half decent looking chick has options. Shiiiit I see mud ducks pulling nikkas all the time. Chicks really screw themselves over with their selection process, attempts to imitate and/or compete with dudes, and their rejection of any insight or advice that goes against what they are thinking and feeling.

I gotta a theory why females seem to dating more 'no-good' n1ggaz more often. Because they got their own bread.

Let's be real. Females have and always will gravitate to the street n1kka. Its just facts. We see it growing up. We see it in HS. We see it in college. whatever

But decades ago, when it came time to settle down, average females generally had to marry the 'stable', 'boring' guy for financial security and being a good dad over the guy she had the REAL emotional feelings for.

Now? Females gettin they own bread. Also they getting welfare / child support. So now they eating. They don't need to date boring lames anymore. IDK if you ever been around a thot these days but they are to any n1gga they don't like.

But n1ggas thrist levels haven't adjusted. So we got average girls being offered d1ck every 10 minutes on Tinder, while the average n1kka probably getting 2 matches a day. Thats why we got n1ggaz payin for Tinder dates so the thot got enough energy to fukk her main n1gga later.

Me? I got no problem. These "lame n1kkas" gotta adjust. Don't get mad, get better. Hit the weight room, clean up your face and body. We live in a IG world yet I see fat azz n1kkas wonderin why they aint getting IG hoes

 

[Barnett114]

How bout them Cubbies though? theyre ballin right now (except for last night) . they Got the 3rd best record in the NL

My team coming back, built the right way.

 

[-----]

I don't believe a woman should have to chase a man to get him to notice you, plus it throws the balance of the relationship off.

I have been trying my hand at online dating and I have notice how men don't even try anymore. They will send you a flirt or a message and then sit back and wait for you to keep the conversation going.

The information age has just made men lazy.

Throws off the balance huh. And you callin men lazy?

 

[How Sway?]

My team coming back, built the right way.

the white sox dawg

 

[Jahmal]

Women are aggressive when hunting for jobs but not relationships SMFH

 

[Mac Brown]

Don't care for this thread at all but just because there's more black women than men going to college doesn't mean black men aren't going to college at all..

I usually don't participate in these threads, but I'm sick of seeing folks claim this as if its something wrong with black people.

Look, once and for all, ALL women are attending college and graduating and a much higher rate then all men. Across all racial boundaries. Men have trades as options, so they don't get included as secondary education for some of these stats.

Now back to shopping for a new car.