You have to understand there's a difference between a nerd and a geek.
I'm a fukking nerd but that has never hindered me. I ain't swagged out either. I own 4 pairs of shoes, wear non name brand clothes. My free money and time goes into building computers.
You got dudes trying to talk to females they have absolutely nothing in common with, true birds. Females just lay around waiting to get smoked out.
They don't talk to the females they have things in common with because she don't look like the birds trying to get smutted out.