It's not about permission. You don't even understand what I said. This is the shut that I'M talking about. People quick to argue when they don't even comprehend well.
Great men aren't just born great. That greatness has to be instilled and nurtured. You can't raise boys neglectfullly in effeminate feminist environments then act shocked that they aren't the strong leader types.
No, you sensitive insecure sell out type women are only willing to listen to shyt that you want to hear. You can spin the truth however you want but a child's first and most important teacher is it's mother. That's just a fact of life/nature. If you're mad that you've been blessed with that responsibility then and get mad at God.
You're not independent tho, that's the "jokes on you" part of this whole thing. You undoubtedly work for some cracker who has a system in place to keep you and your people subordinate to him and his people. We put "strong independent black women" in quotation marks like that because it's a bullshyt fake title. Black women are completely dependent on white people and their system. This is why you're so passive aggressively and sometimes overtly protective of it.
Your attitude/mentality is what I'm talking about. You're on some individual "I'm just tryna do me" shyt and that's exactly how they teach you to think. Individualism is what black feminism teaches black women and that's exactly white liberals cosign it because just perpetuates the status quo which white supremacy/black dysfunction. The irony is that the individualism is masked by fake womanhood
If you arent cut out to be a good wife then you aren't cut out to be a good mom either.
Again, black feminism as an ideology is directly opposed to everything that Malcolm stood for. How can a black feminist raise the next Malcolm? According to black feminism Malcolm's teachings and beliefs were misogynistic, sexist, and homophobic. Malcolm wouldn't dare cosign black feminism. He'd have black women wearing burkas.
Your emotion is preventing you from having an intelligent discussion here. You're stuck on this "why you gotta blame black feminists?" shyt instead of just taking an honest assessing of what I'm saying. You're not even making sense. What good are civil rights if they're not protected and enforced? We need a bunch of Malcolms and Martins now more than ever.
Take that fake womanhood chip off of your shoulder. fukk the gender war shyt and be honest. The adoption of this black feminist mentality has led black women and the entire black community astray. We're past lost, were deliberately going down the wrong path as a community.
I didn't say that anything was keeping me from raising mine. I'm talking in general. The black community is a lot bigger than my family.