Black men have the worst reputations.
Besides all the negative images, (some of which we embrace) there are crime statistics, and if you read through the Coli, you can see a lot of us don’t want to put effort into anything. It’s thread after thread of complaining about having nothing, and not taking any initiative to improve our circumstances. Every thread it’s “they system made us do this, white man made us do that” as if we’re mentally disabled, and don’t know the difference between right and wrong. We need our hands held through everything, and are convinced every other group of men have things handed to them. We blame all our failures on the system, and never self reflect. That is a turnoff for women. Plus, a lot of those black women probably ran through the local black men, and those local black men have kids by women they know. Plus there’s the assumption we have baby mamas. Plus we have a reputation for abandoning our kids, and make less money. Brehs are literally giving other brehs advice not to take a woman out to dinner for a date. Other races of men aren’t as concerned with how much a woman makes, and are more willing to spend money on women. They are more willing to let a woman stay home.
As far as women not wanting to work with us, we have to have something to work on in the first place. Again, there are threads on here with some of y’all just asking for reparations. Well what are you going to do in the meantime? Some of us will ask logical questions, and bring up logical factors, and you just call us c00ns. Most black men who put effort into a career tend to do well.
This study is being taken way too literally. First and foremost, you don’t know what those particular black women look like. You don’t know their situation. You don’t know if they had years of bad experiences with black men, and decided to jump ship, but can understand a black man having years of bad experience, and jumping ship. She’s crazy, but a black man with the same story must not have anything wrong with him if he can’t keep a woman. You’re also considering that those black women could be ratchets, and undesirable mates anyway. The Coli hates single moms. A lot of black women over 30 are single moms. Are we mad when they date out if we claim not to want them?
You have no idea if those women are cheating on those average white men. I’ve learned over the years that very few people are loyal, and if given the opportunity to cheat with a better looking person, they will. White men complain about white women all the time. White men get taken to the cleaners in divorce all the time. Men of other races have relationship problems, breakups, etc, but like I keep pointing out, the Coli is convinced all these other races of men are living damn near perfect lives, with beautiful women, and blissful relationships, like other races of women can’t be bytches, and gold diggers. And remember, you have to have gold for them to dig!
One thing I noticed with both black men and women is we tend to wait for the other person to do things for us, and don’t let our guard down for a long time. It’s the big game of who can get the most while giving the least.
I never want to be single again.
