Something on FB just reminded me of this thread
so im in this FB group full of black men and women... usually it be some dumb, stereotypical shyt but sometimes there’s a good post or something funny posted in it worth commenting...
So this cute black chick makes a post telling all the black men to post their pics and the females to use their pickup lines to holla...
(This group is usually only talking about relationships or sex... nothing really productive at all. I was invited into it by my homie and I barely comment and didn’t comment here either. I’m in other groups with bm/bw but it’s usually not about relationships... sometimes).
There must’ve been like 20 dudes posting pics, a few on some thirsty/simp shyt... But most were just average black dudes posting average pics.
I found it hilarious that only one dude received any love/comments and it was the only dude that looked liked the stereotype the coli be trolling about where he was 6ft, 6-pac, 6 cert coli nikka...
He was the only one to get pick up line comments.
And half the chicks commenting were overweight or regular af
Point is, there are some decent, regular black men literally looking for attention from bw.. but will largely be ignored (even by women that actually belong in their looks/weight/financial class) unless they are the 1% of nikka that is 6ft plus with a 6pac, etc....
Think they deserve the top percentage of black men but don’t look like the top percentage of black women.... don’t even try to.
and its not the same vice versa because half these dudes thirsty af and will holla at anything... I’ve seen it.
But females are quick to say there aren’t no good bm, they must be gay, they’re sellouts if in IR relationships and happy (even if no bw was checking for them), etc.
but let them see a regular bw with an ordinary white dude with a beard and it’s highly possible the majority response will be “yaaassssss sis...”
Just an observation