So whats the downside of living life on easy mode? (No kids/ no small kids)
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I know dude was trying to be funny but even if you did grow up in a broken home wouldn't that just further substantiate a position of being child free? Who are creating these broken homes? Is it child-free people or parents? Either way, they try to spin it.
yes it is... go visit a Children's cancer wardIt ain’t selfish.
And it’s what everyone BUT Europeans do
Definitely a huge downside as you pass 36. An older man out here with no wife/kids starts to feel like he has no real purpose. Money and freaks gets old. Especially when you're late 30s and just dating bimbo after bimbo like me.
I think i'm going to make me a baby soon.
I think i'm going to make me a baby soon.
Right. Another thing is, good parents wouldn't force a life for their kids if their kids aren't interested in living their life that way.
DING DING DING! Grand Prize Winner. You're correct. That's the difference between raising a child and grooming/indoctrinating a child.
I had a nikka on here just a second ago saying I was defensive but this same dude made a negative claim about childless men. It's literally nothing wrong with defending your lifestyle choice. But it is something wrong with painting other people as bad or negative than not allowing them to voice their opinion or trying to dismiss their side by saying they're defensive. They should be defensive if he's being offensive. That's how this shyt works in dialogue. Not supposed to clam up.
I see why a person like that has/wants kids so they can boss them around without resistance. "I'm your dad you gotta listen to me!" FOH
sounds like a projection of the OPs parenting
if you perceive your family that way, youll be hardpressed to see out of it
if your time/possessions are what valuable to you, do that and see how it goes. If family is more important then do that.
I love my family personally and I dont miss the pure alone time. Sometimes I miss the openness of it but that also comes with a hedonist lifestyle that does more harm than good over the long term. Always trying to outdo yourself materially when the real issue is opining over your youth memories
better to appreciate each chapter of your life with a youthful lense of it
Very true! I dont have kids either but ive heard this from more than 2 collegues from work. They also know they wouldnt have much of a "life" without their kids, cuz as you said shyt becomes stagnant as hell once u become an adult
Bop Gun
Turn Me Loose, We Shall Overcome
Kids break things, spill things, cleaning up after them is no big deal. When your kids volunteer to help you around the home, it just creates stronger bonds and memories. Plus, I get to act a fool at places like Mt. Playmore with them.
Creating your own Family isn't for everyone, Brother. I will, however, never steer a person away. I mentioned having two Daughters, one is actually adopted (long story).
Also, my Wife struggled to get pregnant initially, and one time she was very sick, in the hospital for weeks, the sack that holds the waste during pregnancy ripped, but, she didn't know she was pregnant at the time either (This was when adopting became a serious option for us). Long story short, she still wanted to bring Life into this world, despite the risks, but having one was enough for her not to ever want to experience the rollercoaster of all those emotions and pains again.
Just wanted to give a little insight into my Family. Obviously, it's your life, we all make sense of it in our own ways.
So it's not just a western thing. In Asian cultures, they try to pressure and gaslight childless people into having kids with mfers they don't even find attractive. Then these same mfers try to come off as the self-righteous ones. FOH That's why when they try me. I always push back. You can't play nice with narcissistic and the needy empty parent types.
Ya'll know there's other people that can be close to you besides your kids. Most kids don't even like hanging around their parents like that. If you develop a life outside of just raising a child that didn't even asks to be here in the first place then guilting them into changing your depends on diapers and watching you die slowly. WHy put someone through that bruh?
Ii don’t want kids, and what you’re saying is true, it doesn’t have to be your children, and if you do have kids they’ll suffer while you die.
But your peers/wife/etc will be dying right around the same time you do. Being alone on a monday night and laying is a hospital bed knowing your gonna die is two different things. It’s terrifying i bet, so people selfishly do have kids for that reason i’m sure.
My original answer doesn’t reflect my opinion on the matter. Again, I don’t want kids.
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Literally seen it with my own eyes. I know a wonderful woman with 6 children. She go dementia and only 1 gave a damn enough to try and care for her. Now she's in a nursing home because it became too much for they 1 child. Literally none of the others gave a fukk and she a great mother.They think their children gonna stop their life to give their all to mom and dad
They might move away
Have their own family to worry about
Etc
nikkas gonna be right in the nearest nursing home
So be it.
It is for everyone but cac Europeans and white washed/white assimilating negroes/non blacks
Ya'll so quick to shame BP people into aligning with a stagnant cause in return for shyt community.
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