So whats the downside of living life on easy mode? (No kids/ no small kids)

[the cac mamba]

i would never knock having kids, because im sure its some amazing shyt to do with a woman you love

but its also a huge financial commitment, that has too many people living the rat race, divorcing, etc. so it's not some guarantee of happiness and fulfillment or whatever. i'll be retiring 15 years before anyone i know with kids

shyt, i still remember playing mens league bball in college, and all the 35 year olds telling us "dont get married and have kids"

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

I went down the rabbit hole of the regretful parents sub reddit

Yikes

 

[Wildin]

There is a reason that a lot of deadbeat dads suddenly want to be in their kids life as they get older lol.

Bullshyt.

If the kid ain't some sort of millionaire, he didn't want you then, he don't want your ass now!

 

[JNew]

Life in probably 90% luck that’s out of your control. Where you were born, who your parents are, what career you have, who your coworkers are, what time period you were born in.

Finding a women who fits you is also part of that luck. Some men get lucky. The worst thing you could do is become bitter and angry that your luck hasn’t happened.

I think the upsides vary from person to person depending on who you are.

 

[ba'al]

I'm so glad I got snipped.

Cats racking up baby mommas and child support payments.

I'm racking up the money.

 

[WaveMolecules]

Nothing easy is worth doing

 

[Dave24]

@Piff Perkins do you think you will marry your girlfriend and have kids one day?

 

[Piff Perkins]

@Piff Perkins do you think you will marry your girlfriend and have kids one day?

Yup. But we both are holding off for now for multiple reasons.