so my homeboy said you should get married as early as possible and here's why

[Huellz Santana]

true but a good woman is gonna still be a good woman

would you rather have her young...even if yall go through shyt yall deal wit it

or have her when she already went through some shyt?



i think its worth entertaining. but i think it depends on your mindset and what kinda nikka you is

id rather have her when we are BOTH ready.

nikkas be actin like they're ready. like homie said, some of yall just wanna lock down a chick while you continue to do whatever you want. I was NOT ready for marriage before age 26. you could have placed the most beautiful, perfect, and sweet woman in front of me. I would have cheated on her. All because there was a lot i felt I missed out on. at this age (29) I learned from my mistakes and will be a great husband. also i wasn't financially stable.

luckily I'm a man, so my "baggage" doesn't really affect my marriageability. i'd say that based on feedback I get from women aged 23-30+ my marriageability is at an all time high.

if you're really worried about quality women, change your surroundings. there's still quality women out there post age 25.

if you still can't find one, then don't get married. no big deal.

there's pros and cons to it just like there's pros and cons to having kids early. it would be nice to have a young wifey but I've seen too many women I know change and I'd rather not be on that rollercoaster with them.​

 

[BrehMan]

I say get married when you're ready. There's no particular timetable.

 

[The_Sheff]

When you leave college you get smacked hard with reality when it comes to women. Up until that point most guys been dealing with women who are at least trying to do something positive with their lives and if they aren't you can get the scoop on her before you even step to her. Out here in these streets you can't get a scouting report on any of these hoes before you put your chips in. You don't know if that chick is crazy, if she the neighborhood ho, she got a crazy ex boyfriend, etc.... Let me tell you from experience, its hard to weed through all the garbage to find the decent chicks again once they leave school. Plus other nikkas see this so the decent chicks are gonna get scooped up quick as hell once they are discovered so you don't have time to bullshyt around.

I met the perfect chick when I was fresh out of school and starting my career. fukked it up thinking it was gonna be easy to pull that calibur of woman and didnt meet another one like that until 5 years later when I met my current fiancé.

 

[L&HH]

Meh

Just cuz you get older doesnt mean your women have to

I was going to say this. There's a simple solution to that issue and it's dont marry a girl your age. My pops was/is 7 years older than my moms and he's like 5 years older than my stepmoms....

Idk when I plan on getting married but best believe if it comes to it, Ill pull a Jayz and marry a bad broad that's 10+ years my junior.

I wouldnt marry a chick less than 25 though

 

[biggaveli31]

marry a young broad brehs

 

[Demon]

Married since 26, been with her since 24....we still fukk like wild animals

 

[Trip]

marry a young broad brehs

WATCH: Smiling wife tries to hire hit man because killing him would be 'easier than divorcing him' - NYPOST.com

 

[M617]

If u wait u get to see how all the women turn out and pick the best from there.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

That's part of why I got married. My younger cousin thought I got married too young (23) but then he got married relatively young himself (25).

He said he just had a good girl so what else is there to wait for? He finally understood. I had a good one in my late teens and let her go. Mad hoodrats and scallywags later, next good one that came along I was able to recognize rather easily and understood good women don't come a dime a dozen like the rest.

Quality over quantity, brehs.

 

[Atlrocafella]

If I would of gotten married to my ex when she wanted back when we were 22-23, I would definitely be in jail and/or divorced. I'm so glad I got to see the real side of her before making that type of mistake.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I don't get the logic of "How is a guys supposed to know what's good at 22 or whatever", etc.



Don't y'all have good moms, who made good wives, etc? Like is it really that hard to know what traits are honorable and what traits aren't?

 

[cleanface coney]

I don't get the logic of "How is a guys supposed to know what's good at 22 or whatever", etc.



Don't y'all have good moms, who made good wives, etc? Like is it really that hard to know what traits are honorable and what traits aren't?

lol cmon bro....you know this website....i say 85% of these dudes treat every female they interact with as an event. if a broad was to not call them for 2 days they share that girl automatically ...lol if you marry young she eventually is gonna cheat on you or get wild...every girl is a certified hoe by 15 nowadays blah blah blah judgmental ass nikkas

forget the fact that you might actually be the nikka that she wants and needs

 

[kash10003]

I don't get the logic of "How is a guys supposed to know what's good at 22 or whatever", etc.



Don't y'all have good moms, who made good wives, etc? Like is it really that hard to know what traits are honorable and what traits aren't?

I think that is shortsighted though (that's not really on your opinion though), marrying someone isn't just about your partner, but its mostly about where you are at in your life and, at least for me, about where am I at in my career and the direction that I am headed. I think at 22, one could probably figure out who is good for you and whatever but most people don't know the shyt that they want or how to go about it

 

[TheBigBopper]

This is probably the case for down market, uneducated / bad schools people.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Why do nikkas act like being a whore is some internal growing beast that can easily be set free, before someone can truly commit to one person?

A whore at 20 is a whore at 30, is a whore at 40, is a whore at 50, etc......

You really think a nikka who drowned in p*ssy at 20, fukking every single one of those bytches, is gonna REALLY wake up one day at 30, STILL drowning in p*ssy, and legit say " fukk all these other bytches; I need to stick to fukking just one woman"? And actually mean that shyt with all his heart, and stick to that shyt?

It's not impossible but it DAMN sure ain't likely. If he do get married, best believe you better watch out for him cheating. It's like a porn star or hooker who suddenly gets all religious and starts going to church, acting like she's actually gonna find one man and stick to that one man for the rest of her life (and you KNOW there's ALWAYS some simp who falls for that). How many times have we seen that actually last? She might keep up the religious schtick but best believe she still servicing dikks behind the scenes.......assuming she ain't been exposed

I didn't say "whore". Any healthy young person is sexually curious and wants to experiment. If u not, u a lil A man at 21 is not the same at 31, when it comes to his interactions and intentions with women. By 31, an average man is usually ready to slow it down. "Playing the field" becomes tiring then and he usually is ready to be committed to 1 woman. Of course u got cats out here who still cheat on their wife but that's a personal choice and that's something the wife gotta deal with. But there are actual dudes out here who are faithful to their wife after being a player in their younger days.