so my homeboy said you should get married as early as possible and here's why

[Illuminatos]

Dont know if I agree with the getting married part but the desperation from older chicks is real out here. I know a homeboy at work who is talking to a chick with two kids. She's in her mid 30's, he's 32 not married has two himself (two different baby mamas ). Dude used to flirt with her with only the intention of hitting, nothing serious. She eventually invited him over and gave it up on the same day.

Fast forward a couple of days and ol buddy showing me txt messages of her talking about marriage and they aint even been together 2 weeks

Tell him to run.

 

[BillBanneker]

aite i was chillin wit my fam our homeboy they went to school with(they older) flew in town
these nikkas kickin it we smokin chillin and he told me as a man. you should get married as early as possible the 1st or 2nd good girl you run across keep her and dont let her go

he said the older you get the more you realize that bytches actually get worse not better. and if you got a good one marry her and dont let her go, and dont put it off sayin...oh i need a badder bytch....oh i can get a better bytch

said he to the point where he dont even like dealing with bytches cuz they be desperate and be wanting a nikka to wife em up when that clock start tickin

i kinda think it got some truth to it but idk...

But all the homies that married young say wait and enjoy the single life.

The only thing I notice is that older women are better at hiding their flaws. Biggest reason why it's harder IMO is that people have less social networks to work with when they get older.

 

[MikelArteta]

Dont know if I agree with the getting married part but the desperation from older chicks is real out here. I know a homeboy at work who is talking to a chick with two kids. She's in her mid 30's, he's 32 not married has two himself (two different baby mamas ). Dude used to flirt with her with only the intention of hitting, nothing serious. She eventually invited him over and gave it up on the same day.

Fast forward a couple of days and ol buddy showing me txt messages of her talking about marriage and they aint even been together 2 weeks

Sent from royalty using Tapatalk 4 beta

 

[ilovejesus]

My theory on marrying women is get them before they get destroyed.



Meaning this, by the time most women get to there 30's they have been cheated on and gotten their heart broken so many times that they enough baggage to fill an airport.
This baggage makes them damaged goods.


Marry a young woman that still has a positive outlook on relationships and still trust men. These women still believe in happily ever after and will be more willing to fight to make a marriage work.

So if you are 28 marry a mature 21 year old. With you being older your have more experience and this experience will help you be a better leader in your relationship.

 

[JillScottsHunny]

Don't get married period.

 

[ilovejesus]

My

 

[cleanface coney]

Sounds like a nicca who is desperate now.....he went wrong with himself somewhere

The older u get, the more options u should be having when it comes to women...if u find urself at 30 and feel like u can't find a good woman to marry, I think that means u and the best women ain't checking for u

Any dude who thinks there are any good girls left is a fool. Broads out here fuccin at 15 is COMMON. It's best to let young girls do their thing so when they married, they got all that hoe ish out of them. Like every dude should get his player on before he settle down. If u marry a chick who is 21/22, she gonna cheat, whether physically or emotionally. She gonna wanna know what she missed out on.

thats not always the case tho

not every female is out here fukkin like crazy

not tryna be funny but i say most of the females i deal with cater to me

if you dealin wit bytches that dont cater to you i think thats yo fault

if a broad really fukks wit you and you the nikka she want, trust me she is gonna be faithful

 

[Boogie]

Mature in mindset = mind molded by some other dude

Give me the naive young chick that I can mold in my image... id only get married if I truly owned her

 

[Metta World Movement]

Any dude who thinks there are any good girls left is a fool. Broads out here fuccin at 15 is COMMON. It's best to let young girls do their thing so when they married, they got all that hoe ish out of them. Like every dude should get his player on before he settle down. If u marry a chick who is 21/22, she gonna cheat, whether physically or emotionally. She gonna wanna know what she missed out on.

Why do nikkas act like being a whore is some internal growing beast that can easily be set free, before someone can truly commit to one person?

A whore at 20 is a whore at 30, is a whore at 40, is a whore at 50, etc......

You really think a nikka who drowned in p*ssy at 20, fukking every single one of those bytches, is gonna REALLY wake up one day at 30, STILL drowning in p*ssy, and legit say " fukk all these other bytches; I need to stick to fukking just one woman"? And actually mean that shyt with all his heart, and stick to that shyt?

It's not impossible but it DAMN sure ain't likely. If he do get married, best believe you better watch out for him cheating. It's like a porn star or hooker who suddenly gets all religious and starts going to church, acting like she's actually gonna find one man and stick to that one man for the rest of her life (and you KNOW there's ALWAYS some simp who falls for that). How many times have we seen that actually last? She might keep up the religious schtick but best believe she still servicing dikks behind the scenes.......assuming she ain't been exposed

 

[JasonSJackson]

Meh

Just cuz you get older doesnt mean your women have to

what this idiot said

 

[Huellz Santana]

sounds good in theory but how the fukk are you supposed to know the worth of what you have if you're young and haven't seen what's out there.

i think it's perfectly fine to get married 30-35

people change drastically in their 20s. i still love my ex but we probably would have been on the verge of divorce if I wifed her up when I was 23.​

 

[Diondon]

I don't agree with this at all

 

[AlreadyKnow]

Those waiting until they get older to "wife" a really young woman are walking into the gold digging situation they claim they are terrified of. What does a really young woman want with an old bitter guy besides his money?

 

[john goodman]

Those waiting until they get older to "wife" a really young woman are walking into the gold digging situation they claim they are terrified of. What does a really young woman want with an old bitter guy besides his money?

Women love older powerful dominant men

Thats a fact b

 

[cleanface coney]

sounds good in theory but how the fukk are you supposed to know the worth of what you have if you're young and haven't seen what's out there.

i think it's perfectly fine to get married 30-35

people change drastically in their 20s. i still love my ex but we probably would have been on the verge of divorce if I wifed her up when I was 23.​

true but a good woman is gonna still be a good woman

would you rather have her young...even if yall go through shyt yall deal wit it

or have her when she already went through some shyt?

I don't agree with this at all

i think its worth entertaining. but i think it depends on your mindset and what kinda nikka you is