i never ask the numbers question. i really don't care. the only problem i have with sluts is that they are fukked in the head. i couldn't care less if they banged a million people if it was just about the fun of having sex (provided they did it with a condom). the problem with these broads is that for them, fukking people isn't about the sex. it's about insecurities, daddy issues, borderline syndromes and validations, which means she'll be a fukking pain in the ass if you wife her.
There's been a bevy of great points brought up in this thread. Lots of interesting perspectives presented from all angles. But this, this right here is a fukking gem. This is so damn true. This should be highlighted and discussed more when the concept of sexual history is brought up, especially in regards to young women. It's way deeper than just sex.
The actual act of sex doesn't take that long, but musing over the intricacies surrounding sex can feel like an eternity. I know too many women that have participated in casual, premarital sex, open relationships and all that jazz, and they will go through bouts of depression pondering whether or not they're just an object in the eyes of men.
A female may have a high number of partners because she wants her carnal desires to be satisfied at different times, shyt, that's a humanistic trait, can't knock em for that. But for some, they'll feel worthless when it's time to reflect. I had a fling with a sexually liberated feminist for a few months. She had recently lost her virginity and had smashed like 4 dudes in less than 2 weeks before me. I didn't wife her, we weren't exclusive, but the "pain in the ass" aspect was present. Every other day she was asking if I "still liked her", or if I "liked her." She would proclaim that she "needed" sex, and would initiate the act between us every time, but would still ask if I was "using her for sex"
The shyt was silly.
"It sucks that I'm having sex with people that don't love me."
"You didn't come over just to have sex with me, right?"
"Most people who have sex with me don't care about me."
Even these one-night stand scenarios I've been involved in have included girls who quickly showcase their insecure side. "Are we going to hangout after this? Like, in the daytime"
It's a wild culture brehs. People want something, but they don't FULLY want it, you feel me? +1 on the don't ask, don't tell aspect too. I'd rather not play that game, I have no control over the past and that shyt just creates headaches.