i'm not trying to be one sided, but it's just not something i've observed. i've seen "lame" africans get with fat white women because black women didn't want 'em. i've seen nikkas who just didn't fit the mould for black women end up with fat white women. but i haven't seen is a dude who had the perfect black woman, only to diss her for an overweight white chick. im not doubting your story but the way y'all paint the picture is bullshyt to me.
y'all make it seem like a nikka will fukk over the best of black women, beat them, get them pregnant, abandon them. only to end up with an obese white chick, have kids with her, take care of their kids while ignoring the ones he had with the black women.
shyt is just too much
and yeah, black men often lower their standards when dating out. instead of using the self hate argument, have y'all considered it's because we're not nearly as vain as we're made out to be? once again, look at the picture will posted. you telling me if he wasn't with her, he'd be with a top notch black chick? hell nah, h
e'd be a black chick the damn size that got 2 kids by 2 different nikkas and a hair hat. sometimes you gotta look at your shyt options and make a choice.