Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

[Unknown Poster]

Besides i havent been in a real relationship at all or had a girlfriend in my 31 years on this planet. Id rather start there before even entertaining marriage but honestly i thinm alot of yall are sold on some unrealistic fantasies and magic beans sold to you...especially the women. Men? Us? We living in the real world. People are more fickle than ever. Why spend 20,000 on a wedding only to get divorced in 3 months? Seems like you didnt care about the actual relationship...just the ceremony and pictures and the event.

Man phuck that. Imma stay a loner possibly. So many of yall women thought i was good enough to hook up with cause you got bored of yo mans but never could consider me boyfriend material. Women are flaky. And from my experiences with a dude like me? You don't see me as anymore than a fun time and a good lay. Not as a person. Some accessory or sex toy. So why should i even be considering a relationship with any of y'all when it obvious im nothing more to you then a nice little escape from your boring boyfriends/husbands?

I don't get played by any of you anymore...i see your game.

Most of the women out there think of me like some grown ass boy and not a man and its condescending. Im not good enough to provide a lifestyle for you cause my pockets aint fat...but good enough tofukk or something. Man...what the fukk is wrong with some of you.
This is why ive never been in a real relationship period. Ive been around way too many dumb people who disrespect me as a person and think im dumb and can't be taken seriously to the point where im just about my own damn self. I dont need other people bringing me down.

You want me? Tough shyt. Have fun with yo mans. You wish you could have me...but obviously you dont even know what the fukk some of you want in your life. I do so i don't need you in the way making my life difficult.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Being single/unmarried after 30 isn't fun if you aren't out partying, busy or traveling ALL the time. Dont let anyone else tell you other wise. Its cool, its relaxing, its fun sometimes but over all its gets lonely quick.

If your living the typical 30 single life you probably want to settle down just haven't done it yet for whatever reason.


I love my freedom, I love alot of things about being single now, its just easy and relaxing. But I'd be a lie if I sat here and said, I miss not having some to lay up under me or just chill with on lazy days like this. I'm far from a extrovert and its still gets lame.



I think most men over 30 that aren't married fall under "haven't found the right chick" category. A mans financial is usually the last thing he worries about when he trying to marry a chick.

 

[Just like bruddas]

im not 30 but marriage is stupid u dont need to sign that shyt to create a family.

#GMB 100-0

This gmb is lame, you get married to make sure your family is straight. It's all about paper work so if something happens to you, your wife and family will be taken care of. Insurance money houses, etc can't be left to your girlfriend.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

This is what's wrong with lots of men an women these days who are entering or are in their 30's. They don't want to grow up, they're selfish, self centered. They believe that life and fun ends when you're married with kids which is not true. There was a thread about this on lsa and women around you guy's age were saying some of the same things.

Then they had another thread where they were bashing people who got married. I think a lot of you are jealous or something. & when that was said over there, they brought up cheating and divorce.

& another thread talking about how its better to live with your parents even in your early 30's and living on your own doesn't make you an adult.

There is cleary something wrong with people who are you all's age.

You can't not have the same amount of fun from when you was single when you have a wife & kids.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Besides i havent been in a real relationship at all or had a girlfriend in my 31 years on this planet. Id rather start there before even entertaining marriage but honestly i thinm alot of yall are sold on some unrealistic fantasies and magic beans sold to you...especially the women. Men? Us? We living in the real world. People are more fickle than ever. Why spend 20,000 on a wedding only to get divorced in 3 months? Seems like you didnt care about the actual relationship...just the ceremony and pictures and the event.

Man phuck that. Imma stay a loner possibly. So many of yall women thought i was good enough to hook up with cause you got bored of yo mans but never could consider me boyfriend material. Women are flaky. And from my experiences with a dude like me? You don't see me as anymore than a fun time and a good lay. Not as a person. Some accessory or sex toy. So why should i even be considering a relationship with any of y'all when it obvious im nothing more to you then a nice little escape from your boring boyfriends/husbands?

I don't get played by any of you anymore...i see your game.

Most of the women out there think of me like some grown ass boy and not a man and its condescending. Im not good enough to provide a lifestyle for you cause my pockets aint fat...but good enough tofukk or something. Man...what the fukk is wrong with some of you.
This is why ive never been in a real relationship period. Ive been around way too many dumb people who disrespect me as a person and think im dumb and can't be taken seriously to the point where im just about my own damn self. I dont need other people bringing me down.

You want me? Tough shyt. Have fun with yo mans. You wish you could have me...but obviously you dont even know what the fukk some of you want in your life. I do so i don't need you in the way making my life difficult.

Nevermind. You clearly have issues with women.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

You can't not have the same amount of fun from when you was single when you have a wife & kids.

You can have the same amount of fun with a wife but kids change everything.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

You can have the same amount of fun with a wife but kids change everything.

Not the type of fun that I'm referring to. But I agree, kids throw a huge monkey wrench into your plans. Which is why I rather not deal with a woman with a kid (that's another topic altogether)

 

[Illuminatos]

Nevermind. You clearly have issues with women.

Ain't have to do the breh like that.

 

[Nemesis]

these are all excuses bruh. you can be as successful with women as you want to be whether it be having a harem or finding a wife.


the ether that nikka must have felt. My uncle from Cameroon went thru the same shyt


nikkas really have no idea how simple they sound on that 'just get a foreign woman' train.


mom be stressin the hell out of me about that shyt too talkin bout she want grandkids. how old are you bruh

34

 

[Software]

Most gonna say b and c
But the first person to admit they aint married cuz they pull game weak is gettin repped cuz you real

 

[Unknown Poster]

And women straight up be trying to change me too. The moment that happens?

Obviously you didn't like me anyways...and want to turn me into something I'm not. I can only be me. I only change for myself. Trying to change what made these women attracted to me in the first place to be some other lame ass nikka wearing pleated flat front pants sweater vests and talking like he got a stick up his ass while you go shopping at pier 1.

Saw it happen to too many friends. Got married or werenin a relationship and just became lame...got fat. Bald. Lost the magic.

I just realize that i have to hold myself in high regard nowadays. Cause i realize women have too high of a regard for themselves...so why can't i as a man?

Why? Cause i don't play games like women do. I see through it. Most of yall want to have your cake and eat it too.

Ive had my experiences with many types of women. But mainly? Women who were bored with their significant other and needed some fun in their lives. Basically married some dud they can't stand being around but they stay with him cause he has money to buy them shyt.

You can't be playing with a man's emotions like that. This is why too i just have never been in a relationship. I know what I want...to actually be in one to see what it's all about but it's obvious with the women ive had my experiences with that they saw me as just eye candy and good dikk and nothing more. I personally would rather just stay that dude that these women cheat on their husbands and boyfriends with at this point. Obviously i got it going on...but years of depression from dealing with people made me not realize my potential. I personally don't even get the whole relationship thing anyways.

Maybe you women should stop settling for less cause a man provides security and actually get with the guy you want and take a risk?

I personally don't care anymore. I'm living my life at this point and trying to make a success of myself in this dumb conformist society.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Ain't have to do the breh like that.

Lol. Did you read his comment?

 

[GoPro]

Man, I'ma have to hold @1984 on retainer in case I go to grad school and need someone to write my thesis. Dude dropping pages.

 

[Illuminatos]

Lol. Did you read his comment?

Yeah. Dude is way to negative though. In one thread he's bragging about how women are always checking him out and how "hung" he is then he goes and makes a post like that. This why he needs to take a break from the Coli and not say he's leaving just to come back under an alias a week later.

Despite what the Coli says, not every chick is out to marry you, get pregnant, then steal half your assets a year later. Half of you nikkas ain't got shyt to steal anyway.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Pick which most closely applies.

A) I'm not ready financially

B) I'm not meeting marriageable women

C) I'm too fulfilled being single

D) I'm Gay and haven't come out the closet yet

E) Still working on my IT Certs

F) Other

because marriage is just a man made institution