Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

[dennis roadman]

Besides i havent been in a real relationship at all or had a girlfriend in my 31 years on this planet. Id rather start there before even entertaining marriage but honestly i thinm alot of yall are sold on some unrealistic fantasies and magic beans sold to you...especially the women. Men? Us? We living in the real world. People are more fickle than ever. Why spend 20,000 on a wedding only to get divorced in 3 months? Seems like you didnt care about the actual relationship...just the ceremony and pictures and the event.

Man phuck that. Imma stay a loner possibly. So many of yall women thought i was good enough to hook up with cause you got bored of yo mans but never could consider me boyfriend material. Women are flaky. And from my experiences with a dude like me? You don't see me as anymore than a fun time and a good lay. Not as a person. Some accessory or sex toy. So why should i even be considering a relationship with any of y'all when it obvious im nothing more to you then a nice little escape from your boring boyfriends/husbands?

I don't get played by any of you anymore...i see your game.

Most of the women out there think of me like some grown ass boy and not a man and its condescending. Im not good enough to provide a lifestyle for you cause my pockets aint fat...but good enough tofukk or something. Man...what the fukk is wrong with some of you.
This is why ive never been in a real relationship period. Ive been around way too many dumb people who disrespect me as a person and think im dumb and can't be taken seriously to the point where im just about my own damn self. I dont need other people bringing me down.

You want me? Tough shyt. Have fun with yo mans. You wish you could have me...but obviously you dont even know what the fukk some of you want in your life. I do so i don't need you in the way making my life difficult.

jesus bro you really cant help but talk about yourself all the time

may or may not have something to do with never being in a serious relationshop

 

[Illuminatos]

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1984 commented: (Son...id fukking smash you face in. Don't fukk with me. Ill end your life. Go stick a dikk in your ass.)

@CrimsonTider the biggest fukking drake stan calling me a loser. Lol. You are a punk son. You a drake stan you prolly want to suck his dikk and swallow his load. You got shyt taste in music too. You hate 90s ny hip hop nobody likes you b. fukk off son. You aint built enough to fukk with me you stipid bytch ass nikka. Stupid fukking dumb ass nikka. fukk you and your family for producing such a worthless piece of shyt.

Keep that shyt behind a keyboard son. Cause honetly i wouldnt hesitate to punch your face in you goddamn fakkit fukk.

Get off my dikk you crack baby. Embarassing ass c00n ass sambo black man. Go fukk yourself and die.

Why are you so damn aggressive?

You gotta stop that shyt.

 

[Drake is God]

That could be a reason why some older people stay married, but that is not a reason why younger people get married.

You sound like you're hoping that is what's happening to make yourself feel better. Putting someone else down to make yourself feel/seem better.

I don't care why people get married this was just an observation I made from married couples that I know.

I plan on getting married and also I plan on having a mistress or two.

 

[Nemesis]

Why her and why now?
& how do you know that she will say yes?

she told me she would marry me in a second but doesnt believe that I would actually go through with it....

the reason I never got married before was basically down to timing and nothing else...... most of my previous relationships ended because they werent going to wait around without any promise of commitment....once you hit that two year mark and you aint talking marriage, moving in together, or kids a woman starts to get antsy to say the least....

my life wasnt conducive at the time... for a long time I was heavily involved in fraud , then I owned a club so my life wasnt exactly stable , I left home at 17 and from birth have bounced between the US,UK and Africa ......

for a long time I didnt know what I wanted to do with my life only what I didnt want to do ....if you get my meaning

Im on good terms with all my exes they are all good women, and If I was more stable I would have happily married any one of them

Ive never had issues with women Ive had relationships with....thats why I cant relate to a dudes in here..... maybe I got lucky or I was just smart enough not to wife someone based on looks alone (banged a lot of pretty idiots tho)

If I die surrounded by my kids and grandkids Ill be the happy.
If I die alone without a family Ill be happy....

I honestly have no issues either way...... everyone loves their partner so theres no point in me extolling her virtues and boring everyone all I will say is for me shes the prototype

 

[satireprod]

A, C, E, F

No man should get married till he is somewhat close to fulfilling his potential as far as career and or passiong goes.

Most women want the finish product, not a work in progress

Real talk.

 

[Air Nikes N Hats]

Im 30+, no kids and living....enjoying myself.

If you are a single man, no kids......unless you mind dating someone much younger you most likely will be dealing with a woman who has children already, baby daddy drama, etc. I gave the benefit of the doubt to the last few women I met, with disastrous results. If you are a single good looking, career-minded man there is no need to settle for that shyt. It eliminates a huge demographic of the dating pool.

Marriage is a socio-economical solution, nothing more....nothing less (IMO, and I know others might see it differently)

fukk societies time tables.....keep in mind, marriage and family aren't for everyone....why force it?

 

[Rancor]

I am 27 years old but it is more of A for me. I need to find a better job and get my money up. I'm still living with my mom and I need to get my own place. Plus I want to work on myself. I'm overweight so I want to lose weight and get in shape and I want to learn a new language. I'm kind of leaning towards not getting married because I am afraid of getting divorced and it not working out. I haven't ruled out marriage completely. Maybe if I find the right girl but for now I just need to focus on myself.

 

[rahji]

All the girls I find attractive and lovable keep getting banned

 

[bouncy]

A mans financial is usually the last thing he worries about when he trying to marry a chick.

Not me, that's one of the most important things. Maybe it's because I've been fukked up before, and saw how people, especially women treat you when you don't have money to splurge on them. It was one of the hardest times in my life, and made me make money my top three priorities.

Women talk that love, and romantic stuff, when you are spending money on them or taking them out to eat, but as soon as you say you need to budget, the relationship is about to be done, unless you get money to spend again. Even when you have money to spend, then she feels you owe her shyt when the relationship is over, or you want to take a break.

I hate to say this, but for the average woman in this country(regardless of race or ethnicity), money is equal to love. No money, you don't love them because if you did, you would do what it takes to get the money! You can think I'm talking crazy, but until you fall flat on your face, you might think I'm exaggerating.

If you get into a serious relationship that leads to marriage, you better make more then her(at least $15,000 more), and you better have her sign a prenuptial agreement so you can be safe. She can still get you with child support, but you can easily fight that by having your income be part of your business, and your personal income won't show that much, and that means she won't get that much child support. Just splurge on your children when you see them.

 

[Clayton Endicott]

Because she said no

Damn...she had a breh that wanted to put a ring on her finger and she said no?! fukk her Hope she winds up alone with a gang of cats and b*stard kids.

 

[HopeKillCure]

What does someone e;se's marriage not being successful have to do with you? .

So men are better prepared for when their girl thinking, "I can't wait for him to leave the city..."

 

[Originalgangsta317]

@314central fukk you bytch

 

[Clayton Endicott]

Because I don't trust it, especially in these days and times...

If this was the 50s and 60s when blacks was standing by each other cause of the racism and black family was important than yeah

But now everything is about being something u not and money u better off by yourself...

Not only that, but there's a LOT of selfishness out there now, and male or female, you can't be a selfish muthafukka going into a marriage. That shyt takes compromise to work, and it still may not work even then. Been with my lady for twelve years, married for ten and I stay even though I think if our marriage dies it'll be my fault.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Yeah. Dude is way to negative though. In one thread he's bragging about how women are always checking him out and how "hung" he is then he goes and makes a post like that. This why he needs to take a break from the Coli and not say he's leaving just to come back under an alias a week later.

Despite what the Coli says, not every chick is out to marry you, get pregnant, then steal half your assets a year later. Half of you nikkas ain't got shyt to steal anyway.

Lol exactly. Some of these guys, him especially, need serious therapy.

 

[Sauce Dab]

Set it off Playboy

Nah I'm not gay or near 30 but I feel old tho