Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

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30 years+ of debt.

That's worse than 18+ years of child support.

Save up your money and buy a small house outright.

Its better to buy one house for yourself (buying outright), than one house for yourself and 1-2 houses for the banker (principal+interest).
this is very stupid

all my friends had 15 year mortgages including myself, and some are already paid off.

this was really bad advice breh. one of my friends made 80k profit within 2 years of his house.
 

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Sometimes i hear that girls want to grow with a guy and guys want to finish growing before they get a girl. Makes you think.

This is a lie and women that truly are the exception not the norm. To use a popular coli example...a woman that wants to grow with you after she sees that you've got 5 of your 6 certs ain't trying to grow with you, she is just playing a favorable hand.

The best thing for everyone is to wait till they've reached their goals and marry their equal.
 
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this is very stupid

all my friends had 15 year mortgages including myself, and some are already paid off.

this was really bad advice breh. one of my friends made 80k profit within 2 years of his house.

Majority of people do 30 year mortgages.

By your own admittance, most of your friends are still in debt through their mortgage.
 

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And what about the utilities your children use at their mothers house? The gas she uses to put in her car to take them to school? Health insurance, dental?

You're an idiot.
Thank you for proving me right about how selfish a lot of women are. We are having an adult conversation, but because you don't like what you read, and misunderstood, you call me an idiot. Fellas, pay attention. Imagine if she was my ex, and can't take the fact that she can't live off of me!

First of all, I wrote that the child support will be low, meaning, you will give her enough to do all the things you mentioned, but not so much that you are paying for everything. Women can work, and make good money now, so im not footing the bill for her lifestyle. That gas to take them to school, I can pay for that, but she needs to pay for the rest. Milage isn't that long for school, so save the bullshyt. Utilities, she can pay for that, if not, the kids need to be with me. The health, and dental insurance, I pay for that. The same as everything else. If she wants to eat name brand food, and eat out all the time, she can pay for it. Why would I give her a shyt load of money, and know most of the things a child needs such as food, and clothes, I can pay for a much cheaper price? Save the bullshyt for some other sucker.

When my children come to daddy's house, they will get the world. When they go to their mothers house, that's on her to do the same. If she was strong enough to break up the family, she is strong enough to support the family when I'm not around anymore.
 
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Majority of people do 30 year mortgages.

By your own admittance, most of your friends are still in debt through their mortgage.
all of us have made money on our house, we could in theory take the equity out right now and pay the house off. and its for the future. while my house will be paid of before im 35 you and others will still be renting property paying someone elses mortgage. bad advice breh. some 'debts' as you like to call them are worth having to ensure you future is brighter.
 

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C. I know i still got them "Fukkin Problems" and i aint gonna cheat on my wife so i gotta get all that shyt outta my system beforehand y'know.
 

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30 years+ of debt.

That's worse than 18+ years of child support.

Save up your money and buy a small house outright.

Its better to buy one house for yourself (buying outright), than one house for yourself and 1-2 houses for the banker (principal+interest).

Majority of people do 30 year mortgages.

By your own admittance, most of your friends are still in debt through their mortgage.

STFU you have no idea what you're talking about.
 

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lol my bad i been drinkin, didnt even read the thread title all the way lol, i aint over 30.....27 .....but still.....i like introducing my penis to new vagina too much....that probably aint gonna change in 4 years lol
 

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Not even 30 but the way I'm going I cannot see myself with a Cac wife or girlfriend. Rather stay single for now.
 
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Marriage is settling for the lowest common denominator between two people. "I can put up with your shyt, so I would like to keep things predictable."The truth is, as long as you have testosterone, you will resist settling because biologically you are designed to go forth and conquer. That's why brothers take a little longer because we haven't switched to the preservation mode yet. We are designed to go out and wreck shyt when we're at our peak. Ain't nothing wrong with waiting until you got yourself together before you bed down with a wife.
 
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